How much is the appropriate bride price in various places?

Because different regions have different customs and customs, and economic development is also different, they are said to be interested in bride price.

The standards are also different. Friend.

1. The bride price in our hometown is generally about 100,000 yuan.

Let's talk about the bride price in our hometown first, because our hometown is in a small city that can't get on the line, so the bride price is also very low. If the man and the woman have already established a relationship, they need to get engaged first, and the man needs to bring gifts, food and drinks and a deposit when he is engaged.

Generally, the deposit will be between 230,000 yuan, and the most I have seen is 26,666 yuan or 28,888 yuan, which is a good sign.

Then on the eve of the wedding, I will go to the woman's house again to give the bride price, but the bride price also includes the previous fixed money, so the sum of the two sums is about 100,000 yuan.

Second, the bride price in Jiangxi is very high.

In fact, I think the bride price in our region is still very low, and when we get married here, men are generally not under much pressure, but if you are an old watch in Jiangxi.

Then getting married will be a headache. Jiangxi's bride price money is ranked very high in the country. I have a friend from Jiangxi, and when he got married, he took 280,000 yuan in bride price for his girlfriend's family alone.

Then I had to buy a car and a house, and the woman's request at that time was still to donate, and it was not enough to pay a down payment, and getting married was really like peeling off a layer of skin.

3. In fact, you don't need to be too entangled in the bride price.

In fact, I don't think that whether it is a boy or a girl or the parents of both parties, there is no need to be too entangled in the bride price. Some boys think that if you get married, you shouldn't give a bride price, what is the difference between this and selling your daughter, but I think this kind of thinking is also wrong, because your wife was also raised by other people's parents, do you know how much it costs to raise a child? And the bride price is an old custom for many years, and it can't be said that it can be changed!

Then the woman should not ask the man to give too much bride price money, they are all young people, ** there is so much money, can the amount of bride price money represent how deep the love for you is? The second is the parents of both parties, the man's parents must be aware of the righteousness when giving the bride price, do not pick and search, and the woman's parents should also stop in moderation, do not ask too much, and give the man too.

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Jiang Boquan, a master of the Book of Changes and a master of fortune-telling marriage, believes that an appropriate bride price is okay and reasonable, and a wedding bride price is an ancient custom. In addition, it is also to thank the woman's parents for raising their wife, and it is also to show respect for the woman.

If the lion asks for a high bride price, it is not a simple bride price, but a relationship of buying and selling beautiful love and marriage, or even buying and selling people, which is illegal, absolutely undesirable, and immoral! As for the question of the amount of the bride price, it depends on local customs and the actual economic situation of the man's family, and the two parties can negotiate calmly until they reach a happy agreement.

More than 120,000 After all, you can only get married in your 20s That is to say, the family has paid for you for more than 20 years, and the woman has to marry to do housework, have children, raise children, and can't live with her parents, so there is no problem with giving more dowry, if you really love each other, you can give a little less, but you can never not give it.

Bride price. It is the fee given by the man to the woman when the two parties get married, and the bride price often reflects the importance that the man attaches to the woman. There is a custom of giving a bride price to a greater or lesser extent in various places. So, how much is the bride price generally given? Today, we have compiled the following for reading.

The bride price is generally given to the woman's parents in the presence of both parents at the time of engagement. In our country, depending on the region, there will be differences in the amount of the bride price. The general area will be based on 10,000 and 1, and there is no upper limit.

Because 10,000 and 1 means one in a million.

Therefore, when we give the bride price, it should also depend on the situation. Because there is no fixed limit on the amount of money, we can also decide for ourselves.

According to the statistics of the network survey, according to the bride price, the country is divided into 5 regions, namely the million yuan area, the 500,000 yuan area, the 100,000 yuan area, the 100,000 yuan area and the zero yuan area.

"Dowry."

Shanghai and Tianjin topped the list of "million-yuan area", with reserve prices of "100,000 + 1 suite" and "60,000 + 1 suite" respectively; The "dowry 500,000 yuan area" followed by the three northeastern provinces.

Jiangxi and Qinghai occupy the three provinces of the Middle East.

The dowry is very particular, it is 10,000 cash + three gold + 9999 change fee + 1 suite; Shandong, Hunan and Zhejiang are divided into "dowry 100,000 yuan area", and Shandong's dowry form is even more bold - "three catties" 100 yuan.

In fact, the bride price is just a formality, and we can't measure the relationship between us because of its amount. Therefore, we can care about how much money is appropriate for the bride price, but don't care about how much the bride price is appropriate. In fact, the amount of the bride price is directly related to the daughter's parents and the man's parents.

Therefore, we have also seen many parents break up unhappily because of the sky-high asking price. In fact, the bride price is just a custom, don't think of it as a tool to make money.

The normal bride price is only tens of thousands of yuan, and if it is too much, it is no different from selling a daughter.

Starting from 2 to 60,000, there is no cap.

The bride price is around 100,000-150,000 yuan, and in some areas, the need for a house and a car may reach millions!

Discuss bride price skills with the woman's family:

1. First understand the woman's local customs about the bride price and how much the bride price is generally given.

2. Correct the mentality, after all, it is not easy for the woman's parents to raise their daughter. If the woman's parents insist on a lot of bride price, don't get too excited, and the wisest thing to do is to ask your girlfriend to help you.

3. Be diligent in helping with housework at the woman's parents' house, the woman's parents want a bride price is a form of testing the man, if the man gives the woman's parents a steadfast, steady, and hard-working impression, I think the woman's parents will not be too embarrassed.

4. Of course, the woman's parents should also abandon the mentality that not wanting the bride price will make the in-laws look down, and don't ask for a sky-high price, after all, after talking about the bride price, the two will live together and plan for the long-term development of their daughter.

Many people will be troubled by paying the bride price when they get married, giving too much, the family can't afford it, giving less and being afraid that the woman will not do it, how much should the bride price be given? In fact, China's marriage law has provisions prohibiting the use of marriage to solicit property, such as according to this article, the bride price can not be given, and the payment of the bride price is completely voluntary. However, due to differences in regional customs and habits, whether or not to give a bride price is inconsistent from place to place, and there is no specific standard.

Therefore, in the case of choosing to give the bride price, it is recommended that the two parties negotiate to settle it, or adopt a workaround to solve it, because once the bride price is paid, it is also subject to the law, and the bride price is not given in vain, and the bride price still needs to be returned in the following three situations:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor. Therefore, since the issue of choosing a bride price together must be dealt with.

Each place is different, there are tens of thousands and more than 100,000. Don't compare the bride price, just have a mind.

Now most people have found that the more remote and remote the countryside, the higher the bride price, well, the first and second tier cities basically do not want the bride price, the third and fourth tier cities, the city people want a bride price, basically only twenty or thirty thousand, but not necessarily in the countryside. As long as there are hundreds of thousands, there are many people.

Personally, I feel that the bride price is only one aspect, and the parents of both sides value the relationship between the two children [of course, it is not excluded that some of the woman's parents want a high bride price], as long as they are willing to do so, the bride price can be discussed, not a problem.

If it is 9 rural areas, the bride price is 100,000 yuan.

Many of our women there will not ask for a bride price of less than 600,000 yuan, and they basically can't marry a daughter-in-law below this price.

You can give the bride price to the woman according to local customs. Generally around 5-150,000.

If you have money, you will give more, if you don't have money, you will give less, and if you have more money, you will have less money.

I think it's generally just a matter of looking at your own family. Have a local custom at home.

Bride price, is one of the indispensable marriage customs from ancient times to modern times, after the founding of New China, the bride price was once greatly criticized and was abolished, but it was still completely continued, marriage is almost everyone's only way, but the high bride price has scared off many people. Many young people who love each other because of the high bride price, resulting in a breakup, there are lovers can not eventually become dependents, embarrassing, now in society, there are more men and fewer women, girls have become a sought-after commodity, resulting in a rising bride price, the bride price in some places is often more than 100,000 or 200,000, these sky-high bride price scare away a lot of young people, young people are not only scared by the house price bent over, but also by the sky-high bride price frightened by the courage. Hebei 5-200,000, Hebei bride price in some places from 100,000, but some places have 10,000.

Henan 10,000 to 150,000 Henan bride price needs the meaning, the bride price span is very large, 11,000, 31,008, 48,000 lots! Beijing has an average of about 100,000 yuan, and the bride price is all small heads, and the big heads basically want a suite. Tianjin 8 to 200,000, 80,000 is low, 100,000 is decent, and good conditions may be 200,000.

Inner Mongolia 10,000 to 10,000, Inner Mongolia lead hunger bride price may be relatively high, herdsmen may also add a few cows and sheep. The age of Liaoning is about 100,000, and the bride price of Jilin is basically the same as that of Jilin, about 100,000 in Jilin, and the family with a house may have a little less than 5-100,000 in Heilongjiang, the bride price in Heilongjiang is still quite high relative to the house price, and Hegang, Heilongjiang is known as the place with the lowest house price in the country.