What should we do if we dislike my boyfriend and are a little poor, and my girlfriend dislikes my bo

I believe that many people want you to be together, and they will say a lot of things about the greatness of love, material things, etc., in fact, I think the same way. But I'm asking this question from a human point of view.

I will also say a lot of reasons to let you be together, but I respect the landlord and my heart, and I want to share my inner understanding with the landlord's sister.

Because I love you very much, I choose to leave, there are many kinds of love, and giving up is also a kind of love (unfortunately many people don't really understand, let alone can't do it). Because I know that we are now coming together because of love, but time will destroy our love, and we have had very different living circumstances in the important 20 years of our lives, shaping completely different habits. Of course, I can't see it now, because of love, love will always make people show themselves perfectly to each other, our beautiful side is shown to our lover, and the "ugly" side is all covered up (let's call it a cover-up).

Time will reveal our archetypes, and at that time, we will both have a miserable time (unless you're tolerant enough, but how many people can do it?). ）

Although the road of life is long, there are often only a few steps at the critical point, especially when one is young. No one's life path is straight and there are no forks. Some forks in the road, such as the fork in the road, the fork in the road in your career, the fork in your personal life, you take a wrong step, it can affect a period of life, it can also affect a lifetime.

And now you have come to a fork in the road in life, you need to choose, and your choice will more or less determine your future life status. Please think twice.

Simulate your future life, in fact, you can see it: after getting married, because your parents are not optimistic about your current boyfriend from the bottom of their hearts, there will be a gap in your heart, and your boyfriend is not a fool, of course you know that your father-in-law and mother-in-law are not optimistic about him, is he comfortable? (He appears to be calm, and only he knows the undercurrent of his inner strength.)

If his heart is as calm as water, I can only say that he is a saint. At this time, love has been transformed into intimacy, and the differences in habits will be fully exposed. Do you know why many unmarried couples love each other and live and die, but often quarrel after getting married?

There's a lot of knowledge in that. Many people only see superficial things, and rarely see essential things, and the essence is the influence of habits.

Time is limited, so there's only so much I can say for you. In order for you to live a happy life in the future, I suggest that you can give up your boyfriend, shuffle the cards from the beginning, and choose a new partner. (It's not abandonment, it's about having love better, it's a responsibility to him, it's a responsibility to yourself, it's a responsibility to your family and your relationship.)

I hope that the landlord's sister will look farther. There is no concept of who is sorry for whom, you don't have to be afraid of causing harm to your boyfriend, if you don't choose him, he is miserable, then, he is not really in love with you, it is only the role of love, he just wants to have you. Loving you, will understand you, will give you enough choice, and your choice is exactly his choice.

First of all, you need to seriously think about whether your dislike is due to disrespect for him. Wealth is not the only measure of a person's worth, and poverty does not represent a person's personality or qualities. Therefore, you should look at your boyfriend from a more holistic perspective, including aspects such as his character, personality, interests, abilities, and potential.

Second, you need to rationally assess whether your dislike stems from your personal needs and expectations. Everyone has their own standards and expectations of life, but these standards and expectations should be in line with reality and also consider matching with the actual situation of your boyfriend. If your expectations are too high, or your needs are beyond your boyfriend's current capabilities, then you need to revisit your expectations and consider communicating and negotiating with your boyfriend to find a suitable way to meet your needs.

Finally, you need to communicate openly and honestly with your boyfriend and let him know what you feel and think. When communicating, you need to express your emotional needs, but at the same time respect your boyfriend's feelings and position. Through sincere communication and understanding, you can find solutions to problems that will make your relationship healthier and more stable.

What else can I do, I can only make money, anyway, this is the fact that there is more money and less money.