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We hate someone because some part of our heart is touched, that is, the part we hate actually has some relationship with ourselves. If it has nothing to do with us, it is a passer-by, and an irrelevant person will not awaken too many emotions in us.
So, when you annoy him, you might as well ask yourself first, what is in your own heart?
Where we hate others, often what exists within us, but we reject what it exists, because we reject its existence, so it is easier for us to be more sensitive to find it in others and be evoked some kind of uncomfortable experience. It's actually a process of dealing with our own inner anxieties, because what we find in ourselves will make it very difficult for us to accept, but when we see it in others, it's like it has nothing to do with us, and it's much easier for us to deal with it. But our subconscious will know that what we see in the other person is actually our own existence, and then we will feel disgusted and want to stay away from that state, which is actually an attempt to remove that part of our existence from ourselves.
So, what we can see in others is what we have in ourselves.
For example, do you yourself want to take a break and be lazy? Can you allow yourself not to be motivated? If not, why?
When you were growing up, was there anyone who asked you to keep improving? Or when you're not trying hard enough, are there some uncomfortable experiences that come from someone important to pass on? When you figure this out, maybe you'll know why you hate him.
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It's just a matter of not associating with such people.
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Stay away from such people, otherwise you will affect the people around you with negative emotions.
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You don't want to have such negative emotions, if you don't appear on camera, then you should always motivate yourself, make yourself work hard, be motivated, and should not influence others, nor make your emotions so negative.
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What do you want.
What do you like.
What do you want to do.
Are you happy now?
Are you really lonely?
At least you have me.
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Brother Dei, you're in the north, right? If you're too short, look at the southern ones, you're tall! Feeling inferior?
Let's work in the South later. And there's a fart for height? The most important thing is to be handsome and talented, just like you, and then to have a girlfriend, it's perfect.
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Looking at your title, I thought you were 1.6 meters, you 1.75 meters, what are you inferior? This height is normal, definitely not short. It looks good, too, don't frown, frowning is not good-looking.
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How do you make us people in the south who are on average 1.6 meters tall?
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Idle? Which school, there is still time to think about this.
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Big brother 175 is not short, he is so handsome.
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How embarrassing are you to make us 170 lovers.
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If you are a freshman, your age should be 18, 18 years old, 175 is very good, 180 is actually useless, it is better to be short.
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Let him feel his responsibility.
If a man is not on camera, you can motivate him and encourage him, and tell him that you have to earn money to support your family. Otherwise, you and I will both suffer, so let's work together.
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