What to do when you meet someone with higher energy than yourself

Personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.

I'm actually against working with someone who is much stronger or weaker than I am for too long, because that will inevitably lead to long-term harm. The so-called competencies here are more inclined to social competence and the ability to learn.

Doing business with someone who is much more capable than you will bring long-term harm to low self-esteem and negative emotions, and it is very likely to trigger a kind of stereotype oppression on you by the strong person. Although the advantage of working with them is that you can really increase your experience stats considerably.

The long-term harm of working with someone who is much weaker than you is is arrogant, and it is very likely to trigger resistance from the weaker. In fact, working with a weaker person has less experience bonus than working with a strong person.

My advice to the respondent is that adjusting your mindset is hard to solve. In fact, it is better to try to work with people who are similar to your ability for a long time, or people with different abilities.

Well, when you meet someone with higher energy than yourself, first you have to learn from him, uh, learn how he makes his energy higher, and at the same time, how to learn from him Well, give you some of his energy, so that your energy can also be higher, so that you can achieve a win-win effect, not that you just see someone with higher energy than yourself and be frightened or overwhelmed, or just uh let him go like this, you must learn from him and learn from him uh, In the process of learning, you will continue to improve your own energy level and quality, so learning is a kind of ability Well, getting energy from others is also an ability, uh, to maximize your ability, you blow, convert it into your luck Horoscope, that's the truth.

1 6 Analyze the strengths of the other party.

Since you know that you are not as capable as others, you must analyze the advantages of the other party at this time, so that you can know what you should do next and surpass him.

2 6 Strengthen the improvement of self-ability.

After understanding the strengths of the other party, we must strengthen our own ability improvement, so that we will not be felt weak by the leader, and we can make ourselves more stable in the workplace.

3 6 have the determination to surpass each other.

Since you are a person who is stronger than yourself, that is, your competitor in the workplace, if you can't have the determination to surpass each other, then you can only be despised more and more in the future, until the worst outcome occurs.

4 6 Learn to accept your own shortcomings.

When you find that others are better than you in some aspects, you should learn to accept the facts at this time, and magnify your own shining points to prove that you still have the value of use.

5 6 Insist on learning and seeking knowledge.

Acknowledging that some of your abilities are lacking in the workplace does not mean that you have to give up your career, but you should catch up, continue to learn and maintain an attitude of curiosity, so that you can beat the other party quickly.

6 6 In fact, there are many people who are better than themselves in the workplace, and the company always has to develop, and it must be hoped that the people they spend money to hire will get better and better, so only if they maintain a constantly motivated and learning attitude, they will not be replaced by others soon, and they do not have to be afraid of the sudden appearance of powerful people, because they are also very good.

I'm sure there will be a moment when you feel that everything is okay when you are in a good state, and when you are in a bad state, any small thing will become a hindrance to your progress. There may even be a day when something small can affect your mood for the day. So whether it's at work or at home, it's easy for us to be influenced by our emotions.

Even plagued by our emotional bad state. And I saw a data report before, which was that we asked 5,000 people to understand their high-energy state for a month, and the final count was 3 days. Imagine how many days in our own life and work in a month are very energetic and efficient.

If this state of affairs can last a little longer, will our results be better than we thought.

In fact, before August last year, I was one of those who only had 3 days a month. But when I attended an event in August, my life changed a lot. In that event, I got to know my very important partners in life, President Yao, President Xu, and Dean Ge.

Ever since I came into contact with them, I have come to appreciate what it means to be in a high-energy state. So I came to the conclusion that the quality of your state depends a lot on the environment you are in, and this environment can be where you are or the people around you. People are social animals and are easily influenced by the environment, so we must do things with people in a high energy state, so that your efficiency will improve quickly.

I especially recognize that you are the people you are now, the people you have seen, the books you have read, and the roads you have traveled in the past 3 years. So there is a very simple criterion for judging the quality of your environment, is the environment you are in now consuming you or nourishing you?

The second way to maintain a high-energy state is to keep learning and output. I've always felt that reading books is the best way to talk to great people. Some good books are even a summary of a person's life's experience.

Read some of the books we need to read systematically. Of course, it is not blind reading, the ultimate purpose of reading is to solve some of our problems. Recently, I set aside 1 hour every morning to read and output.

On the one hand, my own knowledge reserve has greatly increased, and on the other hand, I have learned a lot of useful knowledge that has helped me a lot. In the past six months or so, my growth rate can be regarded as very fast, so fast that I feel that many of them can't catch up. From being sleepy when I read a book, to being able to read 100 books a year, I feel like I can read more and absorb better.

Then learn more from others to improve your own abilities.