The girl is in her teens, dirty and lazy, and she doesn t listen to what she says

The girl is dirty and lazy in her teens, why don't you listen to it? These are all bad habits that children have developed since childhood. You're going to teach him her.

Educate him. You just say. You also have to smile cleanly.

What do you do to grow up so that people like you? If you say that he will not be dirty or lazy in the future.

Infect her with actions, subtly move her, reduce blame, encourage more, and believe that she will change.

Generally speaking, little girls are very clean, if he is more than ten years old, he doesn't know how to be clean, maybe this is the kind of beep of some people in the countryside, who have not established the good tradition of loving cleanliness since childhood, but have always been sloppy fruits, and it may not be easy to correct them now, you have to guide him slowly, communicate with him more, and guide him to the correct outlook on life.

Isn't she a little mentally deficient? You said that she didn't hear it, normal children don't get dirty and lazy, it's still a little wrong.

Then you're going to have to beat it up, there's no other way.

This is the case at the moment.

We'll find out in a while.

You can solve it from the beauty.

Because a lot of people don't necessarily know, and when they do, they won't have these things.

Well! Parents should be united with teachers. Let's educate together. Cultivate a correct outlook on life. Philosophy. These.

Hehe,My mom and my dad used to say that about me.,Always use violence to solve problems.,Now it's junior high school.,Looking back.,That's called a handful of bitter tears I personally think violence is not very good.,Although the effect is good.。。。 You can set up an image in front of your child, tell her about your hard work as a parent, and remind her to study hard and not be sloppy, otherwise she will grow up unlucky in the future. At the same time, she is rewarded and punished clearly, and appropriately criticized and praised.

I really can't control it, one word, hit! Alas, if it weren't for the fact that I was finally in junior high school, I would have to be beaten... Tragedy, I'm rubbing...

On the way to growth, you need to slowly cultivate good habits, people who have no concept of time and are too lazy will have problems in many things, and if you cultivate a sense of responsibility, you will change the status quo.

I feel that you have to be stricter, and you have to communicate more with your child, and remember to compare him to others.

Parents should sit down with her and talk calmly, or find others to help persuade and talk.

Sometimes it is necessary to use violence to solve it, and for disobedient children, they are afraid of beating.

The words of left-behind children can be understood, and if they are not left-behind children, it is the way adults are educated.

Parents should teach patiently.

It can only mean that you have not cultivated a good child's habit of hygiene since childhood, and a good family education and family environment will bring an example to your children, so it is better to be a parent and try to supervise your own children to be better.

In this case, the more you talk, the more you don't listen, the premise of the right way of communication is the first thing to deal with your relationship, this should be done slowly, if you want to persuade someone else to help, don't stiffen your relationship again.

Adolescent schoolgirl one.

bai is generally rebellious, and at this time, parents can't be too extreme, otherwise dao she will only do it in the opposite direction, so.

Right, parents should be gentle persuasion, but don't be too nagging, tough tone, to take a softer way, in life, to try to tolerate them, but can not be indulgent, try to give them a better life, try to understand the child's life, learn to be a wise parent to make the child feel that there is a common language with you, in this way, your persuasion, they are more acceptable.

Don't put it into words.

Persuasion, persuasion because the persuasion in the eyes of adults is very boring for teenagers, and it is only necessary for you to have a sense of resistance.

I am 16, at least from my own point of view, I am also more annoyed by my family's constant nagging, even if I know that it is for my good, but she usually encourages me a little or praises me for helping me do something that I have not noticed very subtle is that I will feel very warm and useful Adopt it, auntie? Uncle?

Only communicate with her patiently and play the emotional card with her.

Multi-entry ** sense of communication.

Emotional communication is an instinctive need of human beings, and in adolescence, children actually have a strong desire to communicate with their parents, so parents should grasp the right in a timely manner and pay attention to the following:

1.Don't neglect your child's need for dialogue because you are busy with work and socializing, and parents should be diligent in talking to your child at this specific physiological period. Guiding them to understand their parents' verbosity and teachers' criticism in a positive sense are well-intentioned and are meant to help them grow up healthily.

2.When your child talks to you about a topic that interests him, listen attentively, don't be absent-minded or ignore him, and if you are doing something very urgent, you may want to say hello to your child so that he can understand.

3.Accompany children to participate in activities they are interested in, such as watching football games, enjoying concerts, etc., encourage them to participate in extracurricular activities, show their self-worth in activities, communicate with them with the attitude of close friends, and subtly guide children to have the correct concept of dealing with others.

What seed, what tree grows! She must be a scholar with a temper! Find out for yourselves.

It's a reaction to the arrival of puberty, it's more rebellious, you have to try to communicate with your child....Don't yell, Chinese education is more violent, but for a child with a stronger personality, the more violent you are to him, the more he has to resist...Communicate with your child more and communicate your thoughts ......Otherwise, after a long time, there will be a gap between the children and form a gap that cannot be crossed...

Come soft, if soft doesn't work, come hard, it's best to use communication to convince her.

That's it! It's normal to have a comparison mentality, and it's good to vent it.

I was six years old like this, and I thought she was still saved.

Follow him little by little to educate you.

Find out, what does she want?

You should be the child's mother, let the child's father take care of it.

Nine-year-old children are the second rebellious period in their lives, and parents want their children to go through this rebellious period smoothly, and the education method should adapt to the child's change.

Sometimes, communication can be more effective than commands.

Children in this period need parents to communicate and comfort patiently, try to listen to their children's opinions, understand their children's views and thinking patterns, and let children speak freely, rather than using their parents' identities and reasons to suppress them. Properly let go of the parents' face and rights, learn to be the child's friend, the child at this age most wants to prove that he is a "little adult", then the parent will let the child prove, so that the child feels that his personality is respected. For example:

In the choice of clothes, buy according to the child's preferences, rather than what parents think the child should wear;

When making a choice on a matter, listen to your child's opinion, not just your mother's, it's all for your good.

During this period, parents should balance the restraint of children and give children space, not overly restrictive, but also can not blindly relax, relax to a degree, give children space and the right to choose independently, but also let children know the rules and principles of acting, not just follow their own hearts, so that children will not be infected with bad habits, and the relationship with parents will be eased.

Well, don't you think it's the parents? When she was young, she didn't teach her well, and everything would be on her and spoil her. When she's a little older and starts to think she can manage it, you can't control it anymore and say she's rebellious. These should be taught from a young age, and it's not too late to teach them well.

Your daughter must have something in her heart, don't be too strict, she is still a child, her daughter should be sensible outside and at home, everyone is still like this, I was like this when I was a child, just be sensible.

It means that she has now reached a rebellious period, and you need to see some education experts how they educate a 12-year-old adolescent girl, so that you can educate this girl well.

Have you looked for the problem from your own point of view? It may be that when educating children, the tone is too tough and the attitude is not very good. You can communicate with your child in another way.

This period is a period of youth and rebellion, and children generally have their own ideas and will not easily follow their parents' arrangements. Therefore, parents should adjust the methods and methods of education, and do not force them.

You wanted to tell your child that it's bad to talk back, and that he wouldn't do it again. However, if you are not careful, you overreact, such as suddenly raising the volume, or your face is swollen and red, if this is the case, then you have fallen into the trap of the child, which makes the child feel that it is useful to talk back, at least "Mommy pays attention to me".

In that case, you can tell the teacher, let the teacher pay more attention, and then ask the teacher what to do, or you can tell the teacher about the situation, and then let the teacher take care of it.

Then you deduct her pocket money and tell her that if you don't do what I say, then your pocket money for this month will not be given to you again, and I will not buy you what you want.

I think that respecting and understanding children can reduce parents' resistance to some of their children's behaviors on the one hand, and help parents to resolve differences with their children in a more appropriate way.