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If you're not together, why bother with that.
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It should be said that the fire is big! In fact, the girl just didn't take a fancy to you, maybe her aunt felt that you were good, so she kept enlightening her, and she thought she would agree to reconcile with you, so she said that she would bring the girl to your house, and in the end the girl definitely had no possibility of getting along, and her aunt may be making an excuse for herself, maybe blaming you for not being good enough for her. Men should be generous, there is no need to be angry about this matter, there will always be such a person waiting for you in this world.
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For a certain nosy person, you should ignore it, and if you are angry with such a person, you will become looking for nothing. Ignore it as much as you like. Maybe they want to, but they can't make a decision, I hope you give up automatically, make a decision for them, and solve such a thing at once, after asking for a clear attitude, ignore them, save them from worry, even if they want to, there is no need.
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Maybe what I said didn't sound right, and your reaction really didn't show manly spirit, and of course you were right to be angry that they deliberately snubbed your mother. Her aunt did something wrong, even if it didn't work, she didn't need to show her face.
There is a problem with your text message, you can't say you don't want to reply, don't reply, if you want to continue, find a reason to ask her, don't pay attention if you don't want to.
Secondly, how can you get that girl to explain it to her aunt? Whether it's for that reason or not, it's certainly inappropriate, and it's normal to be rejected in person, and you can't be obsessed with it.
Now, it's good for you and her aunt to stay normal, there is no need to explain what happened before, otherwise it will get worse and worse, and if you really can't do it, you will break off the relationship, what is the big deal, people live in a breath.
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In life, face is not the most important thing.
Living is the most important thing, and how to live is what we should strive for.
After chatting for less than 3 minutes, a man who had never known him said to me: I am a man, give you a face, you can tell your family, we are not suitable
My reply is as follows:
Thank you dear for giving me face, but I don't need it, face is earned by myself, not by others! I don't know you, and I don't know if we are suitable, since you say it's not suitable, it's definitely not suitable, you just tell your family I wish you a smooth work and a happy life
I don't like to judge anyone, let alone slander anyone, and I respect everyone's ideas, but it doesn't mean that I agree
All the people and things I can write about are not secrets to me, and I don't care what other people think of me, I only care about those who care about me
As social animals, we all crave the approval of others, but if you overdo everything and attach too much importance to the evaluation of others, it will cause you to lose your original intention.
Different people have different criteria for evaluating good and bad.
Most people's views are that Duan Jianyu has a position and intentions. Only you can think of yourself.
It is difficult for others to know all the situations and problems you are facing, they do not have comprehensive information, and their judgments are not as accurate as your own.
Therefore, what others think is bad is not necessarily really bad; What others think is good is not necessarily really good. Instead of caring too much about other people's opinions, it is better to take some objective and measurable standards to evaluate yourself and follow your own heart.
Do what you need to do as well as you can, and that's enough.
I have 2 married male girlfriends, as long as they are in a frame, at least 3 people, because they can't add unnecessary trouble to them, and the unanimous evaluation of the two of them for me is: strong heart
Many people don't understand why my 2 rich and handsome male girlfriends are so good to me, and even their parents once asked me: Why are your 2 brothers so good to you I said that I might feel that I am okay (Boom).
In fact, respect for this kind of thing is not bought by money, it requires you to be strong enough, bright enough, and warm enough. Those who love others are loved by all. If you love yourself, your family, your friends, and you are full of positive energy, others will involuntarily want to be close to you and want to be your friend.
So, I don't need you to give me face, that's all superficial work, you just need to treat me sincerely.
When I'm alone, I often analyze myself.
Which of my strengths are suitable for whom I am suitable for associating, and which of my shortcomings are destined for whom I should not associate
Which people do I want to associate with the most, and what qualities do I need to have when I interact with them?
Therefore, in many unknown conditions, I must improve my own comprehensive literacy to facilitate the sudden love
As long as you are someone worthy of love, you will always wait for the one who loves you.
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I have a good sister who has a very good relationship with me. From junior high school to now, the relationship between the two of us has not changed. She is good at everything, the only thing is that she often doesn't give me face.
I remember one time before, we went to the teacher's house to pay New Year's greetings during the Chinese New Year, this teacher was the Chinese teacher in the third year of junior high school, and usually took care of us more in learning, so we decided to go to see the teacher on a good day.
I don't usually go to people's homes, and I do go to my classmates' houses to play, so the first time I go to my teacher's house, I habitually go empty-handed. Seeing that the good sister was carrying a big bag of fruit, but I didn't bring anything, I felt very faceless, and this contrast was too obvious!
What's even more hateful is that my good sister is still laughing at me, which makes me even more shameless. I had to get something up, but there weren't any fruit shops around, which made me feel very embarrassed.
Suddenly, I had an idea and said to my girlfriend, "You see you have taken so many things, let me help you carry some!" After saying that, regardless of whether my girlfriend agreed or not, I took her bag of fruit, and then picked out a few fruits from it, and put them into the bag that I had prepared a long time ago.
In this way, my best friend's bag of fruit turned into two bags, and I smiled with satisfaction when I saw one person carrying a bag of fruit, while my best friend felt very helpless.
When I met the teacher, the teacher was naturally very happy, and only said what kind of gifts to bring, and it would be good for people to come. Before I could say anything, my girlfriend said, "Yes, you see she came with someone!"
Although my girlfriend didn't point it out directly, I still knew that she was teasing me, which really didn't give me face!
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There are so many experiences like this.
I'm the type of pentatonic incomplete, but I like to sing, especially when I was young, when I also had a microphone and *** machine at home, so I like to sing while playing alone, my relative's child, when I was young, often came to my house to play, and then once she came over, I was singing, she sat with a frown for a long time, and then said to me, can you stop singing It's hard to hear. At that time, I felt that the whole person was very bad, it was too shameless to give me, so I couldn't change it to a more euphemistic way?
There is also their own pet sometimes does not give themselves face, I remember the time when I first raised it I have been training it to learn to listen to instructions, such as lying down this command, I have obviously trained, and then rushed over to tell my mother that I trained it will be a skill, and then show my mother in person when the goods are dead and alive do not listen to me, have been looking at the food in my hands, at that time I felt super faceless.
Another time I was cooking, I used to stir-fry food will be something that can't make meat, at that time I watched a tutorial on the Internet and learned a sweet and sour pork rib method, and the first time I made it was delicious. My parents liked it very much, and my aunt was also eating at my house at the time, so she asked me to teach her the next time I did it, so the second time I did this, she watched from the side, but I don't know why, obviously the steps are right, and the meat seems to be very hard, and I felt that it must be the relationship of this meat, which is too bad for me.
There are so many things like this in life, and I'm a very weak person, so you know, I feel like I often have this kind of realization.
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We have to go through a lot of things every day, and we always have to meet some interesting people or things, and these people and things make up our daily life so interesting. However, sometimes, we will also encounter some strange things, which make us particularly embarrassed, speechless, and even helpless!
In a humane society, we should understand the sophistication of human feelings and understand human relations, but this cannot be an excuse for us to ask others to do something for us, and if we need help from others, we should have a correct attitude, rather than morally kidnapping others in some not so good ways!
What is face? How much is it worth? A person's face is built on his own ability, give you face because you are valuable, or because everyone respects you and thinks that you are a person worthy of contact, give you face, you also have to cherish it, not that you can do whatever you want if you have face, face is given to each other!
When I was a freshman, our club organized an activity, the program was a competition to select the top ten singers on campus, the competition was very fierce, everyone's performance was very good, and soon the top ten had been known!
Just when we were about to announce the answer, a student union leader came to me and asked me to give you a ranking for her girlfriend, I know that girl, her performance is very average, and even a little out of tune, this is making me cheat for personal gain.
I was very embarrassed, and he actually said, brother, you don't give me face too much, you can't do this little thing, then the activities of your club will ...... in the future
Threaten me, I'm really angry, don't agree, what kind of face do you have, I want to be responsible for the teachers and students of the whole school, responsible for my own club and statement, I rejected him!
Later, when he met me, he always had an expression that I owed him millions, and the girl broke up with him because he loved to brag!
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