How do you think that the more you care about someone, the easier it is to lose?

Because you care about him, you are always suffering from gains and losses, you are always cautious, you become more and more sensitive, and finally you become less and less like yourself. If one of the two sides cares more about the other, it is easy to have problems. Because you will become more and more neurotic, more and more sensitive, more and more incredible, sometimes you will be cranky and suspicious because of a little thing, and the other party will become more and more disgusted with you because of this, which will lead to the breakdown of your relationship.

Like sand, the tighter you hold on to sand, the less you can hold on. So these are the reasons why the more you care, the easier it is to lose. Don't push people too hard, everyone needs free space, and know how to stop in moderation, even if it's good for others, sometimes some good others can't bear it. ‍‍

You care about him, he doesn't care about you, you lose him, it means that he doesn't have you in his heart, no matter what you are, he doesn't belong to you. It's that simple! This is not a PK fight ring, whoever cares more belongs to whom, feelings are the most indescribable thing, and they are the most unreasonable thing!

He doesn't have you in his heart, you still think about it so much, it's because you think too much, think too much! Although some of the words are very hurtful, however, the authorities are obsessed with bystanders! ‍‍

I don't think so. In some cases, the more you care about someone, the easier it is to lose, because there is paralysis in the mind that others only think that others will care about you or think that you will care about others, and ignore the emotional communication, and end up losing. People who don't care about it may also be easy to lose, because not caring about him proves that there is no him in their hearts at all, and it is easy to lose at any time. ‍‍

I feel like most people have had this experience with this question. Often the more we want to keep someone, the more we can't keep it, the more we want to get rid of someone, the more we can't get rid of it. Learn to accept this loss lightly.

It's like spilled milk, broken glass, withered flowers. They all gave us good hopes, but they inadvertently left. Learning to let go may be the only way to grow. ‍‍

I think everything has a cause and an effect, because you have not reached the fruit level of the laws of nature at all, and it is difficult to bloom, let alone the result. There is a saying that melons are ripe, as long as they are ripe, everything will be logical. That is, when you care about others, others don't care about you at all.

Therefore, your question can only be said to be your unilateral limitations, that is, immature youth. ‍‍

Because the more you pay attention to someone, the more deeply imprinted he or she has on your heart. Then, when losing him or her, the mental effort required to repair this imprint is daunting. Therefore, learn to be two independent:

Financial independence and emotional independence. This is important for everyone's life. ‍‍

My personal understanding is that the more you care about a person, the more you will accommodate him, and before you know it, you will lose yourself. Anyone who has been in a relationship knows that when one partner loses himself, the other party will first be satisfied in the desire to control, followed by boredom, and finally leave. ‍‍

This is difficult to say, and there is a certain amount of truth, because the more you care about the person, the faster the time together passes, so it feels easy to lose, this is a psychological feeling, and you feel very good together for a long time, you know each other too well, and you are tired of each other, and slowly want to alienate each other, there is also this, but also depends on how you get along with each other, to grasp the right balance is the best, this is my personal opinion. ‍‍

Summary. Kiss, because I care too much about someone, I am so nervous that I am afraid of losing him. This is not a contradiction, it is real, if you care too much about a person, you are afraid that the other party does not want you anytime and anywhere, or that the other party is with someone else, this kind of performance in love, belongs to the other party is too serious.

In love. Kiss, because I care too much about someone, I am so nervous that I am afraid of losing him. This is not a contradiction, it is real, if you care too much about a person, you are afraid that the other party does not want you anytime and anywhere, or that the other party is with someone else, this kind of performance in love, belongs to the other party is too serious.

Kiss, in love, there is a saying that the favored have no fear, if you care too much about a person, the other party will not cherish it, so the relationship is a state of you chasing me, if you are very nervous about the other party, the other party will feel that it doesn't matter.

How to talk to him.

Dear, what is the situation of him you are talking about? Are you in a relationship? Only when the teacher understands this information clearly can he help you further give you a chat plan.

You know what it feels like, but people who haven't experienced it don't know what it feels like. Except for being stupid or stupid.

No one will remember who will be for a lifetime, maybe you really love him in your heart now, but when you can't get a little bit in return for your sincere efforts, your heart will be tired and numb. "Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love" If you know that person doesn't love you, why don't you let him go and let yourself go?

Loving someone who doesn't love you feels like you're burying yourself. Maybe that person just drew a circle on the ground for you, but he blindly took a shovel and dug up the circle, dug a hole, jumped into it by himself, knowing that he had jumped in, but he didn't know how to run out, and continued to dig in the hole like a lost soul, making mistakes again and again, until he was physically and mentally exhausted, stopped and looked at the facts, and then he realized how stupid he was, and he would feel very pitiful and helpless at that time. Don't dig it, hurt yourself a little more, and if the hole isn't deep enough, run out as soon as possible.

If you don't love it, why should you love it again, no matter how hard you try, you can't get anything back.

Time is sometimes a killer of feelings, sometimes it is a healing medicine for emotional wounds, time will help you find a share of the other party to cherish you, you also cherish each other's love, and strive to make yourself happy Happiness will be waiting for you at the next intersection, so you have to look forward, I wish you to get out of the downturn as soon as possible, and regain your happiness, what you say to you may feel like that, but you can't do it yourself.

Yes. It's like a handful of sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the easier it is to lose it. Therefore, it is easier to succeed if you take a relaxed attitude towards one thing.

What does a person care about and what does he often lose? This sentence is too right, it is generally a sentence that both men and women love each other, and it is often like this, this is usually good for him, and there should be such a behavior, there is a saying that one bucket of rice saves people, and two buckets of rice hurt people.

Sometimes that's the case, so have a normal mindset, don't be too persistent, and don't put pressure on the other person.

Murphy's Law, the more you care about something, the more you lose something.