Why are the post 90s and post 00s generations now increasingly refusing to have children?

The increasing reluctance of young people to have children has become a social problem.

The traditional concepts of "more children, more blessings" and "raising children to prevent old age" have been gradually abandoned by young people. Nowadays, young people are "reluctant to give birth" and "dare not give birth" are the main reasons for the current low fertility rate. This situation arises in tandem with the immaturity of young people's minds, changes in the focus of life, and the pressures they face in life and the economic foundations.

are all related to each other.

Now post-90s.

and many of the post-00s are only children, and they have been pampered in every way since childhood. Although people have grown up, their minds have not matured, and their daily life focuses on themselves and their loved ones, enjoying the joy of life. Once they are allowed to have children, many young people are reluctant to shift the focus of their daily lives to their children.

It also makes them feel that if the joy of having a child is not enough to offset the cost of it, they will hesitate. Although they are succumbed to the pressure of their parents and age in choosing marriage, they still need to enjoy a period of freedom and happiness when it comes to having children.

The post-90s and post-00s generations are burdened with the pressure of mortgages, car loans, renting, work and other aspects, and they are busy coping with them every day. Sometimes it's hard to support yourself, let alone raise children. And the post-90s generation's concept of raising children is different from that of the post-70s and post-80s.

The requirements for raising children are no longer about "giving birth", the key is "education". It has developed from the previous food, clothing, housing and transportation to how to educate and nurture children. To a certain extent, the post-90s and post-00s generations realize the importance of nurturing children, and clearly know the financial and material resources required to raise a child.

That's why I'm very cautious about raising children. Many young people feel that if they cannot provide a good environment for their children to grow up, they can postpone childbearing or even not have children.

In short, young people do not have a strong desire to have children now, on the one hand, young people are more self-worth.

is unwilling to sacrifice the existing life for the sake of the child. At the same time, there are concerns about the financial and educational pressures of raising children. There are also a small number of people who are misled by the people around them or by exaggerating the pain of childbirth. These reasons have caused the younger generation to resist having children.

Now the post-90s and post-00s generations don't want to have children more and more. I think it has something to do with the changing times and the stress of life. What are the specific reasons, let's find out together.

Now many post-90s and post-00s are under a lot of pressure, to put it mildly, now some post-90s and post-00s people can't even support themselves, so what to take to raise children? So, they are well aware of their situation. At this time, having a child will harm the child, not give the child a good life, and will invisibly add a lot of pressure to yourself.

It takes a lot of money to raise a child, and money is needed in all aspects. For example, children's diapers, milk powder, and the cost of education required by children are not cheap.

Raising a child not only costs money, but also takes a lot of time and effort. Because the successful nurturing of a child is never a simple matter. Considering this, many people are afraid, so they don't dare to have children, and they don't even dare to think about it.

I have already lived a very hard life, and I don't want my child to suffer with me when he is born. Modern people are different from the previous generation, and they will not blindly have children just because they are old. Then, in this day and age, it takes a lot of money to get married, such as:

Bride price money, but also to buy a car and a house, these three things can crush a man. Therefore, people who do not have a certain economic foundation do not dare to get married at all, and there is no way to meet these marriage conditions, so they can only stay single. <>

Then, if you are single, you will definitely not have children. In addition, some female friends are afraid of marriage and pregnancy. When it comes to getting married and having children, I am very scared, perhaps because I see the shadow left by my parents' unhappiness, or because I see others having a hard time after getting married.

Finally, the post-90s and post-00s female friends pursue an independent economy, so they will spend a lot of time and energy on improving themselves, making themselves shine first and then thinking about getting married and having children. The points mentioned above are why people born in the 90s and 00s are reluctant to have children.

After 9, he increasingly refused to have children because of the pressure of life.

With the rapid development of society, "housing prices, car loans, rent, and jobs", one after another pressure is pressed on the post-9 generation, and it is difficult for them to support themselves, and how can they have the energy to raise their children. Compared with the post-7 and post-8, the post-9 and post-9 generations received a higher level of education and were exposed to more new ideas.

It's not that they don't have children, but they want to give their children a better living environment, they won't have children because of pressure like the previous generation, and they won't blindly have children because they reach age.

Because today's young people are under more pressure to work and live, and if they have children, it will lead to more financial tension, so they refuse to have children.

For getting married and having children, the post-90s and post-00s generations consider more economic pressure, education costs, ideological and educational concepts, etc. Under pressure, a new generation of young people has greatly reduced the need to have children.

I've always felt that everyone's feelings have become very indifferent now. The concept of family affection is not as heavy as before. What can having children bring to the post-90s and post-00s, what does it bring is the economic burden and the distortion of the figure, and they are not expected to provide for the elderly.

The post-90s, post-00s, and retirement salaries will already be available when they retire.

First of all, the land in the countryside has not been touched for 30 years. Many children born later in the countryside are landless. If you don't buy a house in the city, you can't stay, you don't have a formation.

It's the same with people in the city, there are no more bags to distribute. If you don't work hard to earn money to buy a house, you don't have a home either.

What kind of person would like to have a second child and a third child? Civil servants have a house and a stable life. There's an underlying logic of human nature in this.

People always have fear of the unknown, and fear creates uncertainty. Something that is uncertain, people won't do it.

People in the system have stable wages, stable fat, and a stable quality of life, so they prefer to have a second child and a third child, because he is very sure of his future life. In contrast, people outside the system have a great deal of uncertainty about the future. So he didn't dare to give birth to a second child and a third child.

The cost of living is too high, the work is stressful, and the pace of life is fast

The post-90s and post-00s generations do have fewer children, which has become a common phenomenon and will have a profound impact on the social development of future generations. So, what is the reason why the post-90s and post-00s generations are resistant to having children?

First of all, from the economic pressure, the post-90s, post-00s social background is very different from the previous generations, the post-90s and post-00s grew up in an economic and material environment, they have not experienced the hardships and insecurity experienced by the previous generations, they are demanding their own living standards, hoping to make their lives more delicious. And the economic situation demanded by children often discourages young people born in the 90s and 00s. As a result, financial constraints have become a potential factor restricting pregnancy.

Changes in the social environment are also an important reason for the post-90s and post-00s generations to postpone pregnancy. This change in the environment brings not only economic and material changes, but also psychological and spiritual changes. With the development of society, the post-90s and post-00s are provided with more life choices and higher expectations, so they allow themselves to have more possibilities, and it seems that there is no feasibility to leave their children behind.

At the same time, the contemporary post-90s and post-00s generations are also influenced by traditional family values. In today's society, the pursuit of power, glory, and spiritual pursuit occupies the lives of the post-90s and post-00s, and the appearance of children will hinder their career peak, and they are arrogant and arrogant, and they are not willing to be bound by anything, therefore, they postpone the time to have children.

In addition, when talking about the post-90s and post-00s having fewer children, we cannot ignore the impact of social and cultural conditions. First of all, the influence of family education, in the contemporary post-90s and post-00s families, more children occupy all the attention of parents, if you want another child, you will arrange all the parents' time and energy to the child, therefore, they are often reluctant to increase the burden. At the same time, the multicultural trend of society has also affected the concept of fertility of the post-90s and post-00s, and more post-90s and post-00s people have begun to avoid the pressure of reproducing children and pursue a personalized life, which is also a major reason why they postpone childbearing.

The above is the analysis of the reasons for the problem of having fewer children after 90 and 00, in the future, the post-90s and post-00s will have a great impact on the alienation of having children, and the society should respect the choice of the post-90s and post-00s, and at the same time, the post-90s and post-00s should also consider and re-evaluate their willingness to have children with a rational attitude, so as to alleviate the consequences of this less birth in the future, so as to ensure the future changes in the social structure of future generations.

First, most of the post-00s and post-90s are born in the post-80s and post-70s, and that generation has begun to decrease, and the post-00s and post-90s are also decreasing.

Second, families are now accustomed to having only one child, at most two, and to increase the fertility rate in the short term, people can't accept having more children in a family. In the early years of China, every family was very poor, and having one or two more children could not close the gap between the rich and the poor, poor nutrition and poor conditions, and it didn't matter if there were one or two Zhiwang who couldn't support them, anyway, there were many children; And having more children means that you can share the burden of old-age care, earn an extra ration, and have more children also have the probability of producing one or two excellent children to glorify their ancestors, brothers and sisters can help each other to live a good life, they are very poor and do not have family property; Now, if there is a second or third child in the family, unless it is an entrepreneur, life will be very heavy, and there may be no money to go to college, and in the end you can only gnaw at the old. Most of the brothers and sisters are shirking each other's bucks for the elderly, dividing the family property, turning against each other, and they have long had no brotherhood.

Third, now that the cost of living and education is high, no one is willing to sacrifice quality to complete quantity, and having more children can only become alternative, which is not in line with mainstream values. This is not selfishness, because only if you live well, your children can live well and achieve a virtuous circle.

Fourth, the new generation is less influenced by traditional culture, the idea of inheritance is not so serious, and when life is the most exciting, the moment when the value of life is most reflected, if you have so many children, it will go downhill in the existing class. I haven't lived to understand, I haven't enjoyed the joy of being young, and I don't want to be dragged down by my children. Even if it doesn't matter, Dink's needs can be solved, and I don't want to bring grandchildren, it doesn't matter if it's a great pleasure.

Fifth, today's young people have a strong sense of responsibility, and they all want to give their children a good environment, and the children who cultivate good will also feed themselves, and the risk of the whole family is not so great.

I don't know when I started to have children in the future, there are many young people who choose to consider it after the age of 30, especially many post-95s, most of them have no children, and they don't seem to like children very much, today I want to talk to you about why the post-00s and post-95s have lost interest in having children. As a new human being, the post-00s are exposed to more new things, and in the era when the post-95s grew up, he has more and more fresh ideas integrated into their ears, and their adolescence is also more rebellious, more public, and at the same time, after their own work, their independent personality also makes them think a lot, and they are more able to know the beauty of the world. Especially when two people fall in love, what they want more is the kind of two-person world that belongs to two people, and having a child seems to destroy this feeling. Not only that, most of the post-95s are just working and don't have a lot of money to raise a child, so they won't consider it at this stage.

Buying a home and adoptive parents is already stressful, so why have a child? Most of us are obsessed with buying a house, because we always feel that having a house is a pure home of our own, especially when getting married, the house is insecure and buying a house in his twenties is really very difficult for him, the first is to take out a loan, and the second is to repay it on a monthly basis, so the pressure itself is relatively great, and most of them are only children, and their parents have retired The responsibility of supporting their parents also falls on them. There is simply no way to have more energy and more money to raise a child. The times are progressing, people's thoughts are also progressing, aiming at this topic, thinking that they are all their own choice, especially after 95, 00, they don't want children, then it is their own idea And everyone's life is only once, how they choose is their own will, no one else can influence, or the post-90s have not yet reached the age of wanting to use a baby, or maybe we want to live like this, The world itself is tolerant, and in this era, there are no children and there will be no discrimination or anything.

All in all, it's good to be happy.