She is older than me and helps me as a child, and my girlfriend is older than me and treats me as a

Updated on parenting 2024-07-10
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Something between two people. The clearest and clearest may be yourself, perhaps, her scruples make you afraid of hurting her after confessing to her!

    No matter what time and space, what place, or what kind of situation, it will never be a problem.

    You have to think clearly, what kind of affection do you have for her?! What kind of relationship do you want to have with her, and what kind of substantive changes do you want to have in your relationship with the woman you love after you confess to her?

    Perhaps, some people will say, my point of view is too wordy, too troublesome, just confess directly, why bother thinking so much!

    To survive in such a stressful society, in fact, everyone's inner feelings are so fragile and sensitive!

    What to give after you have figured out your confession to the woman you want to confess!

    She has time to play with you (even if it's not voluntary)" is a contradiction...

    If she can think of accompanying you in her spare time, maybe she is also conflicting about her relationship with you, or maybe she just cares about you, but I think the former may be bigger. The sentence in parentheses is your own inner thoughts!

    Maybe you can't find a suitable way to confess to her, and you yourself will sometimes feel a little unhappy because she is afraid of her because of the age gap with you and the fear that others will misunderstand your behavior!

    In any case, it's not okay to be alone and guess around.

    A woman is a sensitive and fragile creature. Maybe she's also afraid of being rejected by you, maybe she's actually hoping to date you, and the age gap is a tall threshold that blocks her progress.

    A woman is a creature who can't hide her true feelings and thoughts in her heart. They don't want or like to disguise their feelings for someone. Love is love, and if you don't love, you don't love.

    You yourself said that you are an intern, and she has worked longer than you and is more successful than you, why doesn't she find friends to entertain her when she has free time, and she will remember to accompany you from time to time?!

    Whether she is out of sympathy for you, wants to help you, accompanies you through difficult times, lonely times, and whether she really loves you, but because of the age gap and unspeakable!

    Think about your relationship with her, and then carefully observe how she treats you, and after a while, you feel confident, and then you want to confess to her. If you really love someone, try to solve the matter in the most gentle manner.

    Whether it works out or not, you're still friends.

    Remember, don't hurt a woman who helps you and cares about you like this.

    I sincerely wish you success!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you like it, chase it, and you have to work hard yourself Women still prefer enterprising men with a sense of security.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, you have to communicate with her to show that you don't like her treating you like a child; The second is to approach the mature direction in how and speak in ordinary times, and to take care of her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't be in a hurry, slowly improve your ability to deal with things, strive to be more independent, and win the approval of your girlfriend, so that you will not be underestimated.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    He doesn't want to be with you, becoming, lovers.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you have a boyfriend, you don't have to deal with other people

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Are you sure, it's not neuropathy that likes.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Do you look a little like a child that inspires her deep motherly love?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's funny that there are such strange things among our girls (o).

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