Love is always divided and harmonized, is it really that the love between each other is not firm eno

Divide and merge because you don't love enough, if you really love deeply, you won't choose to separate. There are always some couples in life who always hope to solve the problem by breaking up, but after the breakup, they are reluctant, and the two people come together again because of love. This kind of love may also step into marriage, but this way of love is really because two people don't love enough.

Two people who love each other deeply will not use a breakup to solve problems in love. The so-called love of separation and reunion, in the final analysis, is that two people are unwilling to give in, because a small thing has pushed both people to a dead end, and then break up to solve this problem. The two people actually knew in their hearts that the other party would be reluctant, and they were still in contact after the breakup, and then they gave each other a step, and they came together again.

Of course, this way of love can continue, but the original problem has not been solved, it has just been covered up. And two people who really love each other will not solve the problem by breaking up. Even if you know in your heart that you will get back together after a breakup, every time you break up, it will also hurt this relationship.

When enough hurt accumulates, the relationship may come to an end.

Divided and combined love, both people are trying to find someone to love more. There are many such couples around me, and I have seen every breakup and reunion of them. The two people at the time of the breakup both said that they were not unhappy, and they were both living a seemingly happy single life.

And then for some reason that we don't understand, the two people will reconnect and start again. But before starting over, both of them were around to find a more suitable person. There is no more suitable person who will continue to have a more suitable person, and maybe a breakup is a breakup.

I haven't experienced such a state, I don't know how to describe it specifically, but I think that these two people are not love, they are just constantly entangled, and they can't live without each other.

Love or not love can only be understood by two people who are in love with their hearts. Whether the love of separation and union can go to the end depends on luck to a certain extent. If you really love him, don't choose to divide and merge, maybe this separation will bring your love to an end.

No, it is a normal behavior to divide and merge, and it is a manifestation of the emotional run-in between the two people, and it can only last for a long time after friction.

In addition to the lack of firm love between each other, there is no communication and exchange between the two parties, no mutual understanding, no common goal, then there will be contradictions, to communicate more, to understand each other more, but also to have a common direction.

I think yes, two people don't love each other firmly enough, so there are always contradictions, and when they start to quarrel, they will always be separated and combined.

When experiencing a relationship, everyone will remind couples in the relationship that no matter how conflicting they are, they must not easily say that they will break up. For ordinary people, breaking up is a very simple thing, as long as either party proposes to break up, then the other party will leave very interestingly, this relationship is completely over, and the two have nothing to do with each other.

But there are still such couples, they say that they can't break up, and they can't divide completely, so they are always in a state of separation and reunion. I am more curious about this way of breaking up, breaking up is just a very simple choice, why is there a situation where the division is not complete, and the separation is combined? In fact, the most important reason why this situation exists is because these two people are more dragging their personalities in dealing with feelings.

In any relationship, breaking up is a fact that couples are unwilling to face, because each other has really paid a lot for this relationship, so they are reluctant to each other, and they are reluctant to give everything they have paid in the past. If both parties are more hesitant in deciding on a thing, it is easy to be reunited, but as said at the beginning, the word breakup is spoken, and it is difficult to recover, even if they get back together later, the two will gradually become estranged, and this relationship can no longer be as simple as before.

So there will be that kind of situation of dividing and merging, merging and dividing. This is not only dealing with the mud and water of the relationship, but also a manifestation of irresponsibility towards the relationship, impulsively proposing to break up or agreeing to break up, but after calming down, but trying to redeem it, after redeeming, it will break up irresponsibly because of some friction. So it's not much fun to divide and merge at all.

I hope that all couples in the relationship must correctly understand the relationship between them, and treat a relationship must be rigorous and responsible, otherwise once lost, it is no longer the original feeling to redeem it, and this kind of relationship is destined to not go hand in hand to the end.

It's because two people like each other very much, and they won't mind even if there are some conflicts, so the two people will break the thread.

The main reason is that both people have certain problems, and secondly, because they have certain feelings for each other, so they will always be together.

The main thing is that these couples are in the run-in period, although their personalities are incompatible, but they still love each other deeply.

In the relationship between men and women, when two people are together, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels and contradictions in the relationship. Especially for young men and women, this is actually quite normal. In particular, it is common for things to split and merge in quarrels.

For such a relationship, I personally feel that there is still a need to be together.

The two are divided and combined, which means that they are running into each other! The reason why they haven't separated yet is because the two sides are still reluctant. And this kind of run-in and reluctance is the foundation of the relationship between two people, once the run-in is good, then the relationship will last for a long time.

Of course, if the run-in is not good, it will also be divided and combined. In short, in the face of such a situation, my suggestion is to consider the following two aspects.

First: how to avoid re-dividing

Since the two of them have been separated and united many times. Well, in fact, there is a big risk that both people are afraid that the next time they separate, it will be a permanent separation. Therefore, there will be a lack of confidence in such feelings.

And want to avoid such a crisis, or divide the situation out of control. Two people need to do emotional analysis and summary.

What is the reason for the separation of two people every time, and what is the purpose of reuniting. When these two questions are clearly understood, it is easy to avoid many problems. People often lose in analysis and summary, and sometimes the same is true of feelings.

If you don't analyze and summarize, just rely on the fact that I love you and you love me to get along, then it will not get along well after all.

Second: Is it because I am still in love

If two people are together, if they are still in love with each other, then it is necessary to be together. After all, it is rare that such a division and union cannot prevent two people from being together. Therefore, both of them have to ask themselves if they are still in love.

If it's just because two people can't find something better, or the relationship is stuck in a blank, and you can't stand loneliness and loneliness.

Then, there is no need and meaning to be together like this. After all, the most important thing to be together is love and sincerity. Without these two points, everything is in vain and will end sooner or later.

I don't think there's any need to be together, if it's not suitable, either just break up and find a suitable person, if we have been separated so many times, and we haven't run in well, I don't think it's necessary to be together again.

No. Because if you are separated and united in love, it means that you are not suitable, and you do not really love each other, so there is no need to be together.

If it's not for some big thing, it's always because of a little thing, you can consider being together, but in this case, there is no need to be together, because what's the point of being together, love tossing.

In love, there is a need for such a relationship to be together, because two people are used to being together forever, and there is no way to give up, so they will be divided and combined, but because when facing the contradiction, you have no way to solve it, in fact, the relationship is still very strong.

There's no need to be together anymore.

Because in love, there will always be a lot of problems, causing some cracks in the relationship between two people, and a long time of separation and union will make the contradictions between two people deeper and deeper, and they will not be able to go on.

In love, it is still necessary to be together in such a relationship. Because when two people are in love, they need to run in slowly because of their different personalities. At the same time, take care to control your emotions.

There is absolutely no need for such feelings to continue.

Because you are always in a relationship with each other, it means that the two of you are not suitable for being together at all, and there are many things between you that are not suitable. Two people who really love each other will not break up easily.

The one who broke up may not still be in love, but the two people who are separated and united must love each other very much. If you don't love to separate, you won't go back to being together, breaking up can only show that there are unsolvable contradictions at that time, and being together again means that no matter how difficult the contradictions are, it is difficult to let go of each other, this is true love.

In love, it is a run-in period, and some contradictions will definitely occur, so it is normal to divide and merge, and after the run-in, everyone thinks that they can accept each other's words and finally walk together.

If it's still in this state after talking about it for a long time, I personally feel that the two people may not be suitable, the best way is for both of them to calm down and think carefully about why they chose this person to be their other half, maybe they will figure it out and face the person in front of them again.

If it is not long after talking, it may be the run-in period, many couples are stuck at this time and do not continue, I have seen many people break up within about a year of talking, I personally think that the two sides have not had a good exchange, you can prepare a small gift for each other, let him (her) see your good, and then have a good chat to understand what kind of love the other party needs.

In love, I think this kind of relationship must have gone through a lot of setbacks, I think if it is said that the separation and integration have not been separated in the end, I think this kind of relationship must be able to go through the test, should be together, should be cherished more.

If two people in a relationship are separated and reunited in this process, but they are still together, then I think this kind of relationship is not only necessary to be together, but also very stubborn.

It is normal to divide and merge, as long as the two still have feelings, they can be together

In love, they will really break up sooner or later, and if they don't have any love beliefs, it's hard to go on together.

It's up to you to weigh for yourself whether there is a need to be together, whether you have feelings for each other, and whether you can change this status quo.

In love, it is divided and combined. Such feelings are also too unstable. Maybe these two people don't fit together. Divide and merge too channel, such a love will not last long. So there's no need to be together.

Love metaphysics must be divided for a long time, and it must be together for a long time, do what you think is right to leave no regrets, still have feelings for each other, and you can pursue your inner choice together.

People in love, because they feel that they have to be closer to each other than others, so they will have a sense of fearlessness, therefore, unlike the skin that has a layer of politeness and face to others, they often lose control of their emotions, and they are very unhappy to the end of breaking up, but because there is still love, the existence of feelings, it is difficult to accept other people with feelings, if both parties are like this, they may get back together! It's mainly about love! As for the unwillingness, it is because one party feels that the other party may have a new sustenance emotionally, which is often one-sided, and it should not be easy to get back together!

Hehe, I'm almost getting trained to be an emotional expert by headline questions!

The reason for the love ending of separation and union is that the two parties still have feelings and love each other, although there are also unwillingness, but it is not the main reason. However, if two people are together, the pain is greater than the happiness, and it does affect each other's lives. Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, it is better to bless each other, find a more suitable fate for yourself, and let each other cope with life easily and happily.

Most of the feelings of separation and union appear in young couples, the two do not let each other go, do not know how to solve it, always use separation, indifference to dilute the contradictions and problems, through each other's residual feelings and habits, plus some reluctance and unwillingness, and come together again. Unfortunately, soon after, they were separated again because of the conflict, and thus fell into an endless vicious circle.

For couples, it's a wake-up call to always be divided and united. Love is limited and cannot withstand the consumption for too long; And people's energy is also limited, and they can't withstand the toss again and again. If two people are still unable to tolerate and trust each other, continue to blame and be suspicious of each other, still naively and simply deal with contradictions and problems, and unable to face each other rationally, then even if they come together again, after gradually exhausting all the remaining feelings, it will eventually end up going their separate ways.

Someone who cares about you will not want you to be sad, even during the run-in period.

One is noisy, the other will also cater to it, and the love of separation and integration is constantly expressing dissatisfaction and reluctance, but it is weighing the pros and cons. When someone who thinks they're right comes along, it's easy to lose that kind of love completely.