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Mencius's mother and Yue Fei's mother are undeniably two great women, and there are many similarities between the two, such as the fact that they both taught the most brilliant figures in Chinese history, such as the fact that their husbands died when their children were young, for example, they both had only one child [this should also be a very important factor for Mencius and Yue Fei to be educated, because their mothers could spend all their time, energy, and money on their only son], and for example, they both kept festivals and did not remarry... ...Wait a minute.
So as mothers, they must be very successful and excellent, and it is not easy to compare their superiority. [Although later generations listed her and Ouyang Xiu's mother Ou Mu, the mother of Yue Fei, the mother of "Jing Zhong Serving the Country", and Tao Mu, the mother of Tao Kan, a famous general of the Jin Dynasty, as a model of motherhood, known as China's "Four Great Virtuous Mothers", and ranked first among the "Virtuous Mothers". But I didn't give a good reason, I can't say whose son is well-known and whose mother is the best if he has great achievements.
Then I have every reason to think that the mother of Confucius and Lao Tzu is the greatest ......The following is my own shallow opinion, if there is any disrespect to the mother of the two saints, please ask the ten directions of heaven and earth ghost god Haihan.
Personally, I think Mencius's mother is more suitable to be the image spokesperson for Mother's Day. The reason is that Meng's mother is more open-minded in the education of her children, her observation is more subtle, her methods are more flexible, and her intentions are more good. The historical evaluation of Meng's mother is:
Diligent and thrifty, with hard work, adhere to the festival, raise his son, from the beginning, inspirational, dignified, exhortant to learn to the ceremony, into gold, dozens of days, the slightest button, not relaxed, not only the achievement of Mencius, but also the mother of later generations to leave a complete set of godson program. ”
It's a pity that there is not much information about Meng's mother and godson in history, and the most famous should be the story of Meng's mother's three moves and the broken godson. Let's try to analyze Meng's mother's thoughts and methods on children's education from these two cases.
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a Mencius was able to become a "sub-sage", the second highest position in the orthodox ideology of Chinese feudal society, second only to Confucius, thanks to his mother. Mencius's mother was a great woman, she was diligent and thrifty, with hard work to adhere to the festival, raising her son, from the beginning, inspirational, dignified, diligent learning to the ceremony, into gold, decades as a day, the slightest link, not relaxed, not only the achievement of Mencius, but also the later generations of mothers left a complete set of godson program, she herself has become a model mother for thousands of years, belongs to a typical Chinese mother.
Meng's mother not only carefully paid attention to her son's daily life, but also took the trouble to improve her son's personality with "words and teaching" and "example". In general, a person's basic personality is basically formed before the age of six, and it is deeply ingrained from then on. After the age of six, the range of activities gradually expands, and it will naturally be affected by the surrounding environment, so that the fragile personality model that has been shaped has been formed will encounter strong trials and tests.
Meng's mother suddenly found that her son, who had always been smart and obedient, had been affected by the bad environment, and since then, in order to find a good living and learning environment for her son, Meng's mother has started a long period of relocation activities, and still has left the beautiful talk of "Meng's mother's three moves".
Being a man requires honesty, the so-called "words must be done, deeds must be fruitful." When the Meng family was still living next to the Miaohuying Village Market, someone in the east neighbor killed pigs, and Mencius asked his mother in confusion: "What is the neighbor doing killing pigs?"
Meng Mu was busy at the time, so she casually responded: "Give it to you!" Mencius was very happy to wait for the meat, and in order not to lose her faith in her son, Mengzi's mother endured the pain and spent part of her money to buy a piece of meat, so that her son could eat it happily.
We must have perseverance in doing things, and once we have identified the goal, we will not be disturbed by the outside world. Mencius was born with spirituality and wisdom, but he also had the habit of laziness and playfulness common to young children. One day, Mencius skipped school and played outside for a long time.
When her son came home, Meng's mother silently picked up a pair of scissors, clicked a piece of brocade silk and cut it into two sections. If you don't study today, you can't leave the disaster, and in the future, you will only do some lingering little things, and the middle way will be wasted and not done, how can you dress his husband and son, and there is no shortage of food?
Meng's mother used "broken weaving" as a warning for "dropping out of school", pointing out that giving up halfway is a very serious consequence. The scene of "Breaking the Weaving Inspector" left a vivid impression of both shock and fear in Mencius's small heart, and since then he has been diligently learning day and night.
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a, Mencius's mother is the most important figure for Mencius to become a Confucian sage, and she best interprets the sentence that a child's first teacher is a parent.
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Meng's mother. Although the mother-in-law said that she was great, she pushed her son into the fire pit, which was great for the country and herself.
However, it is not appropriate to be a Mother's Day spokesperson, thinking that Mother's Day spokesperson should reflect the love and care for children.
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Meng's mother. Here's why:
1, the three-character scripture says: Xi Mengmu, choose a neighbor. It can be seen that Meng's mother has a wide influence, and she was famous in ancient times.
2. Mencius achieved high achievements. As we all know, Mencius is one of the most powerful representatives of Confucianism, and Yue Fei is just a martial artist.
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Of course, it is Mencius's mother, the so-called parents of the body, Yue Fei died too early, sorry parents, the mother must be crying and mourning, washing her face with tears, how can she be called the spokesperson of Mother's Day? Mencius's mother is different, Mengzi's mother has been passed down to this day, and has a far-reaching impact on Mencius, so Mencius is very competitive, and is known as a sub-sage by the world, his mother's face is bright, Mencius lives very chicly, and his mother is less worried, unlike Yue Fei Jinge Iron Horse, who fought fiercely for ten years. Let the mother be frightened all day long, if all mothers in the world are as sad as Yue Fei's mother, is Mother's Day still meaningful?
Not to mention the issue of image spokesperson. Mother's Day should make mothers all over the world happy, so Mencius's mother is the best candidate.
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aBecause Mencius's mother moved three times for Mencius, which reflects the mother's ability to sacrifice everything for her children, and embodies the greatness of maternal love.
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Meng's mother moved three times so that her son could study hard, and Yue Fei's mother let Yue Fei learn to be loyal to the country.
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Meng's mother couldn't get along with the neighborhood, so she had to passively "move three times".
The mother-in-law taught her son Yuzhong and sent Yue Fei to the Fengbo Pavilion.
Bingxin writes articles for children, but as a mother, she has never heard of a touching story.
As the spokesperson for Mother's Day, I think "My Mother" should be chosen.
I", it's me, it's you, it's him.
Everyone feels the most affectionate love for their mother.
If you forget your mother, what qualifications do you have to choose the "image spokesperson for Mother's Day"?
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The ice heart is fraternity and has a modern atmosphere, and in this era, the ice heart is more suitable.
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Meng's mother moved three times in order for her son to have a good environment to study, and in order to educate her son so that he could have a good life; The mother-in-law spurred her son to teach him to learn words, and encouraged him to be loyal to the country.
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Mencius's mother! After all, Mencius was a successful character in the end, but Yue Fei was "the first to die before his ambition was paid", so let's take Mencius's mother's birthday as Mother's Day!
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Mencius, Mengzi's mother can better reflect the mother's mentality of trying to guide the child to the right path when the child makes a mistake.
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Meng's mother's three migrations are a story we are familiar with Here it shows that Meng's mother is a mother who is very good at educating children, and Mencius's later achievements also show this and the mother-in-law's tattoo is to educate her son to be loyal to the country, and the comprehensive achievements are not included in Meng's mother, After all, take Mother's Day as an example, is the current mother the same as Meng's mother or mother-in-law? The answer is clear......
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Mencius, because of "Meng's mother's three moves": Yue Fei, because of "mother-in-law's tattoo".
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I think it's better to celebrate Mother's Day on my mother's birthday.
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They don't approve of it, they don't represent the value of mothers.
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Yue Fei is more powerful, and he has a lot of credit.
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Li Mi, the horn hangs the book. Li Mi of the Sui Dynasty was sent to serve as a guard in the court of Emperor Yang of the Sui Dynasty when he was a teenager. He was flexible by nature, and when he was on duty, he looked left and right, and was discovered by Emperor Yang of Sui, who thought that this child was not very honest, so he was exempted from his errand.
Li Mi was not discouraged, and after returning home, he studied angrily and decided to be a learned person.
Dong Zhongshu has not peeped into the garden for three years. Dong Zhongshu devoted himself to his studies and worked tirelessly. Although there was a garden behind his study, he concentrated on reading and studying, and did not enter the garden for three years to enjoy it, Dong Zhongshu was so dedicated to studying that he became a famous thinker in the Western Han Dynasty.
Guan Ning, sit separately. In the Han Dynasty, Guan Ning and Hua Xin were classmates and friends. One day, the two of them were studying at the same table, and some dignitaries and dignitaries passed by in a car, Guan Ning was not disturbed and read as before, but Hua Xin went out ** and was envious.
Guan Ning saw that Hua Xin and himself were not really like-minded friends, so they sat separately.
Kuang Heng, chiseled the wall to steal the light. During the Western Han Dynasty, there was a particularly learned person, named Kuang Heng, Kuang Heng's family was poor when he was young, in order to study, he chiseled through the wall of the neighbor's illiterate house, and stole a candlelight to read, and finally moved the neighbor who was illiterate, and with the help of everyone, Xiao Kuang Heng learned something. During the time of Emperor Yuan of the Han Dynasty, recommended by the Great Sima and the general Shi Gao, Kuang Heng was named Langzhong and moved to the doctor.
Che Yin, sac firefly night reading. Che Yin, the word Wuzi, a native of Nanping (now Hubei Province Public Security City) in the Jin Dynasty, was poor from a young family, but he studied very hard. The story of Che Yin's reading has been passed down in history as a beautiful story, inspiring generations of readers in later generations.
Chen Ping, endure humiliation and study hard. Chen Pingxi Han famous, when he was young, his family was poor, and his brother depended on each other, in order to uphold his father's order, glorify the court, do not produce, study behind closed doors, but is not tolerated by the sister-in-law, in order to eliminate the contradiction between the brother and sister-in-law, in the face of repeated humiliation, forbearance, with the sister-in-law intensified, finally unbearable, ran away from home, wanted to wander the world, after being chased back by the brother, regardless of the previous suspicions, the brother was prevented from resuming the sister-in-law, and it was passed on as a beautiful talk in the local area.
Lu Yu, abandon the Buddha and follow the text. Lu Yu, a famous scholar of the Tang Dynasty, was an orphan since he was a child and was raised by Zen Master Zhiji. Although Lu Yu is in the temple, he does not want to chant scriptures and recite Buddha all day long, but likes to read poetry and books.
Lu Yu insisted on going down the mountain to study, but was opposed by the Zen master. In order to give Lu Yu a problem, and also to better educate him, the Zen master asked him to learn to make tea.
In the process of studying the art of tea, Lu Yu met a kind old woman, who not only learned the complex skills of making tea, but also learned a lot of reading and life principles. When Lu Yu finally brought a steaming cup of Kuding tea to the Zen master, the Zen master finally agreed to his request to go down the mountain to study. Later, Lu Yu wrote the widely circulated "Book of Tea", which carried forward the tea culture of the motherland.
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When Galileo was 17 years old, he was admitted to the University of Pisa to study medicine. He likes to ask questions, and he will never give up without asking questions.
In one class, Professor Biro gave a lecture on embryology. He preached: "Whether a mother gives birth to a boy or a girl is determined by the strength of the father. The father is strong, and the mother gives birth to a boy; The father was weakened, and the mother gave birth to a girl. ”
As soon as Professor Biró's words fell, Galileo raised his hand and said, "Teacher, I have a question. ”
Professor Biro said unhappily: "You have too many questions! You are a student, you should listen carefully to the teacher during class, take more notes, don't think wildly, ask questions at every turn, and affect your classmates' learning!
It's not a whimsy, it's not a question that asks questions at every turn. My neighbor, the man is very strong, but his wife has given birth to five daughters in a row. This is the opposite of what the teacher said, how can this be explained?
Undeterred by Professor Birro, Galileo continued to ask rhetorical questions.
I am speaking from the opinion of the famous ancient Greek scholar Aristotle, and I will not be wrong! Professor Biro came up with a rationale to try to convince him.
Galileo continued: "Is it true that what Aristotle said is not true? Science must be consistent with the facts, otherwise it is not real science. "Professor Biro was asked and couldn't get off the stage.
Later, Galileo was indeed criticized by the school, but his spirit of perseverance, inquisitiveness, and pursuit of truth did not change in the slightest. Because of this, he eventually became a generation of scientific giants.
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Washington is the first in the United States**. When he was a child, he cut down two of his father's cherry trees. His father came back and was very angry.
He thought to himself, "If I find out who cut down my tree, I'm going to beat him up." His father asked everywhere. When he asked his son, Washington began to cry.
I cut down your tree! "Washington and Panto. The father picked up his son and said:
I'm such a smart boy, I'd rather lose a hundred trees than hear you lie. ”
Sima Guang's police pillow is inspirational. Sima Guang is a playful and sleepy child, for which he was not less punished by Mr. and ridiculed by his companions, under the earnest teachings of Mr., he was determined to get rid of the bad problem of snooze, in order to get up early, he drank a full stomach of water before going to bed, but was not awakened in the morning, but wetted the bed, so the clever Sima Guang made a police pillow with garden wood, turned over in the morning, his head slipped on the bed board, and naturally woke up, since then he got up early every day to read, perseverance, and finally became a knowledgeable person, wrote the " The great writer of "Zizhi Tongjian".
I agree with Yue Fei's mother's surname Yao!
It's not that Mencius taught you badly, it's because Mencius's true meaning can no longer be accurately explained in modern terms, and every interpretation of modern people is one-sided, so one-sided explanations will make people develop in an extreme direction.
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