We were in love for 9 months, and he said they broke up, and we broke up, and I couldn t bear him

Because the breakup was proposed by him, you were "broken up", or the breakup came too suddenly, you were not ready at all, and you don't know what kind of psychological state you were in when you broke up, but one thing is for sure, you have truly loved each other and left a mark on each other's lives.

After a breakup, it is normal to have a sense of loss because the relationship has no home. However, time can fade everything, and he can not only erase the traces of love, but also heal the sores. Since you broke up, let's open some, try not to recall the past when the two of you were together, I believe that time can make you forget everything and forget him!

Hello! More than a month, in fact, it is not long、、、

It took me almost half a year!

In fact, the things that are lost make people feel more cherished, which is why they always think about each other after a breakup, and they only have the advantages of the other party in their eyes!

Try to cut off all contact with him first, and then you can continue to be friends or something when you can face it calmly in the future.

Participate in more group activities, try not to be alone, easy to think.

Nothing is something you can't forget. Time will forget everything, find some friends to play with or do something you like, just don't think about him anymore, and when one day you suddenly think of him, you will find that it is not so difficult to forget him. It's just that you yourself trapped yourself in it and won't come out.

No one can help you, only time.

You're going to travel to a faraway place, and in the process of traveling, you're going to forget about what he's good about. Then you have to learn to love others, love yourself, and forget about them.

It's only been a month. I've been around for 2 years. Still haven't forgotten. If you have the chance, make peace. bar.

Let everything go with the flow, look out of the way, and let everything go according to fate!

Time can change anything, forget about him and start from scratch.

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but it is irretrievable to regret it.

The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed can you know the happiness before the judgment? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Love is a matter for two people, both need to give, it is impossible to just ask each other what to do, without examining yourself. No one is born ready for you, and there is no perfect person, I personally believe that the so-called "born pair" does not exist in reality, and those who eventually come together are not destined by nature, but the continuous run-in of the day after tomorrow, mutual tolerance, understanding and consideration can go to the end.

I think you are a self-centered person who thinks only of yourself. Your ex-boyfriend also has to have his own space and time and can't always revolve around you. Also, people have shortcomings, when they first fell in love, they all saw the advantages, after a long time, the shortcomings were exposed, you may be a little disappointed, feel that he is not as good as you imagined, do not understand you, but have you ever thought about your own shortcomings, he can tolerate you, why don't you be more tolerant of him?

I think if you want to redeem him, you have to change yourself, your promises and promises are useless, you have to prove yourself with practical actions, be an empathetic person. Considerate. Generous girl.

Here, I would like to remind you that in the future, whether you are reconciled or you are with other people, if you do not change yourself, you will not be able to get along with anyone. If you don't believe me, try it.

Women are always so fickle, you should be very young, so you are less considerate and more impulsive in doing things, I know that you still love your boyfriend at this time, but from the performance of your boyfriend, he has let go of this relationship with you, it seems that the chance of getting back together is not big, maybe you really hurt him, in the process of getting along, I found that there is something inappropriate for you to get along with him. Youth, it doesn't matter what you do, so you might as well make one last effort to wait for his forgiveness. Don't retreat to the next thing to be friends, tell him that you need him, you love him, everything was because of the impulse to love words, everything you do should show that you still love him, and you want to continue with him.

But don't be too pushy, so as not to backfire.

You're not suitable for him to be with, he's always losing his temper, he's also tired of breaking up with you, and you won't be happy if you get back together! You don't want to be friends with him anymore, then you will be more attached to him, you just have to learn to let go now, you will find someone who is right for you.

Question: He's been waiting for this day for a long time, because you're so good, he can't find a reason to give up on you, and now there's an excuse. Men are animals who are greedy for freshness, and you don't have to insist on it anymore If he likes you, he should have fought for it a long time ago, instead of saying that he would ignore you all of a sudden. Don't be too stupid, there are still a lot of people waiting for you in the back .

First of all, I think you are a very ignorant girl, a little willful, and have a bad temper. Maybe your boyfriend is at fault, but you've never been forgiving, and I think to be forgiven, you have to change yourself. Maybe after a while, he will see a different you and forget about the previous unpleasantness.

If you continue like this, he will dislike you more and more, and it will even reach the point of disgust, so stop your recovery actions first, let him calm down, ease his decision, and maybe think about it a lot before making a decision.

He should think mostly about the parts that you don't fit him.

Now you show him the part that he thinks you are not suitable for him to the fullest, and in the end, it will make both sides lose, and you who don't want to see each other again also think quietly for yourself, don't get into the horns of the bull and can't come out.

[Love is a sweet torture], everyone is running in each other's quarrels, give him a little time, and give himself a few more choices... Since he's cold, let's dry it first, don't push each other too hard, come on!

No, it won't. After a long time, maybe I found you better, you often care about him every day, send messages, and one day he will come back

What you can't get is what you cherish the most.

You don't have to pay attention to him, I suggest you be his friend obediently! From the words, I can know that you love him very much, and I suggest you forget about him! I observe ten minutes of silence for you.........

Time will let this all pass, and one day, you will find someone who is more suitable for you. May you be happy.

。。。In addition, it's okay to find a man soon.。。。 Purely passing through.

Time can dilute everything.

Being together makes you so miserable and tormented has gone against the original intention of love, so there is no need to continue. Many things, the truth is actually very simple. Why do we find someone to love and be with?

It is to rely on each other and support each other, and the basis of all this is to respect each other and have the same three views, and any reluctance to work will not have any good results. Being together makes you so miserable and tormented has gone against the original intention of love, so there is no need to continue. Many things, the truth is actually very simple.

Why do we find someone to love and be with? It is to rely on each other and support each other, and the basis of all this is to respect each other and have the same three views, and any reluctance to work will not have any good results. Being together makes you so miserable and tormented has gone against the original intention of love, so there is no need to continue.

Many things, the truth is actually very simple. Why do we find someone to love and be with? It is to rely on each other and support each other, and the basis of all this is to respect each other and have the same three views, and any reluctance to work will not have any good results.

Being together makes you so miserable and tormented has gone against the original intention of love, so there is no need to continue. Many things, the truth is actually very simple. Why do we find someone to love and be with?

It is to rely on each other and support each other, and the basis of all this is to respect each other and have the same three views, and any reluctance to work will not have any good results. Hope, thank you.

It's been two years together, and it's helpless to break up, Han Xin, if it hurts, I think it's best not to break up if you love him very much, people say that it is better to demolish a temple than to guess a marriage, this shows that the two of you still have a light foundation, if you think he will, it is best for two people to go to one, compromise.

Then divide it, this will not result for anyone, it is better to disconnect it early, no one will delay anyone, and it is better to have pain in the evening than in the morning.

Actually, there is nothing wrong with your choice.

We all have to be rational enough to choose our lovers, not to say how great it is to choose with love, we are adults, we have to choose the way we can go and the road that is conducive to us. What is there to praise about the love brain.

When it is broken, it is broken, otherwise there will be no day.

1. Maybe it was both of you fault in the first place. Seriously, when you start falling in love in high school, you have to wait until you graduate from college and get married when you go out of society, which is a long road, and there are too many variables to experience, so its success rate is pitifully low. The physical, psychological, and emotional damage caused by love is often incalculable and irreparable.

2. If the two of you were in the same city, I don't think it would have ended like this. Even if there is no contradiction between the two of you, you still love to come and go, but do you think that she has those things that are worthy of your love, and others will not chase her to love her? So distance is the root of your loss of her.

Unless she loves you deeply, you are irreparable, and the facts prove it.

3. She chooses to leave with you again, at least someone is chasing her or she already has a new love interest.

4. Support you to send cakes and birthday gifts, which is the best choice to leave her with a happy ending, whether it is a lover or a friend. At the same time, it leaves a way out for you in the future. Because the probability of college students succeeding in falling in love is also very low (I believe she will not stop talking), this is mainly because they come from different places, or that reason, distance is the main reason.

So if you can both return to the same city at the same time after graduation, it will be a chance to get back together. But she was no longer the person she is now, and you are not the person you are now!

5. There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side. You will get what you should get after all, and there will be no happiness if you don't get what you don't get.

Brother, study hard, struggle, lay a solid foundation for yourself to go out of the society in the future, as long as you have a successful career in the society in the future, not only her, but also more than her, more than her worthy of love people are waiting for you.

If you don't end long-distance separation, love or anything is. Your outcome is not optimistic, because you are not capable of solving this problem at present, and it is irresponsible and hopeless to try your best and achieve the end.

You say she has you in her heart, why do you always say break up. When a girl is in a relationship, she says that breaking up may be a test of the boy to see his attitude and behavior. If she always mentions breaking up, it doesn't need to be explained.

If she loves you, she won't bother you like that.

And the landlord, you said that you changed it after that breakup, so did you really do it? Have you ever asked her what she thinks. Landlord, do you really know her? In the past, there was a misunderstanding, so you had to communicate well, but now I say...It's late.

I think as long as I work hard, no matter what the outcome is, I have no regrets.

That's right, if you really love her, you have to chase her back, don't let yourself regret it, boys and girls have different ideas. A lot of things didn't notice before, it will get farther and farther away, this time, I think I really have to talk about it, as long as the relationship is still there, I believe we can be together!

Don't treat her in the way you think you want, you have to carefully understand what she really likes and wants, and do what she likes, this is the right way to be good to her.