How do you ask someone to point out your temper?

This can be directly said to others, and let others point out their temper problems, because sometimes, it is also good to let others understand their temper.

Normally, where you have a problem, it is easy to be taken advantage of, and few people will take the initiative to bring it up to you, unless you are very good with him, otherwise ordinary friends will not point out your shortcomings.

You can jokingly ask people if I have a bad temper and what shortcomings need to be improved, and then listen to what others say, and then refer to some of my own behaviors and ordinary thoughts to improve.

Find your best friend and ask him to say it directly, because he is also the person who knows you best.

Because others point out their temper problems, then you have to find a real person, some people will not give you contentment, and he will not reply. I remember it was he who was able to keep the peace and get you to change your bad temper.

If you want others to point out your faults, I personally think it's okay to ask the other party directly, what do you say about me, what are my shortcomings, can you point them out? In this way, my friends will also be honest with you.

Just say it yourself. Just ask someone what their temper is like, what can be changed, and just say that.

Hello, you can ask the other party directly, let the other party point out their shortcomings, and it is still too late to correct and remedy them in time.

Hello, you can point it out euphemistically, you can't ask directly or the other party: unhappy.

First of all, you can communicate with your relatives or friends, they will be more straightforward and give you guidance.

In order to understand your own shortcomings from other people's mouths, first of all, this person must have a very close relationship with you, and also know your character very well, so that it is possible to say these things that make everyone very embarrassed.

You can honestly ask others what their shortcomings are, and let them help them take them out.

If you have such an attitude, it means that you are a sincere person.

How to ask someone, point out their temper, and let him tell the truth.

Don't try to change people, it's not right, it's off-putting, just as your friend wants you to keep your word.

Are you a boy? Language, I feel that you are a very self-respecting person, in fact, don't be too self-respecting, some things may not be what you think, classmates are inconvenient for a while, call ** to give you I hope you help charge some phone bills, it's not that I won't pay you back, the tone is relatively flat, but you may think that his tone is very cold and very pretentious, maybe you think too much. As for treating new friends better than treating you, I think it's understandable, it's more new friends, and you naturally have to take care of it, unlike old friends who can mess around without big or small, if he is very polite to you, I'm afraid he really doesn't treat you as a friend, and deliberately keeps his distance.

In short, don't think too much about anything, be open-minded, don't care too much, maybe your friends will treat you as a good friend, and the associations caused by these small details are just your associations.

And your friend calls ** to ask you to help charge the phone bill, which is also a trust in you, do you want to find someone you don't like to help or find someone you like and reliable to help?

My teacher said that the most important thing in friendship is to make both parties happy, and if you never get happiness in this friendship, you don't have to get it back. I've had this problem before, going out to buy something doesn't mean that he treats you as a person, but because he still cares about you, if he asks you to pay for the phone bill, it's his fault, but if there is a move near your house, and he gives you money, then there is no need to refuse. If you really can't figure it out, then try to talk to a few good friends, you are both children, you will not be too restrained, you will be much more comfortable to say everything you want to express, give it a try.

If someone else asks, then it should be.

Boast hard.

After all, give yourself a person to play.

There aren't many such opportunities.

Don't try to cover up your pain with another relationship, if you really love the other person, because it will only make yourself more painful and hurt the other person at the same time. Many things are not what you think, especially the right and wrong of love, redemption is a very simple thing, as long as you experience with your heart, learn with your heart, I think you can get twice the result with half the effort, we have helped many successful people, have such conditions.

Second, I tend to ask people or things that I don't think are many, and I often offend people. (Although this is a disadvantage, it shows that you are more assertive and have a certain principle).

If you want to talk to people, just say extroverted; If you don't want to talk to people, just say introverted.

You say, big brother doesn't need character, big brother only has personality.

How to deal with it in communication, in fact, there is no absolutely right and wrong answer. After all, people are alive, and the environment of communication is different, even if.

People with the same personality will also have different responses for other reasons. So to be honest, this question is a bit too broad to give a proper answer.

You say that your fear is caused by your childhood experience, so now when you meet someone who is angry or makes insulting words, you will subconsciously feel fear, so you don't know how to answer, but at the same time you feel very depressed and irritable about these words. So I personally think that you can try to relax first, think about whether other people's anger is justified, if there is, then accept it with an open mind, and at the same time change yourself to make yourself strong and excellent. If it is an unreasonable accusation, you should explain it politely, show your self-cultivation and show your attitude at the same time, and you don't have to suffocate yourself, or prove those people's mistakes to others with your actions.

If you just want to hit back at others through words, then a lot of things will turn into meaningless scolding wars.

In short, do a good job of yourself first, cultivate yourself first, if a person has knowledge and self-cultivation, open their horizons, and know more people and things, so that they can slowly learn to communicate and learn to use their personal charm to make themselves invincible.

I watched one issue.

BAI TV show, talking about the UK.

Du aristocratic culture, summed up as dao

Three words: self-esteem, self-reliance, self-discipline.

Self-esteem is self-esteem.

If you respect yourself, others will respect you. So when you encounter other people's insults, fight back mercilessly, others are not afraid of tearing their faces, what face do you care about others! Don't try to use the perfect language to get the best results, we are not language masters, and that kind of perfectionism will make us hesitate to face attacks, which will further encourage the arrogance of malicious people.

As long as the effect of the counterattack is achieved, it can be said and done.

It is the mentality of "just talking about things", focusing on the "things" you are communicating about, and not focusing on the "feelings" of others. Don't expect your questions or your answers to be complimented on you, which will make you hesitate. Simple, get things figured out and you're done.

The so-called "complex things are easy to do".

The above superficial understanding is expected to be helpful to you.

The owner of the building, the following replies are a lot of should be attacked to bring you a lot of help, I used to be strict with my father and mother.

DAO, who is cautious in everything he does, is timid and introverted, which leads to extremely poor interpersonal relationships! Later, I found that my interpersonal relationships were gradually getting better, and I think the reason is because I can develop more and more personal charm and be able to attract people around me invisibly! If you talk too much, I guess you won't be able to stand it, so I'll tell you a few keywords!

Definitely hit the trick and work (the validity period is extended indefinitely)!

"Self-confidence": No matter what others think of you, you don't care what they think! Because it's not that he ignores you, it's that you don't want to ignore him!

Unique": The building mainly has its own personality, assertive, what can not be 100 according to the 100 things do not want to say it directly There is another sentence I want to tell the landlord, that is: I think the good look is unique (unique)!

"Flexible": speak flexibly, and your personality has become a little more flexible, talk to him naturally, there is nothing to be afraid of The voice of speech is amplified! If you don't listen, he will be overbearing!

Drag him to make him listen!! If he doesn't like to hear it, refuses, or has personal attacks that make you lose face, it doesn't matter! I know that this man will not be a man!!

Just ignore him anymore and don't speak ill of him behind his back!

And the other thing is, don't be afraid to say bad things about you, because the more they talk about you behind your back, the happier you'll be (and you'll feel why you're happy!). ）

1. Overcome.

You are like an "outsider" who observes the performance of others, observes your own feelings.

2. You must be sure that you understand the "meaning" of tolerating others

3. Don't deliberately control your feelings, if it's anger, send it out, and the way of delivery can be language, or action, such as slapping the table and dropping things. If it's joy, then laugh, you can pat it, you can hug it, you can kiss it, don't show it, you have to follow your feelings.

4. No matter what others think of you, you have to accept yourself that you are unique in this world 5. If you can also tolerate many shortcomings and dark sides of others, you will become very powerful.

In fact, you shouldn't be timid, introverts will always be bullied. Zhi you have to know that they are human dao

You are also a human being, why should they insult you, you also have you.

Rong pride and your self-esteem. Your self-esteem will not be violated by them, and you should face them bravely. Your boss is not terrible, as long as you do a good job, he will praise you.

You have to show your talents and let them see the good in you! Sometimes it doesn't matter what other people think, only you know yourself best, and as long as you understand that you have tried, you should not feel ashamed. You've given and worked hard, but no one's ability is big or small.

Maybe you're not doing this, you can try something else.

Feel like you're a duplicate of this.

People: I want to say beautiful things, I want to hide my true intentions, I want to play profoundly, but I don't have the ability, so I'm entangled.

In fact, many questions have been complicated by us, for different people's questions, answer it honestly, if you are sincere, I believe that your popularity will be very good, there is no situation of being bullied; For some people's questions, I feel that it is not suitable to answer, so I smile and say that it is okay if I don't know and is not clear, why should I reluctantly accommodate others and make myself so miserable; For the communication with the boss, it is necessary to figure out each task well, and the key to doing things well, which means not only to complete things, but also to meet the needs of leaders, so as to complete the task.

Be honest and trustworthy, do things steadfastly, with the accumulation of one thing after another, you will slowly gain a sense of accomplishment and overcome fear, so that you will be more handy in the world, you will be more trusted and supported by colleagues and leaders, in addition, you can also get something you don't expect.

Personality is formed by the environment in which he was raised, and he himself will not feel that there is a problem.

Don't be like this, don't be like this, really, don't hit people, thank you.

I suggest you search for a book, I forgot, it was written by a retired senior officer of the CIA, what is it called, magic or something, I want to be a stick, you are one, I think of it, I also look for it, I found a mutual notification.

Those people are very cunning, no way, you just need to answer it positively with the first feeling like a question, of course, you can't exaggerate too much, don't be too honest, say it too truthfully, they have too many questions, there is no way to judge, say it positively, just mention your own shortcomings less, it's okay, don't worry, trust me! I also graduated and looked for a job, so I have a little experience!

Social experience bar....If you want to do this, there are two ways...One is to participate in more group activities and communicate with different people...The second is to read more related books....For example, the psychological aspect, interpersonal communication and so on.

In fact, it is very simple, if you come into contact with more people, you will naturally be a master.