In friendship, there are few firm choices to do

1. Take sincerity as the starting point. Everyone's environment is different, so they all have their own personality traits, I believe that no matter what the situation, the intersection of two strangers should initially be based on sincerity, some people like to make powerful friends, but I believe that you have such a clear purpose as the starting point, many things you do are not sincere enough, at the same time, the other party must also be able to feel.

2. Give each other equally. All things in the world are mutual, no one will give to another person without asking for anything in return, family affection, love is like this, they all like to be able to get each other's response, looking forward to the same treatment, blindly asking for people who don't know how to pay will only miss a lot of good feelings, and it is also equal, treat others with an equal attitude, and be arrogant will only alienate people.

3. See true friendship in adversity. The words of the ancients are not unreasonable, some people are suitable for playing together, just playing with friends with wine and meat, once the other party has any difficulties, they have already slipped away, and the beauty of the past is just for them to take what they need, such people will never be able to make true friends, cooling the hearts of others, and at the same time extinguishing the enthusiasm of others for you.

Friendship is the easiest to dilute a kind of emotion for friendship, as you get older, the real friendship between each other will only become less and less, and you find that there is basically no person who picks up the mobile phone and wants to contact, even if it is a job transfer, a longer business trip, there will be changes in interpersonal relationships, so friendship is not firmly chosen and does not need to worry too much!

That's the difference between One Piece and the real world. Why is everyone moved by One Piece, because they want to but can't do it.

Friendship and unwavering belief I still choose to be firm.

Some things are very beautiful, but they also have to be analyzed whether they are straight or not.

Because neither of you lived for each other or for yourselves.

Unless you know each other first...

Choosing to stay away from it seems to be the only way to use distance and time to help you make a calm choice.

Most people are not sure if they have this experience, but I can personally be sure that I have not been firmly loved, or firmly believed by others, because I can only control myself and cannot control other people's thoughtsAnd judging from some outward behaviors, it seems that no one has ever given me unreserved trust. <>

Being firmly believed and standing on his side no matter what, is a very precipitated feeling, a very confident feeling, because he feels that no matter how he changes, no matter what he does well or badly, he always has someone who supports him, and he is not alone, at least there are some comrades-in-arms directly in this world, and there are still some people who are willing to believe in themselves and understand themselves, they will feel that they have a lot of motivation in lifeBeing self-confident and this feeling of being firmly believed in being supported all the time is something that everyone needs, but not everyone has. <>

In fact, anyone envy those good friends who can really support them through a lifetime, whether they are good buddies or good girlfriends, because friendship and love are different, love supports each other, it is a lifetime of responsibility to each other, but friendship is a kind of diligence, although friendship with the extension of time, the feelings of two people will become deeper and deeper, but in the final analysis, two people do not have any blood relationship, two people are still a moral thing, but two people get married, The husband and wife have a moral and legal relationshipTherefore, friendship is not the same as love, and it is everyone's desire to really have a good friend who can always support themselves and be crazy and make trouble with themselves. <>

We all want to have such a friend, so we naturally have to try to develop our own interpersonal relationships, find those like-minded friends who are similar to ourselves, and the two of us can get along for a longer time. Don't believe that those two people have different worldviews, there will be more sparks together, and friendship will progress faster, this is unrealistic, the worldview of two people is different, how can you become a real bosom friend if your three views are inconsistent?Because the cognition and thinking of many things are different, the relationship development of two people is limited by the degree, and they can become good friends, but it is impossible to become real confidants.

Yes, it was my husband, no matter how cold he was at the time, he treated me as always, and it was because of his emotion that he finally married him.

I don't have the experience of being firmly chosen by anyone, because I am too ugly and have never been liked by anyone, so there will be no problem of competing choices.

Yes, but it didn't work, although I insisted on it at the time, but I encountered some things later, and I separated, so it was useless.

It is advisable to be prepared to end the friendship when it develops into love. Individuals are completely unacceptable to be friends after a breakup.

If I had to choose, if I had feelings for my friends, I would choose love.

This is a general framework, specific to the subject's question, in fact, it is also very simple, in a word: do what you like.

The subject can take the initiative, everyone starts with a friend, play with him more, chat with him more, play and chat to his liking, not flattery, just compliment.

In fact, it is to find out his weaknesses, scratch his itch, let him get used to and fall in love with the feeling of playing with you and chatting with you, so as to fall in love with you as a person, and then confess to you.

A person in this world, there are always favorite things, the subject can know by paying attention to observation, if not, then inquire from the side, his friends, his classmates, in short, to know his preferences by all means, preferences are sometimes weaknesses, just start here, to attack him.

If she doesn't refuse or doesn't firmly refuse, you take advantage of the victory and convince her to give it a try. Generally speaking, if this happens, it will be relatively smooth in the future. I'm sure you know her well, and although she may not like you that much, she will get along with you out of a sense of responsibility.

You just have to love her with your heart, and she is likely to fall in love with you slowly.

If she violently resists, then you will break off your friendship with her, and you have to make it clear that if you don't be a lover, you won't be friends. Because you love her too much, if you really can't be together, then you can't be good friends with a girl you love deeply, and that's disrespectful to your future girlfriend. And it's really broken off, you don't pay attention to her anymore, unless she takes the initiative to find you, and you just treat her coldly.

That is to say, you have always been a friendship at the beginning with your other half, he may be love to you, but you are not, if you are sure that you can't convert this friendship into love, I think it's better to break up early, it's better to hurt earlier than later.

There are many times when men and women get along with each other in a state of friendship and lovers, and everyone says that there is no pure friendship between men and women, which I used to agree with very much, and then I no longer agree. Friends of the opposite sex, the relationship is so good that it can't be better, there will always be a desire for the other party, or a time when there is a heartbeat, but everyone refrains, afraid that once this friendship is broken and develops into love, even the friendship will be lost.

Once, I had a male friend who had a good relationship, and he was sad that he could cry with me, walk around the campus over and over again, and vent with me; When we were not in a city, I said that I was very uncomfortable on WeChat, and he immediately called; I've always felt that he was strong and wouldn't break down no matter how hard he was, but once he cried in front of me, and he never cried in front of his ex-girlfriend.

The moment he cried in front of me, I wanted to hug him, and at that moment I found that I seemed to like him, for a long, long time, but I didn't know until that day, but I couldn't tell him my heart, so I could only silently guard his side.

Actually, the people around me have been saying that he likes me, and I have always been giggling and saying that it is impossible, we are just brothers. It's been a brother for a long time, only to find that the person who no longer treats you as a brother but the person you like is tired.

Later, when my parents and relatives urged me to find a partner and wanted me to go on a blind date, I thought of him, and I wanted him to pretend to be my boyfriend to deal with my parents, in fact, I also wanted to take this opportunity to tell him that I liked him too. But before I told him that I learned that he had a girlfriend, this time it was no longer someone else chasing him, but someone else who he was chasing himself, I knew that I had lost, and he should have had enough of so many years of unresponsive companionship.

Now I regret it, I regret it, but it can only be a regret, because it is impossible for him to break up, and I can't wait for him all the time.

So, if it's a friendship that can develop into love, be kind to this upcoming love, and if not, make it clear in time.

I don't know what state you are in now, if you are married or in love, if you are not married, break up, if you are married, you should still be together, there is no love to have family affection, divorce may not be able to find love, love is hard to find, most families are like that, those beautiful love only belong to the screen.

It's really hard to turn friendship into love, but it's not that in reality, it's just how you deal with this relationship. Long pain is better than short pain, if you can really get along with each other in moderation, I think you can keep the current state, but only in this state. After all, like I said, even if such people can't be together, they must be cherished.

The most feared thing about feelings is the passage of time, maybe one day you can really be together, can you get back the feeling you have now? You met the right person at the wrong time, but the time was right, is the person still the same person? You might as well do what you should do first, don't be like me, after all, life is not only about love.

Whether it can be converted or not, and how long it will take to convert, it is really a matter of opinion for the benevolent and the wise. Love is deep enough, no matter where you are, you have him in your heart; Whether you have it or not, I hope he can be happy. If there is fate, you will still be together; If not, you will find your own home.

The most important thing is not to let yourself regret it, because I have the same experience as you, so I hope you can be happy.

Whether it is love, friendship or affection, it is the heartfelt will of both parties, and even if you want to convert into other relationships, I am afraid it will be difficult to let your feelings be commanded. Inner entanglements are inevitable. But the reality is really as you said that it can't be transformed into love, so you have to know that if you let go of this relationship now, it is very likely that you will not even be able to become friends.

Finding new friends as soon as possible to distract you may be able to help calm your mind. The lessons of life, addition and subtraction have to be learned.

Since it is friendship, then let it be, if the more the two sides look at it, the more pleasing it is, it will naturally develop into love, otherwise it is better to maintain friendship.

You should break up quickly, after all, without the foundation of feelings, love cannot go long-term, let the other party know what you think in your heart, and end this relationship without feelings as soon as possible.

Since two people can't develop love, isn't it good to be confidants with each other?

Love can't be forced, find an opportunity to make it clear to him as soon as possible, let the other party understand his thoughts, and try to break up with the other party peacefully, the longer such a thing drags on, the more it may hurt him.

This question feels difficult to understand, if friendship wants to develop into love, this is also a beautiful thing, there is a good emotional foundation, everyone understands each other.

If you like it very much, then confess it, and it is also quite a good choice for friendship to be converted into love. Don't be upset if your confession fails, after all, emotional things can't be forced.

It is friendship with the other half, this kind of friendship is difficult to develop into love, just break up, friendship is not love, neither of you will be happy, it is really good for each other, just let him go.

Your friendship with your friends is not as deep as you think, maybe you are a good friend and confidant to others, but the other party may just treat you as a general friend. So you can give more for your confidant and give up something else. But in his position, you are just an ordinary friend, of course, ......You know.

Sometimes don't think about other people's returns, treat others sincerely, and be worthy of your heart. In this world, it is easy to get money, but it is difficult to find a confidant, so it is so easy to meet people who are like-minded.

It's mostly yourself, and you have to shift your focus to you.

Maybe you're giving too much and making him take it for granted. In some important times, don't think about relying on others, you are the most reliable.

I know it's painful to get out of a relationship, but love is never the whole of life, don't force it anymore when the relationship comes to an end, and choosing to separate is also a way to start over, people need to work hard to get out, let go of the pain of the past, and meet a new life, there will always be all kinds of injuries and different people in your life, start your own new life, if there is still a knot in your heart that can't be untied, and you can't get over, then find the source to untie the knot, and you can use the power of family and friends to use the power of time The more important thing is to convince yourself to let go.