My boyfriend broke up because I was poor, have you ever met such a scumbag?

My boyfriend broke up because I was poor, and I have met such a scumbag, because the reality is cruel. Money is used everywhere, so if you sell your love for money, such a person is not worthy of sympathy.

No, because I never fall in love and don't care about these things, I don't run into scumbags.

I haven't met such a scumbag, maybe it's because I want to find a rich woman too much, so I made such a move.

In a relationship, the material foundation must be a very important aspect, and the situation of poor couples mourning is also real.

Therefore, if your boyfriend is poor, so you choose to break up with your boyfriend, there is no problem, "your boyfriend is poor" can be a reason to break up, it just means that you can choose to break up because of this, but you don't have to break up.

Because we need to consider whether a person is worthy of being with him for a lifetime, such as looking at a person's economic ability; understand the qualities of a person's personality; whether they are responsible and self-motivated; The external image is to disturb the friend and whether it is in line with his own vision; whether they are comfortable with each other, that is, how emotional intelligence the other party has; Whether the other party is good to themselves or not, etc.

Therefore, you can think about it first, although the other party has a "relatively poor" such a shortcoming, is there any shining point in the other party that can attract you?

The fact that the other party is poor should have lasted for a long time, maybe when the other party was just with you, it may be a relatively poor state, so why do you choose to be with the other party? What are some of the things in the other party that attract you and allow you to tolerate such a deficiency as "relatively poor" in the other party?

Therefore, to judge whether a person is worthy of being together for a long time, we need to evaluate the overall value of a person, understand the overall value of the other party, and finally make a choice to continue or give up through the overall understanding of this person.

For example, although the other party is relatively poor, but very motivated, it is very promising to bring you a good material foundation in the future, plus he is very good to you at the moment, takes care of your emotional feelings, and treats feelings loyally and dedicatedly, and his external image is also passable, then he is completely a potential stock.

Of course, if the other party is not only poor, but also useless in other conditions, then it is natural for him to choose to break up because of this. After all, one's youth is also precious, and there is no reason to waste one's youth on someone who is almost impossible to bring happiness to oneself.

In addition, when choosing a mate, you also need to sort the value of your mate selection criteria. For example, some people care most about whether their partner is rich or not; Some people are Yan Kong; Some people are more insecure, so they care most about whether their partner can understand them and so on.

So I also need to look at what conditions I care more about when choosing my other half, and which conditions are relatively less important to me?

If for yourself, your boyfriend's money is the most important thing, and in comparison, other conditions are not very important, then you can naturally choose to break up because your boyfriend is poorer, and then find a richer boyfriend, even if the other conditions of the new boyfriend are not as good as the current one.

Secondly, you can choose to break up because your boyfriend's conditions are not good, and then find a partner with better conditions. It's just that relatively speaking, if you want to find a better object, you also need a high enough value condition. Otherwise, I can look at others who are slow to be locust

<>I think that the financial factor is very important in a relationship, but the relationship is equally important. Hopefully, through communication and mutual understanding, you can find a way to balance your relationship and achieve your life goals at the same time. Hopefully, these tips will help!

It's sad to be reluctant to spend money, but it's understandable for your boyfriend. I have a few suggestions:

1.You can express your feelings, but also understand his difficulties. Tell him that you want to be more emotionally invested, but that you understand that the down payment is important to him and that you can support him. This can take the pressure off him and also make each other's feelings more trusting.

2.You also need to have your own economy** and economic self-reliance. Don't rely entirely on his money, have your own income to cover part of your needs. This can reduce his financial stress and make the relationship healthier.

3.After the down payment period, you can discuss how you can better invest and manage your finances in the future, as well as invest emotionally. If you can build a common economy in the future** and can accumulate an economic foundation for the relationship together, it will be very helpful to maintain a long-term relationship.

4.You also need to understand that saving for a down payment and buying a house is not a short-term thing. This may be for the future together, so be sure to give him support and encouragement. In this process, you try not to add pressure to him, and you should accompany him carefully.

5.If you find it unacceptable, you also have the right to leave. But I think this should be the last option. Unless you feel that the relationship or the situation has become unsustainable, affecting your happy life.

Understand that you have this kind of thinking, after all, you have the right to make choices in life with money everywhere.

1: The boy is reluctant to be in his girlfriend. Spending money may be due to natural character.

This kind of boy is already very picky, and his stinginess is not only aimed at his girlfriend, but also at other friends, including himself. This kind of boy is more good at living, and the female surname should think clearly when dating this kind of boy, if you can tolerate his character, continue to associate with him, if you can't stand his character, break up as soon as possible.

2: It depends on what it is, if it is really when the boyfriend is young and has no financial ** in school or in the early stage of his career, I will understand him, but if it is a trivial meal and buying a small snack and a small thing, I will break up. Because a person who loves you will not have anything to do with you, I think you should have a good talk with your boyfriend about Sun Dong, I think his current state should be on the verge of self-abandonment, most of the men who are crying poor for money and women are irresponsible and self-motivated, and there will be a lack of self-confidence.

Also, you don't put too much pressure on him, his shortcomings can only be improved gradually.

3: The most important thing as a man is a sense of responsibility, especially for his own women and family, and he can't have the slightest complaint. Real men are the pillars of the family, the patron saints, they should always show their strongest side to their girlfriends, even if there is pain in their stomachs, after returning home to show a gentle smile to their lover.

Such a man can make people see his maturity and wisdom in him. After all, your partner and family are the most important thing in a person's life, and only by treating them well will life give you the best feedback.

4: In life, you also need to develop your boyfriend's self-confidence. Self-confidence is the key to a man's success, if you don't believe in yourself yourself, how can others believe in you.

Imply that your boyfriend is the best and only one in your heart, and every time he progresses in his career, even if it is just a small step, give him enough praise to make him feel that he is a person who can do great things in his heart. After a long time, your boyfriend will be broad-minded, and he will not be in the mood to cry with you anymore, and he will have time to worry about you.

You also have to encourage your boyfriend to learn new things, after all, society is developing so fast now, and science and technology are changing at a fast pace. In order to adapt to this fast-paced society, the benefits of learning more are especially obvious. He can increase the weight of your employment, and the more you will, the more you will be paid.

And in the continuous search, you will find that your self-motivation will be stimulated, and your energy will be more abundant.

I think this kind of depends on yourself, poverty is actually not a reason for men and women to break up, because poverty is only temporaryJack Ma was also poor back then. I don't know how poor your boyfriend is, but in terms of breaking up alone, you should break up with him. In other words, if you want to break up with him, it has little to do with whether he is poor or not, but your values are different, and he can't meet the daily expenses you think.

It has nothing to do with whether he is poor or not.

In my personal opinion, the kind of situation that I approve of when a girl wants to break up, the reason for the breakup will definitely not be the focus of the boyfriend's povertyIt's not terrible to be poor, it's terrible to be not only poor, but also lazy, selfish, and temperamental, and I can't see others working hard if I'm not motivated, and I always feel that this society is too dark! If the poor are only material, as long as you work hard, there will always be a better day, but the poor is the heart, then you can only hehe. A girl who was pampered by her parents has no obligation to be a nanny and maintain his poor self-esteem.

But if your boyfriend is only temporary, and you still want to leave, then I have nothing to say, because it's really hard to accuse you of anything, after all, as the saying goes, poor couples mourn everything. I'm in favor of that tooAll spirits are based on material foundations, and no matter how similar values are, they cannot be worthless. If it's for your own happiness, it's better to break up with him.

I don't recommend those moral kidnapping behaviors, such as sharing weal and woe, starting a business together, interdependence, etc. Even if you are married, you can still divorce him without any reason, happiness is in your own hands, and freedom is the same, but divorce comes at a price.

To be honest, I don't know why you chose to be with your poor boyfriend before, but I don't think you can be desperate because of love, you have to see if he is motivated. I am a very realistic person, I can't have a car, I can't have a house, at least I have to have a place to live, I don't have to be very rich, I can support my wife and children. People are very selfish, they want to be rich, and they want the other person to love you.

Then forget it! Even if he is self-motivated, what if he can work hard for a few years to buy a house and a car? It's not a good thing to wear him out!

It is recommended that you do not break up, as long as the person is good, faithful and positive, and ambitious, he only has you in his heart that is a talent, poor is not forever poor, and will soon be rich in the future?

Then it depends on how the relationship between you is, if the relationship is good, don't break up.

My boyfriend is too poor because he doesn't work hard, he still doesn't want to be motivated, he waits for food and drink, or he is just starting out and working hard, or he is still ......For all kinds of reasons, if it is the first two, Hao does not hesitate to leave him, let him think about why this is the case, only after correction can he work side by side, otherwise the breakup of the two will be inevitable.

The boyfriend is too poor, if the poor is temporary, that is, the boyfriend is a potential stock or a hard-working person, then poverty is not a thing, and he will be rich in the near future, wait, if the boyfriend is poor and short-minded and does not seek progress, then there is no hope, break up.

It depends on whether he is motivated or not, if he is idle all day long and does not do business, then break up with him! If he works hard, works hard, and is very self-motivated, he should not be disgusted with poverty and love rich, and break up with him. This is responsible for the marriage of two people, and it is also a kind of respect!

How old is your boyfriend? If you have just graduated, you are about 20 years old, and you are not a rich second generation, can you not be poor? Do you want to marry a rich man, the question is that this rich man takes you seriously, what your boyfriend needs is a wife and a home, and what a rich man needs is a beautiful woman and a plaything, which one will you choose?

It's not just about being poor. It depends on his prospects and form.

Of course, it should be broken up, because he can't bring you a good material life and won't give you happiness.

See if he is self-motivated, if he has no money, he is willing to spend money for you, give you all the good ones, and don't complain, just work hard to earn more money to give you a better life. Of course, you can continue to get along. But if a man is poor and short-minded, why follow him?

The boyfriend is too poor, if he is very diligent, and very smart, and it is not terrible to be a kind person, such a person will have a bright future as long as he works hard in the future, and if he is very lazy, it is a different matter.

If you are not self-motivated, and you are not a potential stock, it is recommended to give up, life is really not easy, bread is too important!

It is possible to break up, only love between two people cannot last long, and bread is also very important.

If you are looking for material comforts, leave him!

If you really like him, don't care about everything about him!

Worrying isn't necessarily a bad thing!

Maybe this aspect is a sign of being able to live!

Our people's life is one step at a time!

Yes is yes, no is no! Why deceive yourself!