How to reconcile with a lovelorn boyfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-07-08
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Hello I read your question I think the reason for this situation is that there are too many misunderstandings accumulated between the two of you, maybe there are some very subtle things, you think you are doing the right thing, but he doesn't think so, but in order not to have a conflict between the two, he didn't say much, but he remembered it in his heart, and then when you have such a big contradiction, his patience reached the limit, and he was no longer willing to endure it. Do you think so? Are you sometimes more headstrong?

    Now you have to redeem it, it's not impossible, the key depends on how you do it. You have to put down your old shelf, sincerely admit your mistakes to him, and touch his heart in a way that has touched you all before, so that he can also open up his inner world with you in tears, so that you can know what he thinks, what you have done wrong before, and then you can assure him that you were unintentional at the time, and you didn't want to offend him, if you knew that he minded so much, you wouldn't do that at all.

    Now that I know it, I won't do it again in the future. If he believes your words and his attitude is softened, you can be coquettish and talk about some happy topics, maybe the matter will be done.

    Of course, I don't know what kind of personality your boyfriend is, so you need to adjust your plan moderately to make sure things work out.

    When two people get along, it's easy to be reluctant to apologize for the sake of face, in fact, compared with the price of losing love forever, where is face so important? Maybe he's waiting for you to bow your head first, so that he can get him a step down. The key is to pay attention in the future, when there is a conflict, you must objectively evaluate your own right and wrong, if it is indeed your own mistake, then you should bow your head, you can't just put up a fight just because you are a girl, isn't it?

    I wish you success. A good impression of other girls is nothing After all, a person may have a good impression of many people, but there is only one person to love I believe that your boyfriend will be moved to see you so sincere in saving love. Come on, bless you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    As for Sister ,,, rubbing, I still want to reconcile!! I won't do it if I kill me, love is a beautiful and lonely journey When you get to the end, you can't stay anymore,,, only giving up is the only fulfillment, you have to be sad to recommend you a song "Love you with your heart, you don't understand" listen to it well, don't listen to me...

    Hehehehe, so much,,I'm also out of love, my first love.,Hey...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    He doesn't want to leave you, it's good if you don't let him go. Let's go down the stairs.

    Bless you all!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    A man who is not devoted to you is not worthy of your love!! Find a better one to bring to him and him off.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Find an opportunity to come out to eat, drink, knock down, and collect troops.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I suggest you do something that touches him and is romantic. You can try logging in"The Hearts of the Tower"Participate in their"True love test", because in participating in this seemingly game"The test of online love"In the process, you can prove how deep your love for him and her is, and you can get a gorgeous prize - "True Love Appraisal Certificate" after 9 days of testing, and you can apply to the Tower of Hearts to mail the certificate directly to the other you love. This novel, romantic and indirect way of confession can not only give your loved one a romantic surprise without showing up, but also prove to him through such a platform how much you have given him her, how deep and true your love for him and her, so that she can see those words you say to him; It is definitely a handful of snot and tears that can move him (my successful experience), and it is an excellent gift for important anniversaries and festivals, and to show love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, how do you talk when a friend is out of love? A person who has fallen out of love will indeed be very depressed, and having the company and comfort of a good friend can reduce his pain and increase his happiness. There is no need to persuade him, because to mention this matter is to pour salt on the wound.

    So talk to him about some other topics, topics that interest him. You can also accompany him to travel, relax your mood, and relieve your current state. If you can re-enter a relationship, your ability is still very high.

    In short, take your time, it takes time for a broken love to fade and **.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In a relationship, how about falling out of love?

    No matter who you are, no matter how tenacious you are in your daily life, you will inevitably have anxiety, depression and other emotions when you deal with falling out of love. If you feel uncomfortable and don't dare to cry, you even have to pretend to be happy, deal with everyone, and pretend not to care, which will not help us get out of the pain of falling out of love at all, and can only aggravate the pain of falling out of love. When we are out of love, if we feel uncomfortable and want to cry, we can cry out and let our mentality be released.

    After the pain, you should face yourself rationally and soberly analyze the problems you encounter. We must have the courage to accept the reality and make ourselves clear that separation is not a question of right or wrong, but a question of suitability or not. What we can do is to find the reason for the unsuccessful relationship, and if the breakup is due to each other's personalities, it is best to find someone who is more suitable for their own "characteristics" when gradually going to the next relationship.

    After falling out of love, I poured out my pain and distress to my true friend selflessly, and accepted his comfort and enlightenment. In this way, it can play a role in releasing pain and distress to the fullest, finding psychological comfort and hope, balancing the mind, cultivating the mind, and reducing and eliminating undesirable emotions.

    After falling out of love, I can communicate with friends and go out with friends; or deliberately assign some tasks that are a little more knowledgeable, not too detailed and have little risk factors, so that they have no time to take care of and forget the pain and distress; Or engage in your favorite leisure activities to distract yourself and relieve boredom; You can also devote yourself to nature, and your emotions will become more and more indulgent, so as to get comfort.

    It's always said that the best way to forget about one person is to immediately become obsessed with another person, but the result of this is that you don't understand your feelings, and just make impulsive choices to give yourself a brief entrance. In fact, most of the results of that kind of love are very short-lived, and sometimes it is even very likely that they are not trusted, so they lose a lot because of a small loss.

    It's also unfair to the other person, because you only have so much space in your heart, how much space is there for the other person you accept when you're always filling up with another person?

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