The ones that can t be put down are more like an ordeal

I'll tell you a story that I hope will help you.

There's nothing you can't put down. He said, "I just can't let go of these things and people."

The monk told him to hold a teacup, and then poured hot water into it until it overflowed. The sufferer was burned and immediately let go of his hand. The monk said

There is nothing in this world that you can't let go, and when it hurts, you will naturally let go. "In fact, many times we can't let go: when we have fame, we can't let go of fame; If you have money, you can't let go of it; If you have love, you can't let go of love; If you have a career, you can't let go of your career.

This is because we still have thoughts in our hearts, such as hope for love, hope that the future will change, the greed in our hearts is still in the way, and the other party's behavior has not yet touched our bottom line. In short, I didn't let myself hurt so much that I had to let go. Letting go is actually an epiphany.

Indecisive people often think about it, pick it up slowly, and put it down slowly. If he had experienced a major change, such as a brush with death, the blow would have made him feel like a different person all of a sudden. If you look at it and look down, you will naturally let it go.

Look at the attitude, many times you can't let go, in fact, it's a pity that you haven't got!

If it's a small dispute, it's not necessary, if you still love him, just be together, it's really not easy for two people to love each other.

A little more tolerance, a little more understanding, a little more tolerance.

Feelings are not said to be able to let go, forcing yourself to let go, but you will be even more unable to let go, do something else to divert your attention, if neither of you plan to get back together, don't dwell on it, there are many things worth your energy.

The boss, who couldn't stand the torment, chased her back.

I'm so much like you, I chased her back again, and I'm happy now.

Good luck!

If you don't want to be together anymore, you can apply for a shift change.

Then tell him, why torture yourself as a man.

Change one, guaranteed not to be half a year,

If he is worthy of your love, go for it!! There is only one chance, don't regret it until you turn back. You have to look at him and your feelings for you as an outsider!!

Sometimes it's time to be practical, don't blindly follow your feelings!! It's time to plan for the rest of your life!! Time will tell!

He loves you, and he comes back to you

Time waits for no one, today and tomorrow may you sleep in the same bed, but many of them have changed directions, you can't let go of him But do you understand that she can let go of you.

You're right, you can be with the person you love and go through this life The happiest, that's right, but don't forget that happiness is also based on the economy, which can not be changed objectively, you have to be 30, but there is still a chance, it is still possible to change if you learn a good skill or knowledge, as long as you are willing.

At the same time, show your sincerity and give her a future.

Don't always think about it, do something else meaningful. It's really hard for people with heavy feelings to let go of their feelings after being hurt, but no one can help you. It's only time to pass away.

If you can't put it down, throw it away. Lifting and putting down is weightlifting. If you can afford to put it down, it is called a weight. No one forces you to keep the pain in your heart.

If you can be more shameless than ta, then the tortured one will be changed.

Hurry up and start a new relationship all over again.

Keep yourself busy so that you can't think about it, confide in friends and relatives, happy day is a day, unhappy day is also a day, in this case, why not let yourself be happy every day?

Bear with it slowly and learn to be strong! In addition to the green hat, there is no hurdle that cannot be passed.

Hello: From your description, I find that your "she" is a very intelligent and sensible girl, and it is not surprising that you have a crush on her. At the moment, you need to think calmly, is she worth your chase?

Is it considered a lifelong partner goal? After you have an affirmative answer, take out the courage and perseverance of a man, and work hard for the two of you - note, it is the future happiness of both of you (I guess this is what you are lacking now). When you prove your true strength that you have the responsibility and ability to make her happy, her family will recognize you, and in the process, you will have won her heart and soul early.

If I'm not mistaken, you're supposed to be a girl. It is recommended that you buy a copy of "Meditations" and read it, maybe you can find the answer, and it may affect your life. Anyway, by experiencing this book with your heart, you will definitely be able to free yourself from this emotion.

I'm 27 years old. Don't have a girlfriend yet. I used to be a very sunny and handsome person, and my family background was okay compared to the people around me.

I used to think that finding the right girlfriend for someone like me shouldn't be a problem. I used to like a girl, this girl can be said to be really average, it can be said that she has no looks, no figure, and no job! But I just like such a person, this girl is playing with friends, it can be said that it is my first love, but after dating for a while, this girl rejected me, I am really sad and uncomfortable, I have never been hurt, I can't let go of her!

I don't think it should be done to me. But after some time, I saw this girl with my good friend, and I can say that my good friend knew me best. In that respect, he is inferior to me, I can't figure it out, I think he has a relationship between us, and that's exactly what happened.

Injured by two people at the same time. I'm really sad. Now I'm still chasing a girl, this girl rejected me a few years ago, but I can't face the reality, I always want to date this girl, she doesn't communicate with me at all now, it can be said that it is impossible at all!

But I always can't let go of her, I always torture myself, I torture myself for almost two years, and I still think that girl should be mine. But the reality is not like this, I really can't let go of her, I can't help but think about her every day, torture myself! What am I going to do?

I know it's not good for me to be like this, but I can't let it go, and I'm in a bad mood every day. It's particularly irritating!