I am very pessimistic and hard, I don t want to contact the outside world, and I don t dare to face

If possible, it is recommended that you talk to a psychiatrist and talk to the psychologist about the distress in your heart.

Now the most important thing is to adjust the mentality, there is nothing to be ashamed of shopping mall sales, working people are always glorious, no hard-working person will be despised, on the contrary, people who do not work are the most humiliating.

Shopping mall sales is a service industry, so it is natural to serve others, which is also the embodiment of your own value.

At the same time, how many people have you been served? Take the bus or subway to work, have a driver to serve you, walk clean and tidy on the road with cleaners to serve you, eat and buy things with waiters and salespeople to serve you......The reason why your food, clothing, shelter and transportation can be guaranteed is the result of many people serving you. Therefore, it is also appropriate for you to provide services to others.

Each of us is embodying our own value in the service of others, otherwise we are the walking dead. Would you rather be a worthy person or a walking corpse?

Work hard to put yourself into your work, learn more from your seniors, and be enthusiastic about your service, I think you will enjoy your work.

What kind of job do you want to do is not to serve others, you have to fall in love with your job, you can't be a kid forever, you can't hide from your parents all your life, and there are contrasts, and you have to change the situation yourself, not complain about the contrasts.

Don't regret that yesterday didn't help

If you weep over the loss of the sun, then you will also lose the stars.

if you shed tears when you miss the sun, you also miss the stars.

- Rabindranath Tagore.

You can also learn a lot of knowledge in society Let's be bitter and then sweet Genius is the person who repeats the most times Don't be bored with the current work Change your mentality and you will achieve better results Better than your dad o( o haha

As long as you want to study, you can't finish it in any time! But what you feel is only the hard work, and you don't feel that you are learning less. So I think you're wrong, and when you realize that you don't have enough knowledge, you're going to learn!

Then you won't learn in vain! You know, you're just escapism!

In fact, it is very difficult to do anything.

But if you feel it's worth it, you won't be afraid.

Suggestion] Go and see (Who is in charge of my youth) It's a bit like an idol drama, which can pass the time and can also be very helpful.

It's nothing, society can learn. In a situation like yours, you should learn how to manage a factory and make friends. Young people don't have to be so individual, it's really boring to do one thing all the time, but you have to understand what your purpose is.

Comrade, it's to make money, as long as you think it's meaningful to do it and can make money, what do you care?

Hehe, I'm in school, but I'm bored with studying and want to exercise in society. People may be like this in life, doing the same thing (work) every day, eating so many meals, and having an innate sense of loneliness. Hey, you still seem to have time to go to school.

I dropped out of high school in my third year It's similar to your situation It took more than 2 years to understand that school is good I regret it It's just inconvenient to say It's useless to say what do you plan not Good luck friend.

It's only a sophomore in high school, can I continue to study?

But be strong-willed, otherwise you will study and think about working again.

The most ridiculous thing about people is not that they have shortcomings, but that they don't know that they have shortcomings.

Since you know your weaknesses, why don't you correct them?

21 years old is not too late, you know, the honing of character is a lifelong thing.

People have to learn for a lifetime, which is not only knowledge, but also the consciousness of life.

From now on, forget those bad memories and start all over again, it's never too late!

In the future, as long as you are sincere to your friends, you will always be worthy of yourself, and I think this is the most important thing.

In short, society is fair, and if you treat others well, others will treat you well.

Be sincere with every friend, colleague, and even family member you interact with, and you will be sure to succeed!

Selfishness (taking care of oneself in one's heart, rarely thinking about others).

Arrogance (thinking that you are superior to others, but in fact you are nothing).

If you can realize this, it means that you haven't learned more than you can do, and if you know more, you will naturally be arrogant and arrogant, but it's better to be subtle and be a person outside.

Arrogance can easily cause others to resent it.

An arrogant person often can't see himself clearly, he can't see people clearly, and the kind of relationships you want are not going to be built at all.

There are many eyes (a little suspicious).

People with many hearts and eyes think more.

But don't think about the bad things, the more you think about them, the more you understand them.

If you spend all your mind on what other people think of you, doubt you, envy you, or look down on you.

Then I advise you to be honest and farm in the countryside, and there are not so many intrigues.

Competitive (my heart is tense every day, as if I want to fight with others all the time).

This requires skill, grasp the proportion, and the fight is certain, but you can't tear your face and leave a line in everything, otherwise the villain's revenge is very terrifying.

If you only know how to compete, then you need an environment that really suits you, a corporate culture that needs competition, then you may be your destination! ~

There's nothing wrong with being competitive, repeating the previous words, grasping the scale.

I don't seem to have any philosophy to say.

However, your shortcomings are similar to mine.

Selfishness (taking care of oneself in one's heart, rarely thinking about others sincerely) and having a lot of eyes (a little suspicious).

Competitive (my heart is tense every day, as if I want to fight with others all the time) If I were you, I wouldn't show these bad shortcomings, I would try my best to let everyone see my sunny side!

...I recommend you to watch "The Weakness of Human Nature", which is very suitable for you, since you know your shortcomings, you must work hard to change them.

Check out this book You Need the Right Guidance, this book can teach you how to look at yourself properly and how to enrich yourself.

Sometimes I know that my shortcomings are difficult to change, so take your time Maybe you will understand a lot after reading this book, at least I have benefited a lot, and I hope it can help.

The 1st floor is very supportive! Especially the first sentence!

Thank you for your first words.

And one last word! Sincerity is important!

You already know your shortcomings, all that's left is to correct them. Have faith in yourself, the future is not as scary as you think. Take your time and everything will be fine, and after many years you will find out how unnecessary, really, your worries are now!

Use your brain and heart to communicate with others, interpersonal relationships are important, and you will definitely succeed!

Interact with people slowly, and find ways to get along.

It's also good to be competitive, don't think about it, just be kind.

Relax and cope! Believe in yourself!

Landlord: The setbacks in life are step by step postgraduate examinations, and I have a similar experience. Just wanted to tell you one thing.

Don't be anxious, see if you are smart enough, as long as you have more experience and experience more things, you will slowly deal with it.

In today's society, with the development and progress of society, the relationship between people has become complex and diverse. The more a society develops, the more interdependent and interdependent people become. Because man is the master of this society, and he is also the promoter of the development and progress of this society!

A single person can never and cannot promote the progress and development of society as a whole. In this way, the problem of interpersonal relations arises between people. How to establish a normal, civilized and positive interpersonal relationship is a problem that each of us must face and think about.

The establishment of normal, civilized and positive interpersonal relationships is what we advocate, and the kind of interpersonal relationships where money and power are supreme is what we should abandon.

Because each of us has different outlooks on life and values, different levels of education, different environments in which we grew up, and more specifically different human qualities, there are so many differences that each of us has very different views on the same problem and the way of solving it. In the article "Serving the People", it was said:"We all came from all over the world and came together for a common revolutionary goal.

All people in the revolutionary ranks must care for each other, love each other, and help each other. "Normal, civilized, and positive interpersonal relationships should be such a standard. This standard is established through mutual telepathy and collusion, and the kind of interpersonal relationship where money is supreme and power is supreme can never be praised by people!

When dealing with many interpersonal relationships such as the relationship between colleagues and superiors, as long as we can care for each other, help each other, understand each other, respect each other, and treat people with sincerity, I think the interpersonal relationship handled in this way should be positive and civilized; On the contrary, we should use the guiding ideology of liberalism to handle interpersonal relationships, do not say it to your face, talk nonsense behind your back, know that it is wrong, it is better to say less, and it is not your own business, and hang high. Then our society will have no sincerity to speak of, and no one can be trusted, what a tragedy that is!

Let's take a look at how the ancients established a pure friendship between friends, Zhong Ziqi fell on the piano and Xie Zhiyin, and he was able to leave a swan song for the ages, because no one like Boya knew that he played"Mountains and rivers"。So he remembered him by wrestling the harp"Bosom friend"。Li Bai can use it"The Peach Blossom Lake is thousands of feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun to send me love.

to express his deep friendship with Wang Lun, reflecting their pure friendship with each other. Whether it is Zhong Ziqi and Boya, or Li Bai and Wang Lun, the kind of friendship between them that connects their hearts and treats each other sincerely will always be praised and admired by future generations!

As long as we have a correct mentality, establish a healthy outlook on life and values, and face others sincerely, respect others, and care for others, then our world will become a better world. Normal, civilized and positive interpersonal relationships are a standard for us to deal with interpersonal relationships.

You can clearly recognize and see your own shortcomings, and can speak out bravely, I think you can correct these own shortcomings, people are often difficult to recognize themselves, I believe you can overcome these, in fact, the best way is to empathize with the problem, can stand in the position of others to think about the problem! Of course, this is only the opposite of the individual.

What is an experience, that is, the feeling that you have seen that thing and remember it vividly. These memories will make you change something.

The best way and the fastest way is to do a good job, try to do nothing in front of you perfectly, even if it is a small thing, don't care what others say and think, listen to opinions, if you are really wrong, correct, this is experience, if it is recognized as good, this is experience! Anything happens, wrapping yourself to be misunderstood, you are not allowed to get angry, you have to find a way to resolve the crisis, this is the ability, in short: create value at all times!

You will get experience, but also values!

To learn to use tools: that is, read more books and insist on reading books for two hours a day, and develop a lifelong habit of reading.

Whether it is work, life, or family, we must use this principle.

Do what you have to do! Plans can't keep up with the changes. When everything comes, you just have to do it with your heart.

The most important thing to learn is to learn what you are interested in, and it is best to like what you are learning

Work and social experience are based on time, even if others tell you a lot, even if you hold a thick book to study every day, it can only increase your understanding of things, and have a basis for solving the same problems. But it doesn't help much. The real experience still depends on what you experience and think about in your daily life.

Time is the best teacher, maybe you can be relatively mature in the same age group, but it is impossible to really reach the level of a certain age group. After all, you don't have that much experience. Reading and listening to other people's books are also just talk on paper, and real life experience is the best teacher.

Human nature is inherently naïve and simple!

With the increase of age! The change of time.

Slowly you will become mature.

Usually you tend to want to do something.

It's hard to do.

Not everything is up to its own devices.

Take your time. See more, learn more, think more!

That's honed through time and experience, but be careful to sum up life and work.

No one is perfect, some people appreciate your strengths, and some people appreciate your shortcomings, so why care too much about what others think? Time and experience will be a good teacher for you, don't be afraid to make mistakes.

Hehe, let me ask you a few questions.

Since you think it's all about profit, what is your mother's interest in taking care of you?

What is it for your father's interest to care about you?

Do friends want you? What kind of friends can you make with this mentality?

No real giveaway? This sentence should be asked to yourself, as long as you are sincere in your efforts to others, will you worry that no one will pay to you?

The world is not pessimistic, pessimistic is those of you who are willing to be pessimistic.