Why do rural men in their thirties not marry a wife?

Russia is also out of balance between men and women, and I don't know how people live or not.

Poor, no money, no way, people go to high places, have a car, a house, and a rich woman to marry.

In the final analysis, there are still more men and fewer women, and if there are more women, try 30 million.

To put it bluntly, there is no money, the conditions are poor, and ...... honestlyLike me.

The whole problem is that there is no money.

This is a very normal phenomenon. Either his conditions are not good enough. Either that, or he didn't find the perfect match.

Because he was poor and stupid, he didn't marry a wife.

Now the main thing is that there are fewer women and more men, and the economic conditions do not allow it. Some are picky, some are not diligent, and some are not wealthy, so it is difficult to marry a wife.

The relevant parties provided him with labor opportunities and rich projects, but he just didn't do it, and the idea of waiting, relying on, and asking was very serious! Whoever helped him, he lay still.

In winter, I shivered with cold, so I went to my neighbor's house to sit and refused to look for firewood to make a fire to keep warm! The neighbors could only sigh. Which woman would like such a rural man?

There are many reasons why a woman does not marry at the age of 30, but a very large part (not all) of the reasons why a man does not marry at the age of 30 are due to economic reasons. There are five diamond kings, but the proportion is very small.

Since the birth of family planning, some couples who prefer sons over daughters will have abortions if they find that the first child is a girl before giving birth. Or if the first child is a girl, it will give birth to a boy, resulting in a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women.

This is just the beginning, there will be more and more men who can't find a wife, and in the near future, a wife will be considered a successful person.

In the countryside, it is also known as the lazy and lazy type. Most of these people are unrelated and old, but they still have the ability to work. He is a poor man in the countryside, and when the time comes, he will have to get rid of poverty anyway, so naturally some people are in a hurry.

First, the majority of young women of school age in rural areas meet a wider range of men to choose from when they go out to work. So I found my husband in the city.

Second, under the current imbalance between men and women, young men have little selectivity, and if they can't have a skill or better conditions, they will easily become leftover men.

Once a rural girl enters the city, she almost always marries a boy who has a house in the city, and does not return to live in the countryside. This is the reason why it is difficult for rural men to find wives.

1.Calmly face the current situation: Don't be bothered by the single state, and maintain an optimistic and upbeat attitude.

2.Seize the opportunity: Actively expand your network, participate in some social activities, and make friends in front of the hall.

3.Change yourself: Find your own shortcomings, strengthen your learning and exercise, and improve your attractiveness.

4.Adjust requirements: Be humble to the other party and minimize the idea of being too demanding.

5.Enjoy life: There are many other good things besides married life, and enjoy your life well.

In short, being single is not the end of life, nor does it mean failure, everyone has their own life trajectory, don't be bound by the expectations and evaluations around you, face your life seriously, actively look for opportunities and pursuits, and believe that the future can still shine.

There are a lot of women in their thirties in rural areas who have never been married, probably because these girls want to find some rich people, but the conditions of these girls are not particularly good, and not too many people can take a fancy to them, so the longer these people wait, the easier it is to be discouraged and disappointed, and gradually become older leftover women. There are also some people who want to work their careers, and it is precisely because they are from the countryside that they want to change other people's perceptions of themselves, and rural women can also achieve a career. <>

Because these women can't find the right one for themselves. Some women are very aware of their own positioning, so they can find a person who is the right person, and then marry someone else at the right age, and raise the children of two people, although the family is ordinary, but it is also extraordinarily happy. But some women don't want to marry someone else hastily, they want to find someone they really like, and they also want to find someone with good conditions, so that they can make their lives better and better, and they can leave this rural area, but not all people are so lucky, and not all people are Cinderella, these people are destined to be disappointed, so the waiting time is longer, and these women will get older and older.

Because these women work officially. Now the world is very fair, men and women are in a state of fair competition, there are some men who are very ambitious, but at the same time, there are also some women who have a strong sense of responsibility, these women are also very good at working hard in the workplace, they can hold up a piece of the sky, and they can also make a lot of money, so these people's economic conditions are very good, and they don't care what others think of themselves, so they want to live happily for a lifetime. <>

Now the knowledge level of the people in the country is also constantly improving, and everyone has a clear understanding of the current situation, some women may feel that men do not have much role, women can make money themselves, and they can go out with friends when they are bored, so the existence of men is dispensable.

Because some rural women are not highly educated, and their ability is not very strong, but they will ask for a high bride price when they get married, and now the pressure on the lives of ordinary young people is very great, and the average family has no way to bear such an expensive bride price, so they still can't marry at the age of 30.

Because these women are not high or low, their own conditions are not good, but their requirements are very high, and when they are older, there will be risks in having children.

Then these women have very high requirements for the other half, because they don't want to choose the future, they always want to find the other half who are in love, and the bride price in the countryside is relatively high.

Because of the imbalance between men and women in rural areas, many young men have gone to the cities to develop. And rural women are not willing to compromise in marriage.

In the rural areas, men in their fifties and sixties who have not married a daughter-in-law, and some elderly people in their fifties and sixties, even if they do not have a relatively regular income, can still save money by working on their own and supporting themselves. If you have a certain economic foundation, the wife who forms a family will not eat idle meals, right? Warm family life and harmonious relationship between husband and wife can add new vitality and promote the healthy development of people's careers and living standards towards new goals.

Whether you want to find a wife or not is your own business. If you are good enough and do not lack money, and you don't want to find it yourself, there are people who will help you find it. It is a good choice to find a healthy, considerate and like-minded woman who supports each other through the second half of life, and it is more suitable than living alone.

Although some elderly people have never been married and have no children in their lives, there are also many of them who are reluctant to go to nursing homes because they do not want to give all their money to the nursing home, and they feel that living in a nursing home is not as good as living alone. But there are also some people who are willing to go to nursing homes and let others serve them, and they feel that it is not bad to spend their old age in this way. With the increasing number of single elderly people, the problem of pension for the elderly is becoming more and more severe, but from the current situation, there is no other better way to provide them with necessary care through social welfare institutions and caring organizations.

There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, everyone has their own life, planting some crops at home, the basic life is affordable, and it is happier than some old people with unfilial children. Whether in the city or in the countryside, single men who are not married and have no children do not have to worry about their old age, do not have to worry about life, and have a secure pension. Moreover, there are various forms of old-age care, which can be adapted to local conditions and freely chosen.

If you want to live well, then I personally think you still have to rely on yourself, after all, you are the main theme, and you have to work hard to live well. Don't always tie up the state to provide for the elderly or do anything, work harder and save more money when you are young, so that you can provide for yourself when you are old, so that you can live a more chic life.

In almost every village, there are at least one or twenty old men in their fifties and sixties, who are still single because they have not married a daughter-in-law. Most of the bachelors in their fifties and sixties were born in the fifties and sixties, and the time to talk about marriage was at the end of eating "big pot rice" in large groups, or in the early days of rural reform and opening up, when the countryside was very poor, and it was already great to be able to fill their stomachs, so how could they have the strength to marry a daughter-in-law! Therefore, time flies, and when it comes to having money in hand and wanting to marry a daughter-in-law, as he gets older, the daylily is cold, so he has to live his life alone.

You can apply for low-income households or other rural homestead subsidies, and of course, you can also choose to give your inheritance to your nephew and let your nephew raise you.

Some old people will choose to go to nursing homes to care for the elderly when they are old, and some people will find a partner to live with when they are old.

In rural areas, young men in their thirties and forties who have not yet married a daughter-in-law, what will they do in the future?

1. You may meet your own destined person in middle age or old age and accompany you to old age.

In rural areas, if the family conditions are not good, then it is very difficult to marry a daughter-in-law, because now rural girls hope to marry into a good family, either a young person in the city, or a rural person with good family conditions, who has the conditions to buy a house and a car. And those young people with average family background and poor ability end up missing the best age for marriage. But they were not discouraged and chose to live a solid life in the countryside, because they believed that one day there would be destined people to live with them.

In fact, after some middle-aged women divorce, they will lower their mate selection standards, and do not have any illusions about those capable men, thinking that men who can live a solid life are the most reliable. After two people get married, they will cherish each other, although they have no children, they know how to be warm to each other, and they will be very happy in their later years.

Second, living alone, it is inevitable that there will be some loneliness.

There are also some young people in rural areas, as they grow older, their own conditions will become worse and worse, and finally become what people call "singles". Gradually, they get used to living alone, or working in the city or doing odd jobs or farming in their hometown, and can be self-sufficient, without thinking about their partners and children.

3. Rely on family and friends to get by.

In old age, unmarried rural men lose their ability to work, especially after the age of 80, and cannot take care of themselves, so they have to rely on relatives and friends to take care of them. Rural people attach great importance to family affection, and the whole village will take turns to take care of the elderly, regularly bathe the elderly, wash and cook for the elderly, and the elderly will feel cared for and feel particularly content.

In rural areas, young men in their thirties and forties who have not yet married a wife work hard to earn more money. After all, the older you get, the more limited your options become. If you are unlucky, you will only be lonely and old.

In rural areas, if people in their thirties and forties have not yet married a daughter-in-law, then I think they are likely to be single in the rest of their lives.

They may continue to work as singles in the future, earn their own money to support themselves, and end up in nursing homes.

Approaching the Spring Festival, the thirty-year-old single men in the countryside began to be busy Li Zheng this work, relatively tired, these men are more tired, day after day, year after year, in addition to their single situation, all other aspects are changing, but many single men even senior singles do not understand why rural men will become single, and show an increasingly fierce trend, in fact, if you want to change the problem, you must face the problem in advance, in order to help you clearly understand the essence of the matter, I hope you can read the following six reasons why a single man in the countryside doesn't have a wife at the age of 30, and you must know the cause and effect.

First, there is no strength in the family, although it is hard work, but the income is limited, Cong Sheng does not care about going to the city to buy a house for the time being, even if the houses in the village are not flipped, even if the rural men are free to fall in love outside, coaxing the women of the world and the north to go home, when they see the four walls of the family, the woman is bound to turn around and leave, and will never come back, as for the blind date, the scope will definitely be limited to ten miles and eight villages, presumably both men and women know the roots, and the matchmaker is like a clever woman who is difficult to cook without rice.

Second, men may have some ability, so they belong to relatively wealthy families in the village, but men will think very highly of themselves, which leads to the selection of women, usually picky, to pick and choose, the women who have been picked before have been married, men pay a high cost for what they do, there is no doubt that time, the years are not forgiving, men over thirty years old will be left, and there is no woman for her to choose, unless this kind of man is rich and noble, it is difficult to counterattack, It definitely can't get into the eyes of a young girl in her early twenties.