Whether the relationship should continue to struggle or forget

Updated on psychology 2024-05-19
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If she wants to feel for you, you will feel it, you can't be a couple and you can be friends, you push too hard, and in the end you don't have to do anything.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since it didn't come into her heart, remove her from your heart as soon as possible. One person can be wonderful!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you go home tomorrow, you should still act today, women just have to strike while the iron is hot, men must muster up courage, don't be afraid of setbacks. You make an appointment, invite her to dinner today, pick her up downstairs in her dormitory, arrange a place to eat, and chat while walking late. If you get a chance to give her a hug, if the hug goes well, kiss her again.

    If all goes well. Congratulations brother. This relationship really began.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If she likes you too, go ahead

    If she doesn't like you, give it up ...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    She doesn't love you, so your connection with her is just a tie to her.

    Instead of such an awkward connection, it's better to go with the flow.

    Be a little more chic, and she may still have the same feelings as she did when she was a good friend with you.

    Love can't come barely, and if she doesn't love you, it only means that you haven't met a girl who is really suitable for you.

    So don't be unconfident because of this, just like some people like to eat apples and some people like to eat pears.

    Relax your mind.

    What's more, you're about to intern and graduate, so it's better to think more about your future than to think about your feelings like this.

    Investing in yourself will always be profitable.

    What's more, love shouldn't be all for boys, maybe the employment and work they will face in the future will be many times worse than this, take advantage of the holiday to go home and communicate with your parents more, divert your attention, the world is very big, there are many beautiful women, there will always be something suitable for you.

    Wishing you happiness!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When I gave up, I thought it was just a relationship, but later I realized that it was a lifetime, is it useful to regret this emotion? I think the answer to this question is no, all regrets in life are useless, rather than in the regret that has no effect, it is better to try to get out of the predicament and start a new life. Why?

    The main reasons are as follows:

    First: give up is a relationship, and later know that it is a lifetime, there is no problem with this sentence, after giving up a relationship, I found out how beautiful the original relationship was, and there will be the spread of regret immediately, in fact, it doesn't have to be like this, because over time, this emotion will gradually reduce, as long as you actively face the new life, you are likely to meet better and better people than before, so there is no need to regret it all the time.

    Second: because you have given up a relationship and regret it, it is very likely that because of this regret emotion, you will be depressed, negative face of people and things in life, which is extremely detrimental to your future growth, this emotion will not only not play a role at all, but also become a stumbling block for you to get out of this shadow, you live with this emotion, how can you meet a better other half?

    Third, giving up a relationship feels that you have given up your life, but you also have to change your thinking, you give up a life and may get another life that you have never experienced, this is the compensation for you to give up a life, and as the new other half enters your heart, and with the passage of time, your new life will start soon, so you don't have to dwell on the previous relationship and regret it in vain.

    Therefore, everyone may encounter a painstaking but unhealthy relationship, which is also an experience of life, a valuable spiritual wealth, after losing this relationship, we must treat it rationally, correct understanding, you don't have to be entangled in the previous relationship and surrounded by regret all day long, silver gray this kind of regret is meaningless to your future life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It is useless to regret this emotion, because such an approach will only make you particularly sad. will also make it impossible for you to get out of a failed relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Regret is useless because it doesn't help your feelings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't force to forget the past, let go and let the thoughts spread.

    It's hard to try to forget someone.

    What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want to choose to forget an ending relationship, I think you should forget it with your normal heart.

    If you let yourself fall in love with another person, you will forget the previous relationship, which is not unprecedented, and maybe there are many successes. It depends on how you choose the same.

    I think no matter how much I forget, there will still be traces in my heart, and no matter how much I force myself to forget my feelings, the memories will still exist. Thinking about how to forget every day, it is better to face it if it is, there is no shame in a failed relationship, and the sad feelings are not absolute, as long as you are relieved to balance it.

    Believe in yourself.

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