I m a college student, stressed, depressed, and thought college would be easy

If you don't do your best for your own university life, including university study, social work, etc., it will lead to difficulties or bottlenecks in your studies, and a distance from other students who are working hard, which will make you feel that the pressure of college life is much greater than you imagined.

In fact, the key to life in the learning environment of the university is your own self-discipline, and you must remember that it is self-discipline!

So if you feel a lot of pressure right now, first of all, you should see if you are good enough in terms of self-discipline, secondly, you should carefully set a goal for your college life, third, make a plan for completing your goal, and finally, arrange your time scientifically according to the plan, and the next step is to implement the plan to the letter.

I'm sure if you're willing to make your college life more fulfilling, you can definitely do it!

Bless you!

Participating in more social activities and increasing your social practice ability will also be beneficial to finding a job in the future. This can also relieve some of the stress.

Stress turns into motivation, keep yourself busy, and you will find that you don't have time to think about stress.

In the future, the pressure to go to society will be even greater, and everyone is the same. It means that you have grown up!

Work hard to do what you can do well, and don't have to be too demanding of yourself.

Normal. I also live in a cattle heap and am depressed every day.

You just have to work hard.

Sleep time must be guaranteed, and it is best to ensure a certain amount of exercise, in fact, the pressure of livestock is greater than yours.

Hehe, people are under pressure in life, and the important thing is how to adjust.

Therefore, the heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds.

The pressure of modern college students is very high.

Many people think that going to college is easy, because no one cares, and college students are free. This leaves the impression of liberating the current generation of high school students when they go to college. As a college student, here's what I want to tell you:

College students are not easy, and the pressure on college students is far greater now than in the third year of high school. Many people will ask, what kind of pressure can college students have? Next, I will take you to unravel this doubt.

Study pressureThe knowledge that college students need to learn is complex and profound, and it is not as simple as imagined. The so-called college students are students who grow up and teach themselves. One of the basic abilities that universities need to have is the ability to learn on their own, and it can be said that your self-learning ability will determine the level of your knowledge.

When you arrive at university, you will find that the teacher lectures are very fast, and if you desert and come back to your senses, you will feel as if you have missed the whole world. The teacher will not care whether you have mastered this knowledge, nor will they knock on the blackboard to tell you that this is a test, and all the knowledge must be absorbed by yourself. In addition, some of the content in the book is more profound, and you have to find your own information to understand, and the teacher will not talk about everything, everything depends on your own initiative.

In addition to mastering the knowledge of the major, you also need to learn a variety of skills, such as English level 4 or 6, computer exam, Mandarin exam and so on. If you want to learn more knowledge, you also have to consider matters such as postgraduate entrance examination and studying abroad, and the postgraduate entrance examination is no less than the second college entrance examination. It's no joke that college students tend to go bald!

Employment pressureCollege students are about to enter the society, so they naturally need to consider their own employment problems. Many people want a comfortable working environment, a well-paid job, and as many vacations as possible, but it's not that simple. Nowadays, the employment situation of college students in China is relatively grim, and many college students cannot find an ideal job and are unwilling to settle, so that the employment situation of college students is always unsatisfactory.

Some college students are born rich second generation and don't have to worry too much about employment, while other college students have to rely entirely on their own efforts to find a job, and such a gap will inevitably bring them a certain amount of psychological pressure.

Interpersonal pressureSeeing that many people around me have a significant other half in college, and then seeing that I am still a poor single dog, I can't help but feel a little stressed. It is said that college is perfect when you have a campus love, but how can it be that simple. In addition, you also have to face the pressure of conflicts with your roommates, after all, everyone lives under the same roof, and it is easy to have problems if you don't solve the conflicts.

In fact, there are still a lot of pressures from all sides, so I have picked out some common ones. College students are really stressed, so stop thinking that college students are easy and can easily mislead high school students.

Stress is felt differently at different stages of life. It accompanies the growth of the person.

Let's talk about high school students first, are they stressed? It's very big, every day parents are concerned, they are anxious, teachers are urging, and there are three or five exam rankings, which is really stressful. But high school students have a goal, that is, to take the college entrance examination and get good test results.

College students, the course is not full of middle school, about half of the time belongs to self-study, there is no parental care, there is no university teacher like the middle school teacher step by step supervision, only their own hard work is motivating themselves, it looks relaxed and happy.

But the pressure of college students is that in each course, the teacher only talks about the principles and methods, and a lot of content needs students to consult reference materials and circumstantial evidence, and the energy consumed can be said to be bottomless, even if you spend a lot of energy and feel that you are done, and there are other students who have different ideas from you, find different arguments, and the conclusions are far from the same, and when you learn that other students have very clever methods, there is no time to go back to work again.

In college, even if you are in the same class, you are looking for their own way, varied, ** in different directions, you have no bottom in your heart, and you can't communicate deeply with your classmates**, there are people outside the world, there is a sky outside the sky, no one else forces you, you only have to keep reminding yourself to go in a certain direction**.

There are differences between different types of schools. But it's not that others force you to work hard, but that you feel that if you don't work hard, you will be abandoned and left behind.

Therefore, college students can be said to be free of pressure, or they can be said to be "unspeakable pressure". Feelings can only be experienced through experience.

In terms of the pressure of studying, I think that the undergraduate is fine, and the most stressful I think is the graduate school.

Going to college is definitely more tiring than high school, in the past, except for studying, there was nothing to worry about, now in addition to studying, there are credits, some students may not be enough when studying, but also to manage credits, to participate in this activity to participate in that activity to make up for credits, resulting in less time to study, and the pressure of learning is increased. It can only be said that the price of freedom is not something that anyone can pay, in high school, you were managed by your parents and teachers, and no one cared about you in college, as long as you attend classes on time, don't violate discipline and don't fail during school, you are free.

Chaotic work and rest time, often unable to sleep at night and no energy during the day, in the long run, a vicious circle, no spirit in learning, no spirit in learning, no desire to learn, must be uncomfortable, anxiety and irritability will increase the pressure of learning. If you are so stressed that you don't want to get up, you just don't want to get up when you're tired.

There are many people around you who are better than you, and the scary thing is that they study harder than you, and every time you go to the library, you will find people who started studying earlier than you.

Confused, I used to study hard to be admitted to university, but after going to college, I found that there were too many choices to make, and I didn't know where to start, for employment, for life. In fact, college is definitely more comfortable than high school and society, and you will have all kinds of activities in college, big and small, despite the pressure of studying.

To sum up, the pressure of studying in college is really not big, and when you go to a small society, your mind is not simply studying, you have to think about other things, which leads to the inexplicable increase in the pressure of learning. If you can't endure the hardships of studying, you have to endure the hardships of life.

Don't think that you can easily spend four years in college, although college is not as tiring as high school, college students face more things than high school. The university not only focuses on education, but also develops your communication and handling skills. Even if you do well in college, if you don't have other skills, you won't be appreciated by school or even teachers.

Entering the university, we are determined to be a young man who can make a difference, and we are running for class president and Youth League Committee. Some students will also enter the student union, which depends on their own language communication skills, and if they do not have this ability, they have no chance to run for student cadres. So we not only have to study hard, but also exercise our other abilities.

And some students don't seem to have anything else outstanding except for studying. That's when you have to learn the skills. It's not like Imorizing knowledge in a book.

Communication skills are practice-based. Only by breaking out of your comfort zone can you make progress.

University is a small society, and the more you endure in college, the more you will understand, and finally you can have a better development when you enter the society. If you have nothing to do in college, you will be in a mess every day, and you will stay in your comfort zone. Then entering the society will suffer from the society.

It was too late then.

It's normal to be stressful in college, and being stressed means that you're trying to make the most of your college life. Allow yourself to be productive. Without pressure, there is no motivation. I hope the senior's sharing will be helpful to you.

It's true that you don't want to relax even after college, but only if you do it in moderation. There is a big difference between college and high school.

Students who studied hard in high school were admitted to a good university and change their destiny. The learning method is very simple, generally through the content of the teacher's lectures, the stories told by classmates or the acquisition of knowledge in newspapers and magazines, it may be difficult to really expand to their own cognition, and they have to pour the knowledge into the textbooks of fixed subjects every day, and they have to be ready to face the training of small exams and big exams at any time, and the pressure is self-evident. I had a period of trough and confusion during my junior year of high school, and the pressure and anxiety I felt would cause my brain to be confused, and I couldn't learn anything, and it took a lot of time and energy to adjust.

When it comes to college, it's a different story. As a senior, I tell you that the stress of college students generally stems from the unreasonable allocation of time and space. The learning method during the university will not be limited to rote memorization, most of the knowledge is based on the teacher in the class to explain the general knowledge theory, self-review after class, find information, hands-on practice to solve problems and understand the theory, once you can't keep up with or miss the course learning, it will be difficult to practice again.

I usually take notes in class, ask my classmates after class, or go to the library to review and understand the exercises, or go to experienced brothers and sisters to solve them, but I can't understand most of what the teacher usually says, and no one in the university will urge you to study, and in the end, you have to take the initiative to study and explore.

Finally, I have to remind everyone that in college, don't always think that you are liberated from high school, put your studies in the last place or even hate learning, the content of college learning is related to the employment after graduation. During college, stress can be relieved or eliminated in many ways, and the best solution is to allocate time and space reasonably, and the combination of work and rest is the best solution.

College is stressful and not as easy as you think, and you have to deal with other pressures besides academics.

The pressure you feel in college is very different from that in high school. In high school, all your pressure is on the college entrance examination and the expectations of those around you. At the same time, the way of learning in high school is also relatively simple, and the teachers will take you to review over and over again, and you will spend three years just to prepare for the college entrance examination.

In addition to academic stress, there are also interpersonal pressures and anxiety about one's future employment.

Studying in college is completely different from studying in high school. In college, there are very few classes arranged every week, and the teacher talks a lot of content during class, and you need to understand the knowledge points that you don't understand in class through self-study outside of class. University courses require a final exam of 60 points to earn credits, and if you want to qualify for graduate school or scholarships, then you need to score higher.

At the same time, it is also necessary to participate in competitions and win prizes in your spare time. Even if you don't have any ideas about these, you still have to take certificates related to your major in addition to your professional courses, so there is still a lot of pressure on your studies at university.

In addition, there is a lot of pressure on interpersonal relationships in college. At university, you'll have to deal not only with counselors and teachers, but also with your dorm mates. At the university, scholarships, grants, party quotas, etc., are selected within the class, and if you have a good relationship with the counselor, then the counselor will give you priority in these matters.

The roommates in the dormitory are decided at the beginning of the school year, and they will basically live together for 4 years, so the relationship with the roommates is also very important. If you don't have a good relationship with your roommate, then your life in the dormitory for the past four years will also be miserable. And it is more difficult to change dormitories in college, so try to maintain the relationship in the dorm as much as possible, and if you really encounter something that touches the bottom line, then you don't need to accommodate.

Although university life can be stressful, don't be afraid, it is precisely because of the pressure that pushes us forward.