How can a girl force herself not to like her friends?

Is there such a person in your heart?

You may have loved each other, you may have liked each other, but for what reason have you not been able to be together?

Maybe he can't chase you for the sake of righteousness between friends.

Maybe you weren't together for the sake of your family's opinions.

Maybe in order to go abroad for further study, he didn't ask you to wait for him.

Maybe you met too early and don't know how to cherish each other.

Maybe you met too late and you already have another person by your side.

Maybe you're too late to turn back, and the other person is no longer waiting.

Maybe you're trying to get out of each other's hearts.

But even though you're not together, you're still friends. But you know in your hearts that you care more about this person than your friends. Even if you can't just hold hands with him and go shopping, you can still be friends who talk about everything.

He has someone he likes, and you will help him chase him verbally, but you don't really know if you really want him to chase him.

When he is in trouble, you will do your best to help him, regardless of who owes him. When your boyfriend and girlfriend are jealous, you will reassure them that you and he are just friends, but there will be a trace of uncertainty in your heart.

Everyone has had this special friend in their hearts in their lives, and they have very contradictory behaviors. At first, you were unwilling to just be friends, but after a long time, you suddenly found that this is the best.

You'd rather care about him like that than you'd be together and break up someday.

You'd rather be his friend and not be jealous of each other, so you can really talk about everything.

Especially so, you still know that he will always care about you. can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, what's wrong with being his special friend?

This special friend in your heart. Who is it?

A lot of feelings, because of wishful thinking, in the end even friends can't become, often feel sorry, but unfortunately some originally good friendships, but in the end because the other party likes you, if you don't react, this friendship seems to be difficult to maintain, it's no wonder that some people will not take this step because of this.

Because it's like a bet, after confessing, you either become a boyfriend and girlfriend, or you can't even be a friend. Some things are not expected by you, maybe the other person doesn't care, you can still be friends, but it's not as good as before. It's a pity, it's a pity!

But there is another possibility that you may never be willing to be just friends

I had the same experience as you, but I said it. I'm still waiting for him, I don't know what he's going to give me. But I know I've taken the first step.

Next, let him solve it. You tell me? You like him, how do you know that he will not have a good impression of you, maybe, you take the first step, and he will follow the first step, then you can have a permanent relationship, so that you can talk to each other, but also confidant.

Do you dare to love and hate, what are you afraid of. If you never get out, you'll lose a soulmate. Even after the confession fails, you can still be friends, and you really don't have any worries at that time, and your heart is open.

Ha! Seeing you say that, I can already tell you with certainty. You've got a crush on him.

It's just that you're an afterthought, and it's really hard for people to wait by your side for so long.

Actually,It's not unacceptable to be too familiar with feelings.,You care about the eyes of others.。。 After all, you used to say so categorically that you are not boyfriend and girlfriend.

Now imagine if he had a girlfriend or was not as gentle with you as he used to be, would your heart hurt? Will it be sad? If so, make him perfect.

Hope I can help you.

Isn't that bad? I believe that your relationship is perfect, from ordinary friends to good friends to boyfriend and girlfriend, know each other very well, don't be afraid of anything, be brave enough to accept him, I wish you happiness.

Just like it, what are your concerns? Is it just because everyone knows each other too well? Could it be that the conditions for the release are not good, or that you are not confident?

The more you think about it, the more complicated it becomes.

Feelings are inherently diverse.

If you want to see him, go to him.

What's wrong with this. Do you have to distinguish between love and friendship?

Bring sand to the beach.

Don't weigh on your heart.

That's cruel.

Why force yourself, if you like it, you like it, there's nothing.

Why bother? If you have love, chase it, I'm optimistic about you!

1.In fact, about 80% of people in life are not married to the person they like.

2.If you are in love, you should like it, and your marriage should be suitable. What you like is not necessarily suitable for marriage.

3.So let go of the psychological baggage, and it's only a matter of time before the right woman makes you like it. And it will be happier and have a calmer life for a longer time.

Everyone has troubles, they want to get married when they are older, but they will not be happy with people they don't like, it is recommended that you overcome your shortcomings and look at the girl's appearance, as long as you learn to appreciate it, you can make a girlfriend.

A twisted melon is not sweet, practice is the only criterion for testing the truth, and such an emotional foundation cannot stand the test of time. Since you don't like it, why bother dating again, the final result can only harm others and yourself, and you may even catch up with your own children, which is too much to lose.

Being old is not a reason for you to compromise on everything, this is a major event in a lifetime, and it is a major event that may change the fate of a person's life, so you have to be cautious.

Of course, if you just want to find someone, no desires, no desires, simple, and a messy life, then this choice is understandable.

Life is too short to waste time and energy, and it will be painful to use it on someone you don't like.

When you are older, you will live together in the future, if you don't want to wronged your feelings, don't make a living, so as not to make it painful for both of you in the future, if you don't dislike her, then try to accept her.

If you don't like it, don't force it. If coercion not only hurts yourself, but also others.

Since they are all women they don't like, there is no need to force yourself to associate with her. Even if you are reluctant to be together now, you are likely not to be happy in the future, and you will harm yourself and others, so why bother?

The only way is to make yourself rational and calm, change your thinking, understand that if you don't make a choice, you will have no chance, the conditions will be worse, and you must keep repeating and admonishing yourself, so that you can date a woman you don't like, and be willing to get married and start a family.