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There's a strategy called whirlpool. This strategy can be used for girls who are not very enthusiastic. Because the girl has a dense mind, the more she doesn't reveal it, the more she thinks about it. It is necessary to take advantage of such psychological contact opportunities to improve one's position and space in the other party's psychology.
For example, asking for help, borrowing books, reviewing, buying things, psychoanalysis, are all good options.
For example, looking for a misunderstanding, a long-term lack of contact, a misunderstanding of text messages and words, and a friend's gossip about you are also an option.
The purpose of the strategy is to bring you together out of nothing, and there must be problems together. Once she wants to solve this problem, she has to think about it, and of course, when she thinks about it, you are always there. The more times you get emotionally entangled, the deeper you get.
In the later stage, your pursuit will have enough psychological position and spatial advantage. Otherwise, confessions and flowers without weight are all mud cows into the sea.
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Confession is the best way, girls like direct and generous boys the most, and shy boys, accounting for 80% of them don't like to wish you success! Note: Don't be too face-conscious, it's even harder to chase.
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Where are you from? It is more secure to send it through your local friend or by post.
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If you love, you have to be brave enough to confess it.
Believe in yourself.
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First of all, I must tell you that confession requires courage and sincerity (sincerity is the most important, and you must have the right attitude to confess in person, so that the woman feels that you are serious. This way, your success will be greater. But one thing to remind you is that when you meet someone you really like, you must confess, never say that you don't dare, let alone confess, and let the opportunity slip away from you in vain.
This will make you regret and will leave regrets. It's okay to be rejected. At least you tried it yourself, no regrets.
Here are a few ways to confess that you can refer to according to your own situation. Write a letter. That is, write a love letter in which you express your love for her.
Try not to refer to other ways of writing love letters, because it will be boring (because many examples of love letters are expressed in the same way, and the sentence structure and diction are also well known.) If the woman finds out that you are referring to plagiarism, she may think that you are insincere and just perfunctory). So it's best to write your own love letters and write your true feelings, which will impress girls, whether good or bad.
This method is mainly suitable for some shy boys and boys who are afraid to express themselves in person. Find a suitable time, ask her to go to a romantic place (it's better to have something in hand), and say to her: (must look her in the eye passionately) Would you like to be my princess?
Of course, to increase the success rate, you can find out what she likes through her friends and then give it to her before confessing. As for the location, it varies from person to person, and it is best if the woman likes it. If she likes the park, you can choose to confess in the park, which is also where the success rate of confession is the highest.
If you don't know what to say, then I can tell you a popular saying, and the most commonly said saying (note: if two people don't like each other, then confession is just a formality, she doesn't care what you say, how you say it, she only cares if you say it or not, so you don't have to worry about these words being too old-fashioned). It's just a framework.
You can change, add, or remove languages according to your situation. Talk about the preparation before the confession or how to get along.
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In addition to sending flowers when chasing girls. You can send him what he likes. For example, the snacks he likes to eat. Whether it's a product he likes or jewelry, it depends on your financial situation.
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I think you can choose to give lipstick or bags, girls are basically irresistible to these gifts, so I don't think you can go wrong with buying these things.
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To give a girl a gift, in fact, you should still spend some thought, preferably a gift that the other party likes, so you should learn about the girl's interests and hobbies, and then choose the right gift for her.
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Under normal circumstances, if you chase a girl, you will definitely send flowers, which represents your heart, and I think you can also send him chocolate, some girls love chocolate.
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When chasing girls, in addition to sending flowers, you can also send girls cosmetics. **, lipstick, skin care products, etc. can be sent to girls.
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You can give necklaces, bracelets, and some small things she likes, which are not necessarily very valuable, but they must be attentive.
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If she likes bright colors, give roses; If you like light, give jasmine or daisies, which are very beautiful. Imagine what color she likes to wear, and you will know what type she prefers. It's also good to check the flower language.
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Roses, just one piece. It's best to send it with just the two of you.
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Look up the flower language and see what you want to say to her.
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Don't send flowers, send those bear bouquets.
It's definitely more thoughtful than flowers.
There are usually flower shops that sit there.
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To be direct, nice to meet you, I want to be friends with you.
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First write about the perfect image of her in your heart, talk about how good it is, how he gives you the first feeling of how something is wrong, and then you are saying that you like her, may she not reject you, you are true to her!
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Writing about a bouquet of flowers is not romantic.
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You don't have to write anything, it's best to be natural
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Are you friends or just met.
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Of course, you can send flowers when you pursue girls, but you must choose a good time and method for sending flowers, as well as the state between the two of you.
If the other party has a very good impression of you and has the intention of being with you, sending flowers is definitely a good time to confess. Sending flowers at this time is undoubtedly the icing on the cake, which can make your relationship go further, and also make the other party feel happy and know that you really like her. I will also seriously consider the relationship between you, so as to have a very good effect.
At the same time, if you can encounter more special holidays, such as Tanabata and Valentine's Day, sending flowers will make you grow and show that you are very attentive, which will only make you have a higher score in the minds of girls.
But if you are in the process of pursuing a girl, you find that the other party is not very calling, or even in the stage of contact, and does not have much good impression of you, just out of the relationship between friends, will come out for a date or something, at this time you should be cautious about sending flowers, and at the same time you have to figure out whether she likes to say something. Some girls don't, like to talk, and it's a burden for him to talk, so. At this time, if you send flowers, it may have the opposite effect, and if the other party is not very interested in you, you must not be able to accept the flowers.
At this time, his servant's refusal clearly shows that there is no possibility between the two of you, and there is no good excuse for you to continue chasing him in the future.
In short, sending flowers still has to be sent to people's hearts, a good way, the actual delivery of flowers will have a good result, otherwise, girls when they say that they don't want to say stupid words, it will only increase the psychological burden, resulting in disgusting feelings. He is very embarrassed to talk to people, standing there is not what you want to see, and you don't want to hug people to talk, but the other party refuses, and in the end you can only throw it into the trash. Speaking should play its due role, make girls happy and at the same time let yourself achieve a certain purpose, this is the state and role of your speech.
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Just met, it is best to send it in person, and the express delivery seems insincere. So what color flowers to send?
First of all: It is generally believed that roses represent love, or are romantic flowers, so whether they are lovers or not, after all, it is possible to become lovers, and you can express your affection (friendship);
among others
Red rose represents passionate love
Pink Rose represents eternal love
White roses represent pure love
Yellow rose represents lovelorn, faded love.
Recommendations: You can send red or pink roses.
Finally: I wish you a successful blind date!
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Now the situation is the same as you, how do you do it.
If you can really do it, don't think about her, then don't pursue it, it's very simple, no need to say, just use your actions to explain it, that is, no longer contact her, no longer show your concern, pure friendship between men and women is very rare, generally one party is deceiving himself, do you understand what I mean? In fact, as long as you don't do anything, the other party will know, and they are afraid that you can't do it, and you don't need to do anything, and you don't expect to be a good friend.
Ask her directly, Girls like guys who are bold enough to surprise her, and if you refuse, at least she knows you care about her.
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