I recently broke up with my girlfriend, and I reflected on myself and felt that I had a bad personal

You can't blindly accommodate, that will make girls feel that you don't have your own independence in some things. You don't understand the essence of the phrase "listen to the girl's complaints", which means that if she is unhappy, you need to listen carefully, not get annoyed, and on that basis, you must give her some advice. (This is a judgment on what you have done before).

Yu Qiuyu said a word. If you want something, let it go. If it can come back to you, it will always be yours; If it doesn't come back, it's not yours at all.

Now what you need to change is your own personality, not just words, but actual actions, what can really give girls a sense of security is to cover the water and cover it, not to make it disappear before the danger comes.

You're a good man, but you're too accommodating to her in some things. As a result, the more you spoil her, the more she will be sassy. What you spend, you just won't live.

It's all considerate like this, how considerate it is, both parties are equal, you are used to him now, there is definitely no good life in marriage, if you can't control her, just break up, you are too tired to live, love should be mutual, it should be sweet.

It should be forward-looking, let go, it's all about learning. It's okay to be good for the next one, and don't make the same mistakes.

Just do what she wants.

Some of the complaints and contradictions that have arisen over a long period of time do not arise all at once, but accumulate over time and finally erupt at a specific time.

If that's the case.

Probably because of the contrast.

Maybe it's because I saw what happened to someone else's husband.

Then I compared it with my husband.

I found out that my husband was not good.

Most likely, this is the case.

Because I'm used to it. Habit is a terrible thing.

Maybe it's because I'm asking too much. Maybe it's because the other party is too tired.

In fact, having problems between you is not what he wants.

It is related to the income of children when they enter a quiet period after marriage.

If you're sick and he's impatient, don't worry.

In the future, you can find your mother's mother to accompany you by yourself.

But don't think of yourself as superfluous, you're part of their family.

You have to learn to fit in, if you like it, you go out to find a job, and if you don't like it, you live in your mother's house.

You are all husband and wife, you still have your own opinions, you all stand in your own perspective to see things and do things, you are the first, and you must focus on your own interests. The road will get narrower and narrower. When two people are together, they must care for each other, trust each other, support each other, and tolerate each other to live a good life.

Contentment and happiness means that when others give to themselves, they should have a grateful heart, rather than taking for it. No one else is grateful for how much they give.

Hey, a previous blind date is very similar to your husband's situation.

At first, I thought he couldn't speak, just do things.

As a result, I found out after getting along for a long time.

Not only does he not speak at critical moments, but he also does not know how to do things.

Sometimes there are disagreements.

He always tried his best to get me to agree with him.

And it's still standing in that kind of lofty position.

Contemptuously told me to agree.

your yard.

If you want to be emotional, you have no feelings, and people who want bread and no bread will come to despise me and stop losses in time.

Originally, as long as I was with him, it was already my family's targeted poverty alleviation.

My mom just wanted him to look honest.

Not really. Sure enough, someone who looks honest.

The bad ones can't be prevented.

According to your husband is a very careless person, he ignores these trivial things, and you are the person who values these very much, the characters of the two of you have some passing meaning, then this requires you to communicate well, if you don't communicate well, it will cause a lot of irreparable defects.

If you are married, and you don't have a big quarrel, do you want to get divorced? After marriage, everyone is just living, and they are not in love, just chasing you, caring about you, and spoiling you. In a few years, he will be thirty years old.

Don't take yourself too seriously. You're too easy to get angry, and you always think you're a baby. After getting married.

You are not a princess, you are a good helper, a good mother, a good daughter-in-law. Mature it. Marriage is not romance**.

First of all, you also review yourself, every time you reason with him, do you lose your temper and reason, sometimes you lose your temper, the more the man can't listen, you calm down, tell him well, you really can't listen, you just be quiet, my husband and I are like this, but we have a cold war for no more than a day, and when we sleep until dawn, we forget, both of us are like this, don't hold grudges, things have passed, and the page is turned over, sometimes I don't want to be so serious, angry is not good for my health, You can try this, although it may not be right, I am mainly not good at speaking, I can't say it

If you don't have a marriage that has gone through free love, you can only get to know each other again after marriage and fall in love again. Run in with each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and rely on each other.

If you don't want to get a divorce, can you look at yourself from a different perspective and take the initiative to check yourself? Then you will grow to eliminate the depression and let go of the mood.

Your husband may not be very concerned about taking care of others, or he may not have good emotional intelligence.

You have to be patient enough to let him improve slowly, this is a habit developed from childhood, and it may take years or even decades of hard work. If you can't change her, you change yourself.

You take good care of yourself.

Love needs to care for each other, understand and tolerate, and it also needs to give romantically once in a while, so that it will be fresh, happy and sweet. Otherwise, there will be aesthetic fatigue and after the expiration date, you will not be happy, as long as you understand it, you will not be entangled.

The life after marriage is different from the result when you fall in love, there are a lot of trivial things in life, which makes people more irritable, and there is not so much mood to talk about love, sweet words are the trivial things of life in the face, if you have children, it is even more so, put the focus on the children, this is also an inevitable stage in life, on the surface it is indifferent feelings, in fact, it is not far away, only in the state of relatives in each other, can it be so, it can be regarded as a dull period of feelings, although the feelings seem to be dull, But the other party's status in the mind will be higher and higher, he agrees with you, you agree with him, but there are not so many sweet words, life is the business of the two of you, sometimes you need to adjust yourself earlier, your family's feelings in this regard.

Husbands and wives sometimes have to know how to be humble to each other, never unilaterally overdemand, and learn to be more tolerant and understanding, so that love will be forever happy.

In fact, if a relationship in love does not know how to communicate in a very stable future life, to create a lot of romantic situations, of course, many stories have unbeautiful endings, and there will inevitably be a lot of doubts and incomprehension attitudes.

In fact, why not think about love is mutual? Why don't you think more about the other party and ask for a better future? If you really love him and really want to maintain the perfect story of this family, I believe everyone should have a spirit of self-giving.

I feel that my husband doesn't care about me and is not good enough, I say him, he still quibbles, he doesn't think he is **.

Poorly done. But I told him that I don't like him like that, I feel the same way, I always feel that I don't feel that way, he is better than strangers than me, I can't see anyone for a day, I don't ask when I come back, I don't say a word, I don't say a word about it, I don't say a word to it every day, I smile at it, I don't say a word to me until late at night, I am more tired than anyone, and he also said that I have nothing to do??

No matter how good and loving you are when you play friends, everything will be dull in the end, isn't it, two people should be tolerant of each other and understand each other.

If you are married, you have to run a family together. Quarrels are inevitable, don't blame the other person, you have to review your mistakes first. You have to talk to him well, you have something to say well, you can't always see his shortcomings, and boys also need to praise more to perform better.

Save a lifetime of life, plain is long-lasting, your needs are not a little uncomfortable, time is a little dull after a long time of marriage? For a long time, don't overheat the sorghum, but such things may not be able to flow for a long time, life is like this, plain and bland, for a long time.

It's just useless. You've got to act, it's impossible for him not to react at all.

No emotional foundation, don't understand each other! Go out and have fun when you have time!

Women have their own intuition, since you have already felt that your husband is not considerate of you enough, does not feel sorry for you, and he doesn't go to connect with you, it is enough to prove that the man you have found, he does not love you at all, from a little thing in daily life, you can see a person clearly, you should carefully consider whether you should continue this marriage with him, if you think it is not good, you can end it with him as soon as possible, don't waste time here, because there is no need to continue to entangle in this marriage.

My husband said that it is not too much to let you take a taxi, but if you continue to be unable to take a taxi, you are not too much to ask him to come and pick you up, so you still communicate with your husband more when you encounter something, maybe you usually communicate less, and there is a lack of tacit understanding between them, this still has to be tempered in a common life, if this kind of thing does not happen frequently in your life, it is recommended that you still don't worry too much, and find a time to tell your husband if you feel dissatisfied, and your husband may pay more attention in the future.

Well, first, your husband is a person who is afraid of trouble, second, you marry a man who doesn't love you, if a man who loves you no matter how far away he will pick you up, and he also let you get off work alone and take a taxi to a relative's house by yourself, which is obviously regardless of your life or death!

The life of two people is to tolerate each other, understand each other, and care for each other, since you also know that it will take a long time, why not think about it for your husband. The days after marriage can't be the same as before marriage, you have to learn to adapt to that.

When two people are together, they should be considerate of each other, maybe your husband has something to do, and it is inconvenient to pick you up, men are career-oriented, you are his wife, care more about him, don't make trouble with him for such a trivial matter, cherish this relationship!

Whether your husband feels sorry for you or not is not something that can be judged by this one thing. Maybe your husband didn't think about it so much, just let you take a taxi back, if there are not too many other things that make you cold in daily life, you don't have to take this matter to heart, don't always care about who is right and who is wrong between husband and wife, as long as you have each other in your heart, I wish you happiness!

If you feel that your husband is not considerate enough to care for you, you had better find an opportunity to talk to him in the open, it is better for husband and wife to be honest, don't be too excited when discussing things, talk calmly, there is nothing that cannot be solved.

This shows that your love is not deep enough, love is two-sided, each other is considerate and caring for each other, rather than one party paying, one party blindly taking, first you reflect on how much you love your husband, and then think about his return to you. Do you have each other's desire for affection, and ignore each other's contributions, and manage your emotional family well.

If you can't get a taxi, you should be picked up, saying that it's cold outside.

Your husband is really not very considerate of you, and he doesn't want to pick up anyone

Well, find someone who is considerate of you and ignore him.

I was rejected a minute ago, I'm a man, the comments here are all adults, and I'm different, I'm a high school student, after a man is rejected, he must be sad and sad, because his efforts are not rewarded, chasing a girl needs to pay a lot, and then after paying so much was rejected, this is undoubtedly the biggest harm to this boy, in this case, if the woman is still looking for a man, when you are a friend, I think you will pull it down, it's okay to be uncomfortable for two days, who doesn't want an object, I don't want either? CP shows my scalp numb every day, but there is no way to pinch it. Regardless of whether she sends you a good person card or something, don't be too sad, brother, buddy, we men, the last thing we are afraid of is women, not now, it doesn't mean that there will be no in the future.

Remember, the bad ones will always be in front of you, while the good ones will always be waiting for you in the distance.

I agree with this man, he has this in his heart. After you rejected him, because he liked you too much, he thought, since you don't accept me, I don't want to force my beloved, I can't get her body and can't get her heart, why force it (such things are not uncommon), women are not like men, so he thinks that since you don't have me in your heart, I have to bless you. In fact, he is a responsible person.

I think after a man is rejected by you, he is running away, the favorite person doesn't like him too painfully, he is afraid that seeing you again will touch his heart and hook his own sadness, he no longer contacts you, because he knows that you don't like him, so he doesn't want to be humiliated again, and it's boring to ask for himself. And I'm afraid you'll hate his stalking, how many blows can a normal man withstand.