Confess to a boy that he said it was too sudden, what should I do if I want to slow down?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-25
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    This is a refusal, otherwise, ordinary people, even if they feel sudden, there will be no news afterward, not to mention boys, if you really like it, you will take the initiative a lot more than girls, if you say it, then it should be disliked, and then euphemistically refused, but it's okay, you'll meet a better one, he can't change it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's too sudden, let him think about it, it means that he didn't expect you to like him, he didn't expect you to confess to him, he wasn't ready, and then he didn't respond, which means that he thought about it, and felt that you and him were not suitable, or that it was more cruel, he didn't like you, he felt that you couldn't take it, you weren't worthy of him, okay, give up if you don't respond, so you can leave some dignity for yourself, who is not a little princess anymore?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It should be a refusal, he may not directly refuse in consideration of your face, but the subtext is 90% actually a refusal, you can calm down first, don't take the initiative to look for him for the time being, if he cares about you, he will come to you again, if he doesn't look for you, he may really be bored with you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Obviously, this is a rejection, but he didn't directly refuse, so in his heart, he is sure that you have a good impression of you, but it is a bit different from someone else; Or maybe he wants your relationship to remain in the friend and doesn't want to develop further, maybe he doesn't like you, or maybe he has a relationship with a friend who cherishes you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Like is like, dislike is not like, treat feelings, no positive response, is rejection, put yourself in your shoes, will you make the person you like not understand your mind. The lack of a clear refusal indicates that this man is indecisive in his treatment of feelings, and may not want to hurt you by speaking out directly, but this is another greater hurt.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a refusal.,Even if it's a passive boy.,The girl who likes it will confess.,And,After thinking about it, I don't give a single word.,Obviously, I don't have you in my heart.。

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    From my point of view, it's basically a refusal, because if there is a girl who confesses to me but I don't like it, mine is the same, it's just all kinds of excuses, and you should understand it if you have a higher emotional intelligence.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I also had the same problem, he said that he asked me to give me some time, and he said that he wanted to be honest with me, we were high school classmates who had known each other for six or seven years. I've had a crush on him for three or four years, and now I'm out to work. Only when I came to know that he was politely refusing.

    I couldn't say what I felt in my heart.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello, this situation may be that he is not sure of his mind, does not know what to do, does not know whether to accept it or not, in this case you can give him a little time, let him think about it, and then you can develop further.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He agrees to date you, but he doesn't want to get married so soon, he wants to know each other better, and he doesn't have feelings until he decides to a certain extent.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Obviously, he doesn't particularly like you, it seems that he uses you as a spare tire, if he meets a good one during this period, he will decisively give up on you, I think you still have to think about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel a little bit about you, but I don't know much about each other, and he is a very responsible person for feelings, so I have to get along with each other, and if I think it's appropriate to get along with each other, I will agree to be together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Hello, the girl confesses to the boy, the boy says take your time, the girl can reply like this: Okay, then let's take our time, I think this is your recognition of me, and it also represents your acceptance of my confession, I hope that both of us can get along in harmony, and I also hope that in this day of getting along slowly, I can get your trust.

    The girl confessed to the boy, and the boy said how to reply slowly.

    Hello, the girl confessed to the boy, the boy said take your time, the girl can reply to Hongfu like this: Okay, then let's take our time, I think this is your recognition of me, and it also represents your acceptance of my confession, I hope that the two of us can get along in harmony, and I also hope that in this slow day of getting along with each other, I can get your trust.

    Girls can also reply like this: As long as you give me this opportunity, I know that I may confess so early, and you may not be able to accept it, but now you say take your time, which means that you recognize me more, as long as you are willing to accept my lead, we can start with friends first, if you feel suitable, we can continue to get along, if you feel inappropriate, Min Chun, then I will only be friends with Brother Huai, I will not force you.

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