If you break up because it s not suitable, what is the mentality of breaking up if it s not suitable

Oops,It looks so complicated.,Isn't it for the sake of each other when two people are together when they don't lose themselves?,(But sometimes it's a very happy thing to sacrifice for each other) But girls sometimes can be very "stingy".,He just wants you to care about him.,Want you to do what he likes.,But some boys don't understand the truth.。 So don't just do it for him, but also understand what he's thinking.

Personally, I think it's him, I'm supposed to like you a lot when I'm with you, but it's nothing to you after the heat is over! I even feel tired of saying a word to you! Actually, you are not very proactive, but I think today's ending is certain!

Because I'm too young, I don't know what love is, what love is! Maybe there's something wrong with her! Since he doesn't want to say that naturally there is a reason for him!

It is a more correct choice to break up if the relationship is not suitable, because it can stop the loss in time and minimize the damage to both parties.

First of all, this should be on the premise of taking the other party seriously, because the understanding of people is deepened step by step, and having a good impression of someone may be because he attracts you in a certain aspect and makes you feel like each other. A lot of times the initial stage is confused, and sometimes I can't explain why I'm so fascinated.

But after being together, the two sides begin to understand each other gradually, the aura of the other party may fade, and the shortcomings of the other party are gradually exposed, which is a more objective view of the other party, if you find that you can't tolerate each other's shortcomings at this time, then I believe that this kind of love will not be long-term.

At the same time, two people together, but also involved in all aspects of life, not to say the right door, but many places also pay attention to the three views of the same, if you find out later, chat can not talk together, no common language, no common hobbies, the gap between the three views is large, such love slowly more and more problems. At this time, you should think clearly, if these problems can be slowly run in, it is best, but if you find the problem at the beginning and feel that you can't run in, it is best to mention it as soon as possible, especially for girls, girls are generally more emotional, if you can withdraw early, maybe there will not be so many troubles later.

Of course, for some morally corrupt people, who want to be fresh for a while, and then break up on the excuse that the two are not suitable, when it is another matter, it is pure affection**, this is scum, and it is high-sounding!

"Break up if it's not suitable".

It's the role of falling in love, and if you can't fall in love, you must get married.

Don't try to like another person just because you don't like them;

Don't obviously don't feel it if you don't like it, but because you don't want to take the initiative to break up, you will drag it out for more than half a year; Don't give the other person inexplicable hope; Don't be with people you don't like; Don't give others the impression that the two of you are very affectionate, because you really don't like it, and you will really break up in the end, and then the previous love is a joke.

For those partners who are very much in love with each other at first, the most likely thing that causes them to break up is not inappropriateness, but the trivialities of life. Many partners can support each other in difficult times, and when everything is going well, they can no longer maintain a relationship. Later in a relationship, it's the details of how the relationship is handled in the details.

So, do we have the mentality of giving up when we encounter trivial and discordant? In other words, why do some people get through those "inappropriate" moments, while others frequently spin around in "inappropriate" moments and finally give up on a relationship?

People are always imperfect, and in a long-term relationship, they completely expose their shortcomings and deficiencies in front of each other, you don't like him to throw stinky socks, he doesn't like you to go out and put on makeup for two hours, this is something that many couples are experiencing. But these so-called inappropriateness are not the reasons for the breakup, as long as there is love, even if the two are always scolding each other, even if they can't get used to each other's many places, they will still continue to fight and continue to walk, the real meaning behind the sentence "We are not suitable" is: I don't like you anymore, so I don't like everything about you.

I think that if they are not suitable in love, they will break up, their mentality is not to break up if they feel inappropriate, normal people will inevitably encounter inappropriate situations when they fall in love, if they break up every time they are not suitable, then everyone should not fall in love, they are all single. They didn't break up as soon as they felt inappropriate, but first felt inappropriate, and then found that the other party did not let themselves see the hope of correction, and there was no possibility of improvement in this relationship, so they chose to break up, the specific reasons are as follows:

1. In a long-term relationship, there are two pillars that can keep the other party motivated to maintain and willing to bear problems, one is a sense of security and the other is a sense of anticipation. When these two pillars are broken, the other party has no expectations for the relationship, and will no longer be willing to pay extra effort for the relationship. When the sense of security is destroyed, inappropriateness is just an excuse to escape.

For emotionally sensitive people, when they feel that they are not given enough security in the relationship, their departure has long been a doomed thing, and inappropriateness is nothing more than an excuse and excuse.

Second, there is another kind of inappropriateness that is directly said by the result, and from the result of the mutual relationship, there is no good end, and the other party will make such a conclusion. The most common situation is that two people have different expectations for the future, one wants to work hard for a few more years while he is young, and the other wants to get married and have children quickly, each has a plan for the future, but there is no other party in the plan, such feelings can not be discussed, the uncertainty of future expectations is exposed little by little in life, and the self-confidence in each other's feelings is wiped out little by little in life.

In short, because of the above mentality, it is not suitable in the relationship to break up.

It's a normal mindset to break up if it's not suitable. In fact, the most important thing when you are in love is love, and if you don't love, even if it is suitable, it will only be together temporarily, not for a lifetime. It's just that because two people love each other, they will accommodate each other and make changes for each other.

In fact, when it is said that it is inappropriate, it is not loved, and inappropriate is just an excuse. But these two people who don't seem to be suitable are very "suitable" together. Because this is appropriate, it is to tolerate and accommodate each other, and make concessions and changes for each other.

In fact, it takes two people to run in together, because there is no naturally suitable man and woman, and after falling in love, they all need to change themselves for each other, such as personality, such as temper. If you don't take the initiative to break up, you will eventually break up passively. It's cruel, but that's the reality.

There are always some people who think that love is not easy to come by, and since you are in love, you must cherish it. This process requires patience, true love, deep love, compassion, wisdom, single-mindedness, and two people who are both transparent and open-minded and understand love to implement it together.

Some people are not equal in appearance or education, but as long as two people love each other, it is appropriate. They are only afraid that they can't be together, and if they can be together, then they can defeat the inappropriate together and become a suitable lover for a lifetime. When we both love each other, we will strive to make changes, move forward together in the best direction, correct together, run in together, and turn those inappropriate into suitable together.

However, when two inappropriate people are together, they are not concentric at all, but one of them cherishes love, and the other is destroying love in disguise, and the final outcome of love must be a breakup.

Usually a real breakup. It refers to the decision of both parties to break up after careful consideration, the overall situation has been decided, and the breakup has drawn an end to the whole relationship, which is the result of rational processing.

Impulsive breakups.

It's usually a fake breakup. Breaking up is not the result of your deliberation, but the unbearable and emotional product of negative emotions at their peak.

After the emotions faded, I couldn't bear the pain of parting at all, and the good memories poured over my heartache, only to find that I didn't want to share at all.

Purposeful breakup.

This kind of breakup is just a cloak of a breakup, but in fact it is just a coercion and inducement to satisfy one's desires or achieve one's own goals.

The parties will deliberately aggravate the situation in order to incite the emotions of the other party, and even add emotional kidnapping elements in the process.

From the point of view of probability, the first type of decision-making breakup does not occur frequently, at least it will never have the idea of breaking up because of trivial matters at every turn.

And the third is more like a deliberate act with a small calculation in mind.

I love it. If you like us, you will love vigorously. If you don't like us, don't delay anyone? This is called cutting through the mess with a quick knife. No ink.

One. If a person can have his own standards and requirements for feelings. He has a certain pattern for the future development direction of the opposite sex. Then he is also very pertinent to his feelings. This person is suitable for me, I am looking for him, not for me, I will never ink.

Two. After all, this is the day and age. Whoever leaves, can live happily and happily?

So when two people are getting along. If only I could take everything from you. Or maybe I feel from the bottom of my heart that you can change the state of my life right now.

Then I choose you. It's up to you to see where I design the future of the future. Whether there is a certain future for development.

Let me live a better life in the future. He has a clear goal, a clear desire to achieve it.

Three. Mental clarity. Know what you're looking for.

Some people. If you like it, you'll be together. It doesn't matter, what will happen in the future?

Now happy day by day. Even if you don't have a good relationship with me. I have always persevered, even if I am aggrieved with tears.

I didn't dare to talk about breaking up. Fear of losing. And the attitude of breaking up if it is not suitable in love.

I'll tell you. I leave you and I will find a better one than you. I'm not far-fetched about a relationship.

I don't care about the happy past when two people were together. I can only say that I am a very confident person. I don't think it's for me.

On my current terms. I'll find one that suits me and must surpass mine. And not in this state where you are now.

Be confident in yourself and feel like you're good. He would. Treat emotional things that don't fit you.

He'll handle it cleanly. No pestering. That's his state of mind.

Same as I thought, so be it!

Since it is not appropriate for two people to be together, breaking up is the easiest and most direct way. If you don't break up and continue to maintain your existing relationship, won't it be painful for everyone?

Feelings never have to be forced, and reluctant feelings will not bring two people back to their original relationship. On the contrary, it will make each other hate each other more and more.

There is a saying that if you don't love it, let it go.

Therefore, instead of letting each other continue to maintain a relationship that looks like a god, it is better to choose to end it sooner. A large part of the reason why some people are reluctant to end this relationship is that they feel that time will change reality, when in fact they are actually making a fool of themselves.

If you don't love each other, break up with each other decisively, and don't see each other again in the future. Don't be a so-called friend, be the most familiar stranger.

In the relationship, many men and women break up because of many problems, but most of them break up on the grounds of inappropriateness, this very unified rhetoric feels like dislike, in fact, there are many reasons that are not easy to say, and inappropriate is one of the most common reasons for breaking up.

When two people are together, they must like each other, not that I like you, the two of them are together, nor that if you like me, we can be together.

If it's so one-sided, how many fans have to want to marry a celebrity?

You don't have to find a reason to convince the other party, but what if you can't convince them? Can't you just break up? It's not a hooligan.

When we break up, we bless each other and wish everyone better and better.

It may not be enough to love, or it may not be at all.

Because if I love you, no matter how inappropriate it is, I will try to change it and make us suitable. But if I don't love you, any of your character and behavior will be a reason for me to hate you.

My current one is very good to me, but I don't love him, he wants to play with me, eat together, and I think he is clingy; He was jealous of some trivial things, and I felt unreasonable. So I think we're both at all"Not suitable"。In fact, it's just that he doesn't love it, and he can feel it, but he just doesn't want to accept it.

1. The reason why you generally want to break up is because two people have been together for a while and feel that they are not suitable for breaking up. Once you find that you are not suitable, it is better to say it, otherwise the two people will be more painful, life belongs to the two of you, and you need to get along with each other, but if the two of you can't get along for a long time, then there will be more and more contradictions between the two of you, and you will eventually go to the end of the relationship.

2. First of all, if two people feel that they are not suitable for continued development, then in normal life, they can slowly show it, and then if the time is about the same, find a suitable time to make an appointment with their other half, plus it has been set before, so at this time, your other half should have some premonitions in your heart and feel that some places are not suitable. Since two people can't get along, it's better to break up, so that two people can have some good feelings for each other in their hearts.