Husband, should I choose the near or the far

Updated on society 2024-07-20
67 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Of course, it's close, and the two places are separated and lonely.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If he is very good to you, you still have to insist, for the sake of your children, there is nothing to regret, you can often pass through your parents, and you can often go back to your parents' house, close is not necessarily a good thing, far is not necessarily bad.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's good to marry closely! You can often go home to visit your parents, help them with some household chores, talk to your parents when you are upset, and go home for a few days. And if you marry far, you can't go home often, and you can only express your thoughts about your parents in **.

    It depends on whether the individual likes him, as long as the person is good, it is okay to marry ** The key is his own happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The answer has its own advantages and disadvantages, the genes of marrying distant children will be better, on the contrary, leaving home, their careers, work, life, and interpersonal relationships will be affected, everything needs to start over, and all kinds of things must be dealt with by themselves in the future, if you are a very capable person, and can plan everything, you might as well marry far away to have a new beginning, if you are full of unknowns about the future, it is better to choose a nearby person who knows the roots to marry. The key is to weigh the following points of the other party, in fact, they can all be married. 1. Whether you really love you 2, whether you have the ability to assume the responsibilities and obligations after forming a family 3, whether the other party's family really accommodates you 4

    Each has its own advantages and disadvantages, the genes of marrying distant children will be better, on the contrary, uprooted, their own career, work, life, and interpersonal relationships will be affected, everything needs to start over, and all kinds of things must be dealt with by themselves in the future, if you are a very capable person, and can plan everything, you might as well marry far away to have a new beginning, if you are full of many unknowns about the future, it is better to choose a nearby person who knows the roots to marry. The key is to weigh the following points of the other party, in fact, they can all be married. 1. Do you really love you, 2, do you have the ability to assume the responsibilities and obligations after forming a family, 3, does the other party's family really accommodate you, 4, can the other party's material conditions ensure that you give up everything here and marry someone else?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My boyfriend is far away from my house, he is very nice to me, he is obedient to me, he doesn't let me do laundry at all in winter, he helps me wash them one by one with his hands, and will give me everything I want. I feel so happy! But my family didn't agree to be far away, and I didn't even want to marry near but I was reluctant to marry my family, and now I'm so entangled!

    Because my first husband was from my hometown, I couldn't stand his machismo and his incompatible marriage, so I didn't want to find our **.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Is it better for a woman to marry far away or closely? Marriage is not easy, how should a woman choose.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's talk about it first If you have a man who loves you very much, a mother-in-law who is relatively easy to get along with, and a certain degree of adaptability, I don't think it's a problem. If you marry too closely, I don't think it's necessarily a good thing, in a familiar environment, you will rely more on the judgment of your relatives, (for example, your mother, mother's thinking is that girls are best by my side), then you accept similar information for a long time, which will have an impact on your married life. I think it's better to be specific about this distance, for example, if it's far away, it's best to maintain the condition that you can go home once a month, and you can't be so close that you see you every day.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course not. No matter what your in-laws do to you, you can't marry too far.

    First of all, from their own point of view, girls are originally a disadvantaged group, married so far away, no matter how good the relationship between the two people is, there will be a dull day, they will have a lot of pain and difficulties alone, if the mother's family is close, the psychological feelings will be very different, and there are parents to back up the difficulties. More importantly, from the parents' point of view, this daughter is equal to raising it for nothing! What is kinship?

    It's a lifetime of time spent with each other! Although parents always say that it is good not to use you two, in fact, what parent does not want their children to be seen and touched by their side all the time? The older your parents are, the more you need to be accompanied, don't give up your parents and marry away because of the so-called love, so that when your parents leave, you will be very regretful, because life is a single journey, and there is no round-trip ticket.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This situation has to be answered by experienced people.

    I think in that case, it's better to marry a little farther. There will be a lot less worries (if you are not close to your family), if you are reluctant to find your younger siblings, you will find closer.

    But there is one more point, if you are bullied, who will help you? Don't you have to pay back your mother's family?

    So this thing still depends on your own specific situation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, it's good to be close, it's not enough to follow everything, as long as you like it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on the situation, if your mom and dad only have a younger brother in their eyes, then your sisters may be a demon in the eyes of your parents! It is good to marry far away, and there are a lot of worries.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, my husband is good, this is the main thing. If you choose between the two, I think it's good to be close.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you are close or not, if you are far away, you are afraid that the distance will get bigger and bigger, and you need to weigh it yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It doesn't matter if it's near or far, as long as that man is good to you, that's fine.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It doesn't matter whether the distance is near or not, the important thing is whether the hearts are together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Getting married and finding the right person has nothing to do with distance or proximity.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    As long as they like each other and have a good relationship, distance is not a problem at all now.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you live happily and have a harmonious family, you can do it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As long as you live happily, it's fine.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Actually, seriously. Marry me and take care of you for the rest of your life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Is it better for a woman to marry far away or closely? Marriage is not easy, how should a woman choose.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The most important thing is to see where your significant other ends up! Personally, I think that if you marry closely, what is the matter, or if you are wronged, you can have a place to go, someone cares, and you are close to marrying, you know more about the customs, and your life will be easier in the future, more down-to-earth, you don't have to be restrained by others, how do you feel?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's good to be close, what can you rely on!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Freedom of marriage, whatever fate goes.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Is there a choice for love? When you meet true love, call him a ** person! Wishing you happiness and happiness!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's better to get closer! It's convenient to visit your parents! What the elderly are most afraid of is loneliness!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Each has its own advantages and disadvantages, but in general, it is better to be closer, at least it is convenient to go back to your parents' home.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It doesn't matter how far or near you are, the important thing is whether you marry someone you like, and whether you are happy to marry him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The key to marrying far and near is happiness, as long as you are happy, far and near are the same.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It all depends on how close you are to the person you like!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It doesn't matter whether it's near or far, what matters is whether you're happy or not? Can I go home to see my parents often?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The relationship is good, no matter how far away, almost. The main thing is to have money, hehe.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Come closer, my sister married far away, and I haven't even seen my niece for five years now.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The most important thing is to marry someone who loves you and will make money, and there is good health, and everything else is secondary.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's best to marry the one you love the most and love you the most.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since ancient times, it has been believed that it is not good for a woman to marry far away. But now the transportation is convenient, it is not very relevant, and the other party has a career, so this side should be the permanent residence. As for management, the natural synthesis is more comprehensive, and the foundation and development are more advantageous.

    But it still depends on your own character, and you know the roots in the near place, and you have something to take care of. If you can complement each other, it's also good to find someone who is not too strong.

    In the end, the decision is whether the individual values the economy, development, or the person? In contrast, the advantage can make you completely ignore his disadvantage, and that is your choice!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you are small, choose the one in Guizhou and take a look, but don't rush to promise him, if you are big, choose the honest one.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The boyfriend wants the husband from Guizhou and the town.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Better a finger off than always aching. It's better to leave, you're just his spare tire. Remember to adopt me.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's just right not far or close, and you can grasp your bottom line.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Choose those who have the ability and potential, because the quality of your choices determines your happiness in the future! Moreover, a good family does not mean that he is good.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I guess you're on the second side, right? When you are confused, you might as well stop, think about the process of getting along with you, and ask your heart: Who is good to you?

    Who is true to you? What's his personality like? What is his character?

    Who do you feel more comfortable with? So you know what to choose!

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Find a place where you are not disturbed, and quietly ask your heart, which person you want to spend the rest of your life together, regardless of the outside, regardless of conditions, just you and him, whether he makes you feel at ease, warm, trustworthy, and let you give yourself to him willingly. If both of you answer no, follow your heart and don't settle for a lifetime event. Hope you get happiness

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    No matter what you choose, love you is the main thing.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If your family is interested in the other party's family situation, then you choose the former, but you still choose the latter, no matter what, you have to choose.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Choose what you want, and choose whatever you care about.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Choosing a husband is actually your own happiness!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Choosing a family that knows how to love you and know how to take care of you generally doesn't mean anything You can work hard.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Choose to leave home and love you, envy you, and choose, I just stay away from my relatives, regret it.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Love you close to home and capable.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I chose the former, and now I regret it, really. I must choose the latter, definitely.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Choose what you love and love you. After all, marriage is once in a lifetime, don't leave regrets, at least be worthy of your heart.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Of course, I know how to love you well, so that you will live a very happy life.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    What if the family conditions are good, he generally doesn't treat it sincerely, because he has the capital and doesn't treat it sincerely.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    The most important thing is to see which one you love, which one loves you, and it is more important for the two to be happy.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    I want the fish, and the bear's paw is also what I want, and I can't have both, and the one who gives up the fish and takes the bear's paw!

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    The second, however, also depends on your own needs.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It's up to you, if I would choose the latter.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Look at the name, look at the mathematics, look at the marriage, and measure the fate.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Of course, I know how to love you.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    It depends on how good the family is.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    It's closer, it's okay, I have a family to rely on, and I live in a more familiar place.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    I feel good that I can take care of my elderly parents and share the joy of family! It's a trouble to go far away, and it's hard to do anything

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    After all, the quiet ridge is the parents who gave birth and raised, and Zheng Tong has unspeakable hardships after divorce, as a child, I think I should stay by their side, and if Qi infiltrates is far away, I must often go home to see, and the parents' love for their children will not change.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    It's good to be close, you can often go to your parents' house to eat, haha!

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    I feel good that it is close.

    Like me, the number of wedding banquets is very far away from my parents.

    I didn't have anywhere to go after a fight with my husband.

    I didn't dare to tell my parents because it was too far away for fear that they would worry.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    If it's far away, you can often go home and see it.

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