It s a mistake to be too kind, and it s a mistake to be soft hearted??

Updated on psychology 2024-07-18
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Alas, in this society now, it's not easy to be a good person, you should be a good person and help others with good intentions, but he said that you are a peacock and self-inflicted! If you are a good person, others will say that you are a bad person, and if you are a bad person, others will say that you are a bad person. So I just don't want to be anyone.

    Don't do good, don't do bad. As long as you are worthy of yourself.

    Originally, now I know the world thoroughly, and survival is really too difficult. It is even more difficult to live a good life in this world.

    If the human heart is as simple, naïve, and full of beautiful imagination of the world as we used to learn, then it is a big mistake.

    Life is not as happy as Cinderella and the White Prince. It's more brutal than anything else! It's so cruel that I have lost my confidence in the world to live!

    Honestly in life will suffer too many dumb losses! I advise you not to be honest anymore.

    Homosexuals! Let's learn a little about society! Know how people on this earth live. Only if you adapt can you survive.

    I hope to have a good time! ^0^

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The current society determines that you can be kind but don't be too kind, especially not too honest, only you understand, in fact, everyone knows that there are more well-wishers in the society, but in the current society. Alas.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is really the case in today's society, and I feel it deeply, but I just have a good heart, and in the end, it's me who gets hurt and wronged, and I want to change, and I have to take my time, because society is like this.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because the closest people will never be dissatisfied with us, so all the little tempers are vented against them, knowing that they will never really be angry with us, which is dependent on their love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There's nothing wrong with being enthusiastic, it's wrong not to be enthusiastic about the villain.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You never know how many versions of you will be in other people's mouths, nor will you know what others have said to denigrate you in order to defend themselves, let alone stop those unrealistic gossip. And what you can do is ignore it, and there is no need to explain and clarify, people who understand you will always believe you. My favorite quote:

    If you're not blind, don't know me from anyone!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, others think a lot, so it's enough to keep generalization.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Proper politeness is as it should be, and there is no need to be too enthusiastic.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, everything has to be done in moderation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Well, yes, it's too enthusiastic, people don't care about you, and it's best to do it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When the interruption continues, it is chaotic.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Soft-heartedness is not a mistake, misunderstanding is a mistake, and missing is a mistake.

    Soft-heartedness is at most a kind of "lowly", are you willing to live "humble" if you love someone? If you can't, it means that you haven't loved deeply.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Person. Especially men can't be spineless, so many girls. Find another one! I guess you won't be soft on her right away!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Can you forgive the hurt.

    If it weren't for the fact that you liked that girl too much.

    It doesn't hurt at all.

    Think about whether there is a future.

    If you have a future, work harder.

    If not, forget it.

    Don't grieve yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think so, if it's not interesting, you have to be resolute.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not soft-hearted, it's like. Like a guy is like this, the guy should have taken the initiative. Do you know her?

    Maybe she's not as indifferent as you seem on the surface, no one wants to hurt others, and you won't be happy if you hurt others. So get to know her and the people around her more to see if she is someone you should cherish, and what to do when the time comes, you should be clear.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe you're being amorous, don't be angry when I say this! Maybe she's a little nicer to you than a stranger, but she just thinks you're too nice to her, and politely responds to you! Whether it's wrong to be soft-hearted depends on the situation!

    When confronted with one that hurts you"Several times"If you are soft-hearted, you are cruel to yourself! Once, I also relented, and in the end I was covered in bruises!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After reading your article, I feel that you like her very much, and girls only treat you as an ordinary friend, maybe it's a wish on your part, rather than suffering yourself, it's better to know more friends, maybe among them, you can meet a girl who is more suitable for you and likes you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everything should be carefully thought out before making a decision.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Being good to others is not a fault, it is the other party who is wrong, and only people who don't care about themselves are the hardest.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Being good to people proves that you are very good by nature, and there is nothing wrong with that. But there are many kinds of good, and good is also divided into time, occasion, and object. So if these factors are not good for you, they will also go bad in the eyes of others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not wrong, but it depends on whether it's worth it or not.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    See how you use it. It's a mistake to be scheming,,, but if you put in the hard work, you will get unexpected rewards.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's really too much, and it's a mistake.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As long as you think it's worth it, it doesn't matter if it's right or wrong.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it depends on whether he has good intentions for you.

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