All the inappropriate reasons are just because of not loving enough, is this really the case?

I can't say everything, but the vast majority of them should be, if you love each other enough, personality discord or anything is not a big problem, you can run in with each other, as long as two people love each other enough, all the inappropriate will eventually become a unique match.

It's true, because of not loving enough, a person will not give the best things to the other party and will behave in a calculating manner, which is the problem.

That's right, if two people really love each other, no matter what difficulties can't prevent two people from being together, they will definitely get married smoothly, unless they are separated by heaven and man.

Shouldn't all the inappropriateness be not enough love?

Hello, inappropriate and not loving enough are two different things, if it is really not suitable, even if you love each other again, it will be difficult to be happy, and both parties will be tormented. First, everyone's living environment, Cheng Na chain length experience, family background, personality, preferences, etc., are very different, not all people are suitable together, some people and models together, because the view of things is too different, it is particularly easy to quarrel, the cost of compromise is very high. Second, even if one party loves the other very much and is reluctant to be together, the compromising party is very painful, and in the end it is either very uncomfortable for the other party to be relieved, or they choose to separate.

So, not everything can be solved with enough love.

If you say something inappropriate, it must mean that there is a gap between the two parties, that is, you don't like it and don't love it enough.

Everything that doesn't fit is really because of not loving enough.

Due to the acquired gap between people, that is, coming to this world, living in different families, and the process of growing up is different, there are many inconsistencies and inconsistencies in getting along.

If there is mutual love, these problems do not exist. There is nothing to talk about with each other, there are common points.

It is often said that childhood sweethearts, love at first sight is the best expression of love.

Yes, not being fit is a reason, a reason to give the other party some face, so you have to understand, don't go on the pole anymore. She said that if she doesn't fit, she doesn't feel for you, let alone love or not. If you need fate to find a partner, you must first meet your eyes, and then slowly talk about whether you love or not, it's that simple.

Then it depends on who says this first, and who says it first, which means that his heart has changed, and he just uses this as an excuse! Is there a right or wrong in a relationship? When many people quarrel, they will want to prove that they are right, it seems that as long as the other party is wrong, they are the winner, but after winning, you are happy, and the other party must admit their mistakes?

Is it better between you? You know it's not like that, but why are you still so obsessed with right and wrong? Everything that is not suitable is actually an excuse for not loving enough, is there a right or wrong in the relationship?

When many people quarrel, they will want to prove that they are right, it seems that as long as the other party is wrong, they are the winner, but after winning, you are happy, and the other party must admit their mistakes? Is it better between you? You know it's not like that, but why are you still so obsessed with right and wrong?

Everything that is not suitable is actually an excuse for not loving enough!

The world is becoming more and more open, but it feels like people are becoming more and more closed.

So what is the most commonly used sentence to end this blind date?

"Not suitable" in this place, this sentence is very reasonable, at the beginning there is no emotional basis, looking at the other party is compared with their own inner standards, to hook the circle, and then you can draw a very clear conclusion.

But it's really because it's not suitable, so I won't continue to get along to cultivate feelings.

Couples who have been together for many years, when they break up, most of the rhetoric is also "inappropriate". They used to have love, and then in the process of getting along, because of various conflicts and contradictions, this love was consumed, and no new love was created, and the love value slowly declined, so they came to a big point.

So why do you say it's inappropriate when you break up, instead of directly saying that you don't love the first change, because if you don't love it, it sounds harsher and more heart-wrenching.

The first call after a month of cold war, after countless psychological construction, persuaded himself to take the initiative to press the familiar number.

Honk. Honk. Honk. The moment I connected, I sighed softly, as if our world was reconnected again.

Feed. Tears suddenly burst out uncontrollably, holding my breath, but I didn't know what I was going to say. Time passed without a word, and when I finally tried to say something.

Let's break up".

Why "we don't fit right now".

**Square peg? I can change it".

I want to concentrate on my studies".

I can wait for you".

That summer, I forgot the color of the sky and remembered crying on the bus with my bag on my back.

That summer, I forgot about the feeling of hunger and woke up with only a room of worried and caring eyes.

That summer, I remembered it over and over again, hoping that I could go back to the beginning, and if it would be the same ending again?

When the tears wet the pillow towel again, and I picked up the mirror instead of the tissue, I knew that the relationship was finally over.

How many people have been "inappropriate" confession, maybe this is the most euphemistic expression of "not love", when you hear this reason, are you entangled in the "** inappropriate" into the whirlpool of self-doubt and self-denial and can't extricate yourself, regret in love with yourself so little emotions, guilty of not being considerate enough enough in the past.

Compared with Xiaoxiaoqiao's "no love" and "inappropriate", it is more like a bayonet with teeth, and the labor pain of withdrawal is the beginning of the pain. At this moment, how many people can clearly realize that ** is not suitable? It's not appropriate, it's just not loved.

Some people say that no one can really get out of the face of love, whether you are hurting or being hurt. If you have really loved her, tell the other person "not in love" instead of "inappropriate" when you let go.

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First of all, it is necessary to determine whether the other party's inappropriateness is a temporary tantrum with you or an accumulation and outburst of contradictions. The former only needs a statement from you, or to correct the mistake and not to make it again in the future, or to buy her a small gift to let you know that you still care about her. The recovery of the latter is more challenging, and you need to think and communicate more, first of all, you need to think about whether you have a fundamental contradiction, and then you also need to think about what you have done wrong, and then communicate with the other party.

When a person says that the two people in a relationship are not suitable, the contradiction between the two can be further magnified, in short, when communicating, the party who says that it is not suitable can say a hundred inappropriate and not repeated, which requires you to think, what is acceptable, what is.

Two people should be evenly matched in love, only two people can see the same scenery, two people will have more common topics, and more can give each other. There is no doubt that unequal love can only be exchanged for an inappropriate sentence, which is true to some extent. Because of the inappropriate vision of the two people, the bull's head often can't match the horse's mouth, because the mind is not suitable, sometimes it will inevitably give the other party a feeling of playing the piano to the cow.

Self-improvement is a lifelong cultivation, and no one can avoid this problem. Men like beautiful, gentle, and empathetic girls, and girls also like mature and stable boys who are both talented and beautiful. Only reciprocity is appropriate.

Of course, it's different to choose the type you like, so it's especially uncomfortable to have a taste.

Because many times it is embarrassing to refuse directly, so to put it mildly, so that people can have and go down the stairs.

I think this sentence should be read separately, such as:

If two people are together, as long as the two people are willing, it will be good, but if two people are in power together and want love, it must be suitable.

There is an old saying that marrying a chicken with a chicken, marrying a dog with a dog, yes, doesn't this sentence mean that as long as two people are willing, regardless of whether they are suitable or not, they can be together, and they may be together for a lifetime, but will there be happiness in such a life and such a marriage? Will there be love? Everyone must have heard of such a case, a man is violent, and he beats his wife at every turn, but the wife is still willing to be with this man, although the two people are not suitable for each other, but because they are willing.

Many people will say that in ancient times, there was a good match, only when the two people lived together would they feel happy, this sentence still has some truth in the present, sometimes the standard of love is not standard. Suitable, what is appropriate, is also a question that has no standard answer.

Let's compare the front! There are no two people who are completely suitable in the world, and there are no two who are completely unsuitable, love is slowly cultivated, fate is just an opportunity, and the next pay is the most important thing! Whether you want to or not is not right, feelings need two people to like each other, not to force to accept the other person.