After knowing each other on a blind date for a month, the girl said that we were not suitable.

Updated on psychology 2024-07-27
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Since you have known each other on a blind date for a month, then the girl suddenly told you that it was not suitable between you. Then I think it's very likely that when you meet, the girl is not very interested in you at all, but she doesn't have any good candidates. For him to choose, so he wants to get to know you temporarily, but after a month, he feels that it is enough to understand you.

    found that he still doesn't like you, so he will make it clear to you, in fact, the main thing is that he doesn't like you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't think it's possible. The girl's meaning was obvious. She doesn't like you. Don't want to be your girlfriend. Forget it. Find another suitable one. Don't make people hate you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It may be because the other party has no feelings for you, it may be that the two people are unhappy in the process of getting along, or it may be that the other party sees your shortcomings or bad things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because the woman is not interested in you, she feels that it is not appropriate for the two of you to be together, and you are not the type of guy she likes.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe it's because you feel that your personality is not suitable in the process of getting along, and you don't want to waste each other's time, or you can directly ask the woman why she feels inappropriate, and get the answer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If it's not suitable, it's not suitable, what's there, I don't need someone to explain it, let's hurt you again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your money is almost squeezed, find the next one to take over.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you start with a blind date, it is actually a normal possibility that it is not suitable, and you should understand this from the beginning. Now that the other party has made a judgment, it is not a big deal to turn around politely, and two months is not too long. No need to say anything, just bless the other party, since it's going to end, at least leave a good impression on others, and it won't be too embarrassing if you see each other again in the future.

    Blind dates are very time-consuming to cultivate feelings, so if you feel like two people are not bad, let's continue well.

    He may pretend not to receive the message, or hit **, when you call**, make it clear but a little tactful, and let the other party accept it!

    Send you the song 'Don't Say You Love Me When I'm Lonely'

    You just need to know what you care about after what God loves about him? Is it the charm?

    If yes, care, care enough about yourself.

    If so, charisma, then be more confident.

    If you think about him, and you want to know what he is doing, then think about contacting him, don't be so jelly, and greet and chat with ordinary friends.

    First, it means that she may encounter a situation that is more suitable than you, and wants to slowly forget you, and also wants you to slowly forget her, and second, it may be that you don't know her well enough and feel that you don't really care! No matter what kind of situation it is, you first calm down and understand what the specific situation is, if it is the first case, you just leave quietly, there are so many girls in the world, so you would rather not marry; If it's the second case, you have to summarize what you have talked about in the past two months, whether you have done anything wrong, and then tell her well, if it really doesn't work, you can only wish her happiness! Come on, brother!

    You should ask her directly if she doesn't feel good for you? If so, then you don't have to force it anymore.

    What can you do, give up.

    Men can't be looked down upon by women.

    If you think she won't marry.

    Then let's talk to her as ordinary friends.

    There may still be a chance.

    But it's up to you to figure it out.

    This is impossible

    When dealing with things, the money spent.

    It's all voluntary, if you don't want to.

    Why spend money.

    There is no reason to give money back.

    Why do you give money if you don't get married? Aren't they all given red envelopes to matchmakers at weddings? You pester her to continue to introduce, and introduce her until she is annoyed and takes the initiative to return the money.

    There must be someone else, or they don't like you, they don't like you, and they won't like you no matter how much they chase you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. The girl on the blind date said, I'm sorry, I don't think we're very suitable, situation and analysis: girl's words, you might as well understand as:

    Declined". Usually you feel that the personalities and temperaments of both parties are not compatible, or you may feel that you have some shortcomings, or you can't meet the standards of girls. Recommendations:

    Although the girl is in her heart, the meaning of the expression is already obvious, and your chance is almost none. Unless you can meet some of the other party's requirements, meet some standards, and let the other party see your change, and at the same time pursue it with true feelings, maybe there is still a chance.

    The girl on the blind date said, I'm sorry, I don't think we're a good fit?

    Hello, there is a polite refusal.

    How to reply. The girl on the blind date said, I'm sorry, I don't think we're very suitable, situation and analysis: girl's words, you might as well understand as:

    Declined". Usually you feel that the personalities and temperaments of both parties are not compatible, or you may feel that you have some shortcomings, or you can't meet the standards of girls. Recommendations:

    Although the girl is in her heart, the meaning of the expression is already obvious, and your chance is almost none. Unless you can meet some of the other party's requirements, meet some standards, and let the other party see your change, and at the same time pursue it with true feelings, maybe there is still a chance.

    You can reply We can be friends first and get along for a while.

    Or do you think ** is not very suitable?

    We're not in a relationship yet, how do you know it's not suitable.

    We can be friends!

    He said no, no, thank you, how to get back to him.

    It's time to make a friend.

    Meeting is fate, you can be a friend, if the other party really doesn't want to, then don't consider it, because that kind of rejection, the other party really doesn't want to.

    It's okay not to make friends, but we can get to know each other first."

    If you don't make friends with me, you're losing a chance to prove you.

    I asked him if it didn't fit there, he said he felt it, how would I reply.

    It doesn't feel accurate.

    Let's make a friend and talk to each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. The utilitarian nature of the blind date is very clear and strong.

    2. The blind date is a stranger and has no emotional basis. The man's economic base plays a decisive role.

    3. The two parties on the blind date are basically unsuccessful in free love.

    4. Both parties on a blind date are generally older and have certain social experience.

    5. Blind date women are basically very materialistic, and they pay great attention to the man's conditions (appearance, economic income). Some men with good conditions can find a beautiful woman in their 20s in their forties and fifties.

    6. The society is very realistic, the blind date love marriage is more realistic, and the man's financial income is the pillar of the whole family. The blind date woman's economic needs are tactful or direct, they will be revealed, and their gentleness and thoughtfulness need to be paid by the man's economy.

    7. If the concept and values of the blind date are appropriate, they will talk, otherwise they will refuse euphemistically, and both parties should not waste money and time.

    9. On the first side of the blind date, at most a cup of tea, don't spend too much. After all, the blind date is a stranger, if you are satisfied, you can talk, if you don't like to find a reason to leave, even a cup of tea money will be saved.

    10. No matter what the result of the blind date, it is best to report to the introducer, and there are some things that the introducer can say better.

    11, if the blind date is successful, it is the best, everyone is happy. Even if the blind date is unsuccessful, be natural and generous. The blind date is a stranger, and both parties have not invested too much, and it is okay to be a stranger if they don't succeed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hello friend, the girl on a blind date, if you are told that it is not suitable, it should be impossible. If it is not arranged by the parents to tell you directly that it is not suitable, it may be a direct refusal to you, it is best not to go for a long time, if the situation arranged by the parents is changed, then the banquet judgment may also be possible, but now the freedom of marriage is generally to be quietly made by yourself, indicating that this woman is also comparative. Cheerful and lively.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's still possible, this is the first impression, and it can be changed slowly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If it is not appropriate.

    Then the first impression is not good.

    The chances are scarce.

    In general, it should be abandoned.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Definitely no, it's a very direct expression, you guys are not suitable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it depends on what he thinks is inappropriate, and if you can fix these problems, then there is hope.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is generally impossible for a blind date girl to say that it is not suitable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If it's not suitable, forget it, replace it with another one.

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