What happens to families who don t have children when they get old?

The reason why we have children is to wait for us to be old and have someone to take care of us.

However, with the development of the times, people's economic level has also been greatly improved, many people have pensions after retirement, or have accumulated enough wealth through hard work when they are young to ensure their pension life, and there is no need to rely on children to provide for the elderly.

Therefore, there are more and more Dink couples, who think: we don't rely on children to support the elderly, so what's the point of having children?

You must know that the cost of raising a child is too high now, and it is not easy to bring up a child, and parents have to help their children buy a car and a house, get married and have children, and even when they are old, it is difficult to have their own free time, and they have to help their children take care of their children.

The concept of raising children to prevent old age is getting weaker and weaker, and many young couples can't figure out why they want to have children.

When I was watching a variety show recently, the host of the show raised this question, I don't want to get married before I get married, and I don't want children after I get married, because I don't understand what the meaning of having children is. Spending money and having children is a very troublesome thing that will bring a lot of troubles to your life, which can be completely avoided, so you don't want to, because children disrupt your normal life.

The thoughts of this show host are naturally also the thoughts of many young couples, they don't know why they want to have children, is it just to pass on the lineage? If it is to have a child for the sake of having a child, what is the meaning of marriage?

Regarding the host's question, Xiang Huaqiang's wife Chen Lan gave this answer: When I am getting old day by day, but my youth continues in the child, he has grown up, so my time has not disappeared, and many people will ask where has the time gone? I saw it in children.

Xiang Tai, who is in his 60s, is the only one among the guests of the show who is ready to be a mother-in-law, and because he is older, he has experienced a lot of things, so he sees things very clearly, and people live well.

It is everyone's freedom to have children or not, but if once you decide to have children, it is best for couples to make a careful decision after thinking clearly, once you become parents, the responsibility becomes more important, and two children are indeed something that requires more energy to complete in a day.

Some people say that children are the continuation of each of our lives, and when we leave this world, there is still our blood in the world, and there are still people who remember the days when we were alive, you grow up with him, and he grows old with you, which can also be said to be the happiest thing in the world.

If you don't have children, you will feel lonely when you are old, and when you are sick, you can only turn to domestic services, and you have to have funds, but you have no one to rely on, if you are healthy, if you are not in good health, you will still have difficulties.

You'll regret it when you're old!!

If you can't give birth, there's no way to do it.

There is no money to support the children, this is the sadness of life.

In fact, children are the greatest wealth in life, and talents are priceless, which is the truth. As long as there are a few children, your family will have the possibility of turning over. Otherwise, there is not even a possibility!!

It is said that raising children to prevent old age, no children, no one can accompany you to take care of you when you are old and sick in the future, and you are two old people in everything, and it is very desolate to think about it.

If you have children, half of the probability that you will be pitiful because of your child's unfilial piety when you get old. But if you don't have children, you will have a pitiful life when you are old.

Unless you can't wait for old age and die unexpectedly.

I've never been a supporter of the Dinks, couples who have the power but don't have children. Some people are forced to become Dinks because they can't afford to marry their daughters-in-law and children, and some people have to become Dinks because they can't have children because of physical illness.

But when you have a significant other, obviously have the ability, but do not want to have children for the sake of so-called freedom, such a person is selfish, ignorant, and even more pathetic.

No one can escape the reality of old-age care, or that sentence, unless you don't want to live to old age, or you can't live to old age.

Many people pin their hopes on nursing homes or others, thinking that they can save more money now and let the nursing home caregiver or nanny at home take care of their affairs in the future.

But if you don't even believe in your own children, how can you be confident that others will honestly support you in old age?

Do you want to gamble? Bet that caregivers and nannies are not greedy for their pension money, bet that they are all good people, and will not bully old and powerless old people like themselves.

There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, let alone outsiders.

However, nowadays, more and more young people do not want to have children and dare not have children.

Especially for women who are the main body of childbearing, they are faced with the fear of losing control of their lives at any time, and their sense of security is reduced to zero every minute.

The trade-off between family and career has always been a big problem for women. Once a woman has a child, she faces the risk of career interruption, no hope of promotion and salary increase, and a threat to future career development and income.

Our natural motherhood makes us feel that we should be a mother who takes care of our children with all our efforts, and the pursuit of self-worth makes it difficult for us to give up our careers. And no matter how we choose, it's hard to have both. There are also many mothers who have many postpartum sequelae, urine leakage, uterine prolapse, and yin wall bulge, which need to be repaired in time, and there are many mothers who do not have time to go to the Yi hospital, so they can move in the mobile phone, follow the matching plan on the system to do Kegel exercises, repair pelvic floor muscles, and improve the sequelae of postpartum urine leakage and bulging and prolapse.

Nowadays, young people value the quality of life and the sense of contentment, and the arrival of children has increased a lot of chagrin, so some people are reluctant to have children, feeling that this life is really too short, and they are not here for the sake of inheritance.

In my opinion, people who don't want to have children are likely to be miserable in their later lives, but different people have different miserable methods.

Especially for public figures, becoming a Dink has made many people agree, feeling that they have lived their own lives, and that they should not care about the old and worldly vision, how ridiculous and terrible.

Whoever wants to be a dink should not be proud of it; The world should not take Dink for granted.

1. For the elderly who do not have children and have no children, whether it is reliable to choose to enter a nursing home for the elderly is like many other things, there is no fixed answer, but should be considered according to the specific situation of each individual.

2. If financial resources allow, choosing a particularly professional high-end nursing home is undoubtedly one of the best choices. Then you will receive proper care and comfortable accommodation, and at the same time, you will be able to make like-minded friends, so that companionship and care can coexist, so as to further improve the quality of life and enjoy old age. Conversely, if the economic situation is tight and you can only choose a general nursing home, then you need to consider whether the health care facilities, round-the-clock staffing and catering arrangements are adequate and reliable.

3. No matter how much you spend your old age in **, in principle, you should try to maintain a healthy body and mental state; And for many elderly people, it is always important to be with friends and relatives who share their experiences and have deep friendships. Therefore, it is important to seek attention from the outside world, engage in regular social activities with other elderly people, and exercise.

In short, the sense of social and family responsibility is still the foundation of the modern family, and if, as a new generation, you choose not to have children or are unable to fulfill the obligation to take care of your parents, you can also do it by increasing the time of companionship, greetings, etc.

The first is the issue of medical treatment.

Earlier, if you have paid for 15 or 20 years, you can enjoy lifelong medical insurance, that is, after paying a certain number of years, you can enjoy medical insurance treatment without having to pay for medical insurance after retirement. However, with negative population growth, fewer and fewer young people can continue to pay for health insurance. The money in the pool is decreasing, but medical spending is increasing.

This is also normal, the older you get, the more your body functions gradually decline.

According to data from the National Health Commission, China's average life expectancy in 2022 is years, but the healthy life expectancy is less than 70 years. In other words, there are about 8 years to live with illness, and chronic diseases, geriatric diseases, and geriatric care all require a lot of expenses.

Most of the elderly need to go to public hospitals to be reimbursed for medical insurance expenses.

At present, public hospitals are overcrowded, and medical resources are unevenly distributed. If you want to receive high-quality medical services, such as going to a private hospital, international department or special needs department, you often have to pay more. Once you get seriously ill, the scope of medical insurance reimbursement is limited and the amount is limited, and the elderly have little income at this time, and relying on the pension alone is really a drop in the bucket.

The second is the issue of pension. It is difficult to provide for the elderly, and the declining birthrate is superimposed on the aging population, and the most prominent problem is the pension. The burden of family pension may become heavier and heavier.

The "raising children and preventing old age" model shows that it can no longer meet the future social development trend. Although many people have participated in the country's social security pension, our current social security pension system is a pay-as-you-go system, that is, to take the money paid by young people for social security and pay pensions to the elderly. When there are fewer and fewer young people and more and more elderly people in the future, the total amount of pension will increase less and consume more, and the pressure on the national pension will not be small.

Especially in the next 15 years, more than 300 million people will reach the age of 60, and it is a sure fact that the baby boom will turn into a retirement wave.

People are afraid of getting old and poor, although the general consensus is that "raising children is difficult to prevent old age", but after all, it is also a possible reliable option. Of course, when it comes to giving birth, it's best if you want to give birth, and if you don't want to give birth, then don't!In addition to having a baby, it is more important to plan well in advance.

For example, for medical risks that may occur in the future. In addition to exercising, going to bed early and waking up early, don't forget to do regular physical examinations every year. In addition, it is also possible to appropriately increase the protection of critical illness insurance and medical insurance to reduce the possibility of poverty due to illness.

In terms of pension, although there is not much social security, it is better than running naked. So the delivery still can't be stopped. At the same time, you can do a good job of wealth planning for the future.

For example, appropriately increasing future cash flow income can be achieved through annuity insurance and increased whole life insurance. When you are young and promising, and your income is relatively high, you can save a sum of money regularly every year, and then increase your value through time compounding. Prepare an extra money bag for your old self.

People will encounter some problems when they get old, such as as age, the body will not be as good as before, there will be a lot of diseases, and when they are old, they hope to be with their own people will encounter some problems when they are old, such as as growing older, the body will not be as good as there will be a lot of diseases before the relatives are quietly eliminated, and when they are old, they want to be reunited with their children together. If you don't have children in Gaoyou, you will be very lonely in previous years. It's not really perfect.

So you still have to have children when you're young.