Have you ever had a reunion with your junior high school and high school classmates in the 90s? Stil

I'm a post-90s generation, and I had a party with my junior high school, but with my high school classmates, there was only one time, but it wasn't a party, because it was when I graduated.

I have junior high school classmates and I met twice when we were freshmen in high school and when we graduated from high school. The relationship between our junior high school classmates is very good, so I can't wait to get together not long after I first enter high school.

Later, when I graduated from high school, because many people would go to other places to study at university, it would be rare to see each other in the future, so we got together again.

And I didn't get together with my high school classmates, mainly because a lot of us are going to college in different places now, and during the summer or winter vacation, some of us won't go back for one reason or another. What's more, we haven't been graduating long ago, and there's no need to rush to party.

Although there is no reunion for high school classmates, we still keep in touch often. Especially with my roommates. My roommates and I now send birthday wishes to each other in the group because we both remember everyone's birthdays.

And the group in our class is usually quite active, although we don't chat every day, but if we usually encounter something interesting, we will share it with everyone in the group, and we will also send red envelopes or something during the New Year. If someone goes back to school to see it, they will also post the school's ** in the group, and everyone will miss it together.

Middle school classmates and high school classmates are a precious treasure in our lives, and even if we can't get together often, we can't forget each other. After all, they are all people who have accompanied them through three years of adolescence and rebellion, and they should still be in contact often, say greetings when they have something to do, and send a blessing during the New Year's holidays. If we see each other in the future, we can also take care of each other, sit down and have a glass of wine together, and talk about the time when we were classmates.

In junior high school, there is a habit of getting together twice a year in a fixed circle, but there is never one in high school.

Let's talk about high school first, even if there is a party, I won't go there. Because to put it bluntly, some people are not familiar with each other, and then because I am equivalent to a class a year in high school, I am the kind of nodding friend with anyone, and there is no more in-depth at all. It's not that I don't want to get acquainted with them.

In the first year of high school, everyone still had a lot of fun, and in the second year of high school, many people were separated from each other, and then everyone expanded into a new circle. Like my sophomore class, there were not many people in our freshman class, and I could only talk to the people in our dormitory at that time, and I had a very low sense of presence for other people. It's the kind of desire that doesn't want to make friends, because some people are really the kind of people you don't even want to talk to, and they look like they don't want to talk to them, and they just have a person who can't stop playing with their mobile phones in class.

When I was in my third year of high school, I transferred to another school for my own reasons. But they give me the impression that they are doing well and are high, but if there are still people with me, it seems that they will not be alone. Then at that time, the class of the sophomore year of high school said that they were going to party, and they were chatting at a fixed time and place, and in the end, there was still no follow-up.

Anyway, if I succeed, I won't go, just don't exist without me!

In junior high school, they all meet in a fixed circle. This circle was that we were divided into four groups at that time, and then the group of people behind the two big groups became a circle of people. At that time, I went on vacation to organize activities such as going to climb mountains and singing K.

Until now, people in this circle have also had conflicts with each other, so there are only 5 people left in our circle who come out to eat and sing from time to time, and everyone is studying in different places, and they can still maintain this relationship. The friendship together has gone through 5 years, and everyone is still the same, but they are older.

My most reliable is how not to step on the place, there is praise must be stepped on for the sake of fairness.

It's been three or four years since I graduated from high school, and in the past few years, we've actually had one or two class reunions. The friendship between students will also be deeper, and at the class reunion, we will also invite the former class teacher and some subject teachers to sit in a box to chat, talk about their hearts, and drink some wine, which is actually a very good thing.

Our class reunion was either in the KTV box, or we went directly to the campus to talk to the teachers. Of course, my favorite thing is to go to the campus and sit at a big round table with the teachers and talk to each other. I remember when we were just in the first year of graduation, our class president organized twenty or thirty classmates to visit the teacher at school during the winter vacation.

Before visiting the teacher, we went together to buy some fruit and some small snacks to show our respect for the teacher.

Although it has been two years since we graduated, we still feel very close when we step into this familiar campus again. Because in this campus, we have experienced a lot of things together, we have run together to eat in the cafeteria, we have walked down the stairs to the commissary hand in arm, we have taken sick leave, we have stood on the podium to receive our own awards in order to be able to eat snacks outside. So when I stepped into the campus, I felt a burst of warmth in my heart when I saw these familiar things and kind teachers again.

Although we are already in our second year of college and our experiences are increasing, when we face the teacher again and see these familiar classmates again, we will find that no matter how many friends we have made in the new campus, the memories of our previous high school will always be deeply hidden in our psyche. At the time of the high school party,What I like the most is that they tell us about some of their experiences, which is very helpful for our study career and later career.

After graduating from high school, we had a class reunion and would get together every time we had a winter break or summer vacation from college, because we found that high school friendships were the most genuine.

After graduating from high school, there are very few class reunions because everyone goes their separate ways and rarely has time to get together.

No. Two days ago, another high school classmate organized it, but I didn't participate, and they didn't end up together. This is the trouble of growing up, and there are many things that cannot be returned.

There was a party, but I didn't go because I was too busy with work and didn't have time at all.

No. After graduating from high school, former classmates have their own lives. No classmates organized a reunion, and no classmates wanted to attend a party.

Yes, but all the students who came were more lively in the previous class, and many of them did not attend.

There were no class reunions at all, everyone was so busy with their own lives that there was no way to get together.

There was never a party, because everyone was going their separate ways, and it was difficult to get together to talk and talk.

Whether you go or not depends on how much you value the party. I think you still take this party very seriously, otherwise would you ask questions? Here are the solutions I offered:

Even if you don't have a good relationship with someone at this party, it's important for you to attend! Why?

First: You can expand your network of contacts, multiple friends and multiple paths, maybe a friend who is not familiar with you will become a politician in the future!

Second: You can improve your communication skills, you must talk to others at the wine table, right? Even if you don't say a word, then you will definitely observe what others say, right? See what those capable people have to say, learn a little.

Third: you can exercise your analytical skills, observe the words and deeds of the guests at the wine table, analyze them, and judge which one can be befriended, which one must not be touched, which one has no future, and which one has potential.

Fourth: People invite you to value you, and you don't have to give this face, and it is estimated that you won't be able to get together in the future.

If you have any questions, please ask.

I think it's better not to go. Because we have each other's own life circles, in fact, it's embarrassing to go more, I don't like to participate in class reunions, I prefer to have better class reunions, so everyone is very happy together. It's embarrassing to have too many people.

Junior high school is the most sincere gathering place for friendship, if you are invited, it will seem stingy if you don't go, if you really have something to do that day, of course you can't go, if it's okay, it's better to go! Because after all, people still have to rely on friends, and it's certainly right to make more friends.

Go, no matter whether you were familiar with it before or not, now you feel very cordial when you meet, and you don't have to be afraid of embarrassment.

If it were me, I didn't think much about it, I didn't participate last year, one was that others were not invited, and the other was that there were very few people who knew each other very well, almost none, so I didn't go. Actually, there is no need to go every year.

Go ahead! It doesn't hurt to go.

During the Spring Festival, a student in the junior high school class planned to organize a class reunion, and after six years, he tried to regain the long-lost friendship through this reunion. The departure point is very good, and he has been preparing for this for more than a year, from taking pictures of each student in the class when he graduated and making a class record, to now contacting all the students as much as possible through the Internet, he has tried too much, but he still failed to organize this party. Probably, he overlooked one point:

Everyone, who hasn't seen each other for six years, the embarrassment of meeting suddenly and maybe not remembering each other's names is enough for everyone to find all kinds of reasons to excuse themselves. Now, the classmate who organized the party was hospitalized on the day of the planned party, and doctors said he was overly anxious.

In fact, when I heard the news of his hospitalization, I really laughed unkindly for a long time, calmed down, and thought about it carefully, this classmate has paid too much but still can't organize a party, and because of this, he was hospitalized and took medicine. This reason is just laughing, okay?! And this student still couldn't hear everyone's inner appeal of not wanting to attend the party, and still sent an invitation letter (electronic version) ......

Let's not talk about this farce, let's recall our junior high school classmates, how many people are left who can be called famous and often contacted? The high school entrance examination is a watershed, and what comrades at work and comrades at school get together to talk about, which is a very embarrassing topic that cannot be solved at all. Without a common experience, how can there be a common topic?

I don't understand what you said, you don't know what I said, just a few words of greeting. Therefore, I myself do not want to attend such a meeting, not now, and not in the future. I have always believed that true friendship does not need to be maintained through gatherings, wine and meat friends, dispensable, I wonder if you agree?

Let me give you a reminder before coming up with a plan to solve Qi Duan's imitation, whether the thirty or forty people sing K or eat, there are no two thousand yuan as a base, you don't have to think about it, if you eat and sing K, do the math yourself.

The party can be organized, but it is very difficult to move everyone, because everyone's moving point is different, and the idea of "moving" may only be the idea of you or a few people, the vast majority of students may want to make the party more lively and pleasant, if you go against everyone's desire to ignite the town, it will definitely not achieve your original intention - to leave a good impression on everyone!

In the following solution: first please no more than ten! There are three reasons, first, it is difficult to reconcile the large number of people.

Second, the cost is large, even if you are very rich, you should save a little, don't spend money in vain. Third, it is impossible to take care of all of them if there are many people, you know, the purpose of class reunions is to activate people, how to live? Communication!

The best activity is to eat and drink, this is the quintessence of the country! Looking for a mid-range restaurant, the per capita consumption is about 50 100, and if you are not happy, you will go to the shower, and play poker after high-fiber things, how cool.

If you have any questions, please ask.