It s all angry and scolding, how did men and women scold people in ancient times?

In ancient times, men paid attention to red tape after all, even if they scolded people, they were more literary, but women were different, because most women in ancient times were uneducated, so scolding was more pungent and spicy.

Ancient people were very gentlemanly, even when scolding, they didn't need to use foul language, they were very polite, but they were actually scolding.

The same as we do now, it is just the classical Chinese used, such as "vertical son", "boy" and "inhuman", these are the mantras of the ancients who cursed people.

A man who loves to scold women and swear words, never marry, live in abuse every day, do you think you will live a happy life. You will only become more and more humble and lose your self-confidence.

I don't think it's okay, a man who swears casually and scolds women, I think he is unreliable, and he must not be forced to commit domestic violence in the future.

Can't want it, because in his heart a woman has no status, this person can't control his emotions, and he is a very failed man.

I don't think you can ask for it, because a man's cultivation determines his future standard of living, and it is not right for him to scold a woman like this.

I can't ask for it, I can't accept it anyway, he can scold you now, he can beat you later, a person who can't even control his mouth, I don't believe he can do anything.

No. This not only proves that this man is of low quality, but also that he has no respect for women. Living with this kind of person can only have endless swear words and pull down your level.

No. This kind of man will scold you whenever something happens, and may even start beating people. For the sake of happiness in the future, be sure to think clearly.

Of course not. This kind of man must not have much to do, and he is narrow-minded and has no brains. Don't have any entanglement with him.

This kind of man can't be wanted, because this kind of man doesn't have the psychology of the public, so he can't take good care of you. You and him won't have a good life in the future.

Of course not, this kind of man is of low quality, and if you live with him, it will be painful, and there will be a lot of scolding every day.

Don't ask for it, that would be the beginning of masochism! Soon fall into the abyss of pain!

Some people say that swearing is a culture. It's the first time I've heard of it, but it's been a thousand years since I cursed. Modern people believe that ancient people spoke or scolded others, and they had the air of a scholar.

But they are all wrong, not only in modern times, but also in ancient times, and the ancients scolded people in a variety of ways, which is unbelievable. Some people want to ask, how ugly was the swear words of the ancients, and how did ancient women scold people?

Let's take a look at the woman in the Dream of Red Mansions, Lin Daiyu is a sad and withdrawn person, Lin Daiyu's scolding is not ambiguous at all, it is still the kind of scolding with a bit of cultural color, but Lin Daiyu also said similar foul language. In Chapter 49 of "Dream of Red Mansions", Lin Daiyu saw the clothes Shi Xiangyun was wearing and said with a smile: "Look, Sun Xingzhi is here."

He usually holds a snow coat and deliberately pretends to be a little dazi. "Tatsuko"It's a contemptuous word, thinking it's already clear.

Also, Wang Xifeng is in power in Jiafu and has a noble status, but he also says some curse words. Even Jia's mother scolded "a wife with a rotten tongue", and Wang Xifeng's husband Jia Lian also said swear words of "raising such unreasonable black heart seeds". Aunt Zhao, the second master of Rongguo Mansion, is Jia Zheng's concubine, and people with decent status can say dirty words, not to mention Aunt Zhao, needless to say, like "obscene things" and "obscene and non-rigid", they will come when they open their mouths.

Jia's mother's eldest maid rings mandarin ducks, who are deeply trusted, and have a very high status in Yahuan, and she scolds people to a greater extent, such as "You're about to hold your mouth here, there are so many of them......If I don't lose my face, you will shrink your neck, and life and death will be up to me. ”

Qingwen, the head of the Jinling Twelve Hairpins, is the head of the four big girls in Jia Baoyu's room, although she is the head of the girl, she lives a life like a young lady, and her personality is that she doesn't care about people, scolds people without dirty words, and can make people half dead. Once, when Qingwen was changing Jia Baoyu's clothes, she accidentally broke Jia Baoyu's fan, and Jia Baoyu was in a very bad mood, so she said a few words to Qingwen, and Qingwen retorted: "The second master has been very angry recently, and he will show his face when he acts."

Even attacked people before, but now they are looking for us. If you want to kick, you have to beat him. Even if you fall a fan, it's a common thing.

At first, even such a glass jar, the agate bowl was damaged, and I didn't see an atmosphere, but this time a fan was just like this. Why bother! If you want to think about us, we will send us away, and then pick the good ones.

It's good to be separated, but it's not good? As soon as these words came out, Jia Baoyu was very angry, but Qingwen still did not retreat. Through "Dream of Red Mansions", I know that the ancients scolded people very much, and they were better than modern people!!

Without basic literacy, you can't ask for it.

I think it's best not to ask for a man who scolds a woman, this directly affects whether you will be happy in your future life and whether you will live happily. Now it's wrong to scold people, whether it's male or female, it's wrong for a man to scold a woman, and it shouldn't be right for a woman to scold a man. In other words, everyone is under a lot of pressure in life, and these pressures are piled up and need a way to vent if a person has been under pressure from another person for a long time, feeling aggrieved, painful, and angry.

So it's also human instinct to scold on the spot, although the person being scolded is uncomfortable, but it doesn't mean that all the people who are scolded are justified, you say so, right?

The so-called gentlemanly demeanor, I think everyone knows that it is a hypocritical thing, a man who always talks about gentlemanly demeanor, do you think you can trust? Take 10,000 steps back, it's still good to scold you on the spot, if his kind of person who endures it to the death, after enduring it for a long time, is it more terrible to collapse and kill you one day? Such examples are not for nothing!

It will be much easier to get along with people, take a step back from each other, and leave a little room to maneuver.

Note that I am talking about getting along with people, don't care about the difference between men and women, and the mentality of equality for everyone must grasp that most of the current boys and girls do not lack education, and the most lacking is upbringing! And upbringing is the best reflection of a person's qualities! What girls lack most in their upbringing is the reserve and self-esteem they should have.

Because they don't understand that the brightest charm of a girl is gentleness and reason! What is most lacking in terms of upbringing is the gentlemanly demeanor and respect for people!

These people don't know how to respect the elderly, women, or other kinds of people! The typical manifestation of an uneducated person is an extreme ego. This kind of self is also different from the principled self.

Everything is personal-centered, and the emotional manifestation is that love doesn't need a reason! Dirty language is only one aspect of uncultured. Swearing, especially in public, is a form of personal quality.

When falling in love with the opposite sex, in order to gain the favor of the other party, many people will consciously cover up their obvious shortcomings. But over time, behaviors that express personal qualities will naturally emerge. This is also the truth we say, love must have a sufficient length of time.

Otherwise, there will be a situation where both parties do not know enough, resulting in serious marriage and love problems! In fact, to be honest, scolding has little to do with whether you love you or not, but whether you can accept a man who is flawed in his upbringing!