How can we be more tolerant of others, and how can we learn to tolerate one person?

Sister, if you ask such a question, it shows that you are not selfish and generous!

I forgot that it was the great man who said: "He who can tolerate others will accomplish great things!" So my sister will definitely do something extraordinary in the future.

But how can we be tolerant of others?

I think it's about trying to find the good in each person, and everyone has a lot of good in it.

Sister and you say a little bit that doesn't seem to have much to do with this issue, but there are related feelings:

My mommy once told me that anything, even if you hate it so much, if you dig deeper, you can find the fun in it. She also told me that whether it's for work, study, or a person, if you love her, she will repay you! If you study hard, you will get good grades, if you work hard, you will achieve results, and if you treat people sincerely, they will give you a smile.

When Mommy said these things to me, it was because my foreign language grades were very poor, and I especially hated rote memorization of foreign languages, and I had a headache and a painful expression when I saw a foreign language! After listening to Mommy's words, I tried to find the cuteness of the foreign language, starting with the beautiful foreign language songs. During the Spring Festival, I participated in the temple fair, I sang a foreign language song, won the applause of foreigners, they gave me several small toys that can not be bought in China, and took a photo with me, I didn't expect that I just put a little "love" into foreign languages, she gave me such happiness!

Now that I have feelings for foreign languages, I can tolerate the boredom of memorizing foreign words, and I can no longer have a bitter face but a smiling face when I see a foreign language. The reward of a foreign language is the continuous improvement of my grades. Most importantly, I found a lot of joy in learning a foreign language.

When I think about the past, I really feel a little sorry for "foreign languages", I am too prejudiced, too harsh and too lacking in "tolerance" for foreign languages!

I was a cadre in the social practice department at school, and I used to look down on some of my classmates, so it was difficult to tolerate their shortcomings, but now I find that naughty classmates are more distinctive, and I don't hate them.

Therefore, I think that if my sister wants to tolerate others, the most important thing is to look for the advantages of every colleague, especially those who don't like colleagues.

That's what I think, sister, don't laugh at me!

Don't think too much about it and treat everyone as your friend.

And it just happened.

Then relax yourself. You will be happy.

Think more about the worries of others.

1.We need to learn to be charitable. In dealing with people, it is inevitable that there will be some contradictions.

When there is a conflict, I can't retaliate, it only exacerbates the conflict. On the contrary, we should be tolerant of others, which is not a sign of incompetence, it is a great courage. Take a step back and open the sky.

2.Learn to be patient. In the face of small things, you don't have to earn a match with others. This will only make other people think that you have a small belly. If you tolerate it properly, the conflicts between you and others will be easily solved.

3.Don't be afraid to lose. As the saying goes:

It is a blessing to be able to suffer. "Life is not all smooth sailing, and it is inevitable that some unsatisfactory things will happen. For example, when someone accidentally touches yourself, you should be tolerant of others and must not bite others.

After all, we ourselves have this time, and we must not want others to do this to us.

4.Learn to respect each other. When we respect others, others will respect us. We can't impose on others what we don't want to do.

5.Learn to learn. It doesn't matter if we're in school or not, we have to learn all the time.

It's easier to get others to accept you.

Many people say that it is easy to tolerate oneself, but it is more difficult to tolerate others. In fact, when we think about it, it is not easy to tolerate ourselves. There are also people who think that they are not worthy of tolerance, so they always put a lot of pressure on themselves not to give up some unnecessary persistence, which is actually wrong.

If a person cannot tolerate himself, how can he tolerate others?

Sky. Only by tolerating oneself can we realize that life is not for others to see. Let go of the burden and pressure of the past and start a new journey, you will find that the road of life is getting wider and wider, the sun in your heart is getting warmer and warmer, and happiness will arise spontaneously.

Each of us has shortcomings, we may make stupid mistakes, in the face of this dilemma, of course, we can not turn a blind eye, nor can we refuse to admit it, let alone deny ourselves, lose confidence. If a person truly loves life, he will actively take care of his spiritual health, calmly face his own shortcomings, accept his true self, do not pretend, let go of his inner unhappiness and attachment, and establish a positive outlook on life.

White clouds. Embracing oneself is never the same as letting oneself go, and it is not about finding a high-sounding reason for oneself when it fails. To tolerate oneself is to give oneself a chance to breathe and accumulate energy for the next struggle, so as to achieve better development.

Even though it is difficult for a person to achieve perfection in everything he does, he must also have a goal or ideal. Therefore, it is appropriate to tolerate your own failures, summarize your past life experiences and lessons, and summarize your own shortcomings, so that you can continue to improve yourself.

Ocean. In life, if your dreams have been blocked because of reality, please get out of the shackles of your heart and learn to tolerate yourself. Of course, don't be others, even your loved ones.

Embracing oneself is not a sign of cowardice, nor is it an escape from reality, but a kind of wisdom in life. Therefore, when facing the things that you are struggling with, don't be yourself, relax your mind appropriately, you will find that the sky is high and the sea is far away, and the world is beautiful!

Method steps.

1 5 Step by Step Reading.

Be more understanding of others.

When there is a misunderstanding with others, we should understand others more, care more about others, and even try to think about others and not make things difficult for others.

Understand the difficulties of others.

We should understand the difficulties of others, especially when others are in a difficult situation, so we should be more understanding and tolerant.

Learn to empathize.

We should pay attention to learning empathy, and when interacting with others and dealing with problems, we must let ourselves consider problems from the perspective of others.

Improve self-cultivation.

We should pay attention to improving our self-cultivation, that is, if our hearts are clear enough, then it is clear to look at any problem.

Don't be extravagant.

We should try our best to understand and tolerate each other, not to be extravagant and understanding to each other, and at any time, we should give more and take less when we are in contact with others.

Tolerance and love are definitely the skills that everyone needs to have. How to learn tolerance and love, this topic may not be clear in the last day and night. Refined, these points are the most basic and practical.

Empathy is the most important thing.

Looking at the problem from the other person's point of view, many people can't do this. Everyone looks at things from a different perspective, and you need to empathize with others if you don't expect others to fully agree with you. Learn to be tolerant of different approaches and perspectives.

Learn to be tolerant of others.

A life of deliberation is painful, and if you live in hostility towards others, you will be miserable. When encountering some things, learn to be tolerant of others. To be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of oneself.

True love is respect.

The world is diverse, and there is no right answer. The so-called right is also what most people agree on. So be respectful. Respect for the way of life of others, and respect the way others look at problems.

If you learn to understand, you will learn to tolerate and love.

Learn to understand everything about others. Don't expect everyone to be the same, everyone has different experiences, don't see that others are wrong because you are different from yourself. To identify and understand each other.

It doesn't matter if the other person is the same as you imagined, but truly understanding the other person will learn to be tolerant and loving.

This is still related to your own personality and pattern, let yourself be tolerant, first learn to restrain your emotions, have a clear mind, and tolerance will be a very simple thing.

You treat that person as yourself, and everyone is easy to forgive yourself and difficult to forgive others. It's easy to tolerate yourself, but it's hard to tolerate others. Just put yourself in your shoes.

Don't make trouble with others, learn to persuade others, and you will soon be tolerant of a person.

Love is distressed for no reason, tolerance without preconditions, cherish the present, and be tolerant and considerate.

Think more about each other, don't always focus on your own feelings and take care of each other.

You learn to endure first, and then you learn to tolerate a person when you get used to it!

What you see is not seen, and what you hear is not heard.

Be empathetic and think more about others.

If you really love him, you will naturally tolerate him.

Learn more and learn to understand

1. Understand others more: When you have a misunderstanding with others, you should understand others more, care more about others, and even try to think about others and don't make things difficult for others.

2. Understand the difficulties of others: We should understand the difficulties of others, especially when others are in a difficult situation, we should understand more and be more tolerant.

3. Learn to empathize: You should pay attention to learning empathy, and when interacting with people and dealing with problems, you must let yourself consider problems from the perspective of others.

4. Improve self-cultivation: Attention should be paid to improving self-cultivation, that is, if our heart is clear enough, then it is clear to look at any problem.

5. Don't ask for extravagance: We should try our best to understand and tolerate each other, don't ask for and understand each other, and at any time, we should pay more and ask less when we are in contact with others.