Why do women in rural areas become homeless if they don t get married?

Because parents in the countryside will love their sons more, when a woman does not get married, she will be disliked by her sister-in-law, and she will slowly become homeless.

If a woman lives in a rural area, if she does not marry when she reaches a certain age, she will definitely be homeless, because her family is basically two children, then the girl must marry immediately.

Because there is more than one daughter in a rural family, there will be many brothers and sisters in the family, and if they don't make a bid, their older brother or younger brother will get married, and their parents' home will become their home, and they will become homeless.

Because if a rural woman does not get married, her parents will gradually grow old, and her younger brother and elder brother will become homeless.

Because most parents in rural areas have sons, if a woman can't get married, she will really be homeless, and the old man's idea is also very traditional, and everything belongs to the son.

Because women are all from other people's families in the eyes of their mother's family, they will never be regarded as members of their own family, so if they can't get married, they will be homeless.

Because parents in rural areas think that their daughters are humiliated if they don't get married, and they are unwilling to continue to support their daughters, they will be homeless.

Because in the countryside, their thinking is relatively conservative, and they must ask their daughters to marry, and if women do not marry, they will be spurned by people.

Because the concept of rural areas is still very backward, the idea of preference for sons over daughters still exists, and if a woman cannot get married, her parents will abandon her.

In the countryside, if anyone has a daughter at home, then as long as they are adults, someone will come to matchmaking, and it is not an exaggeration to describe it as "a family with a daughter and a thousand families". In recent years, due to the increasing imbalance between men and women, it is really difficult for young men in rural areas to marry a daughter-in-law. If the boy himself has the ability and is more popular with women, it is still easier to do it, and some of them can easily handle their marriage without their parents worrying.

There are also cases of this in the farmer's side.

However, most rural boys are getting older because they are not confident and not good at communicating, and it is becoming more and more difficult to marry a daughter-in-law. And families with daughters have become fragrant and sweet, but after all, the number of girls is limited. What's more, these girls are the treasures of their parents, some of them are relatively highly educated, they were born and raised in the countryside, and they understand the hardships of rural life very well, so most of them are unwilling to marry into the countryside.

Therefore, even if the boy's family background is not good, he will not be considered by rural girls, while girls in the city have not suffered much since childhood, and they are even more reluctant to marry in the countryside, and their parents will not be willing. It is precisely because there are more men and fewer women that it is so difficult for young men in rural areas to marry daughters-in-law. 2. In the past, as long as the man's family had a sheltered house and a few acres of thin fields, and the boy was more industrious and not the kind of person who was lazy and lazy, it was not difficult to marry a daughter-in-law.

In recent years, the cost of marrying a daughter-in-law has become higher and higher, not only requiring the other party to have a house and a car, but also hundreds of thousands of bride price. And this is really a "huge" property for rural families.

Although some capable people can earn 100,000 yuan a year, the expenses are also relatively large, and they can't save tens of thousands of yuan a year. However, even if you can take out a loan to buy a car or a house, the down payment will be at least 300,000 scum pies, plus hundreds of thousands of bride price, so that not only will the family have all their savings, but also have a lot of debts. And the reason why many girls are not willing to marry young people in the countryside who have cars, houses, and bride prices is because they know that most of these families are "strong and hollow", and they don't want to go to these families in the countryside to suffer.

Once married, you have to earn money with your husband to pay off the mortgage and car loan, and your life is tight, so that the quality of life is not guaranteed.

Another point is that many girls nowadays have higher requirements for the quality of life, and they are also eager to pursue a better life, and they are not willing to become housewives like in the past, taking care of children and the elderly at home all day long. What's more, many young people are now accustomed to living in the city, but they are not used to living in the countryside.

It is precisely for the above reasons that many girls now, even if the boys in the countryside have good family conditions, are still reluctant to marry.

1.Because many women will not go back often in their previous family after they get married and have children, or they will buy something every time they go back, there will be a sense of distance, sometimes we will be told by others that we will only go back to our parents' house often, and sometimes they will have some influence on the in-laws' family, etc., I feel that I am already married out, and I am not the person in the previous family, and I have moved out, so this relationship will be particularly reluctant from the beginning, and then slowly fade by time.

2.Then after giving birth to a child, the child feels that it is the whole of his life, especially in some widowed marriages, his other half is not at home, but has been working outside for many years to earn money, so only his own children are with him at home, so your thoughts are only on the children every day. If you are worried about whether the child will be sick, whether you are full or not, whether you are happy, whether you are crying, whether you like her to laugh, want to take him to be happier and happier, and hope that he will live better and better, etc., then your whole body and mind will be on your child, and you will not have any energy to think about anything else.

3.And then there are the trivial things in life that will occupy a lot of your mind, and you don't have the heart to think about what your mother's family needs, or whether I should go back and see, etc., sometimes a lot of things in life are your own current things. A lot of tedious things will entangle you, especially the child, he needs a lot of time to accompany him, if he needs to go to work and take care of the child, then at this time, your whole troubled state is very busy, and there is definitely no time to think about his mother's family.

4.Moreover, if your family is particularly happy, you will have a special sense of belonging to that family, and you will feel that it is your home, then your mother's family has been married, and you will feel that you are already an outsider in your previous home, and you need to buy things every time you go back to the home that you are embarrassed to go back to. Although he is a strong backing, he is no longer a place where you can stay forever, so people used to say that women have no home.

5.So many people will feel that they have no home after they get married, because they can't go back to their mother's house, and if they are husband's family, if they quarrel and drive themselves out, they may not have a place to live, so many times, women are still very difficult, and after giving birth to children, children will occupy a large part of life, so at this time everything is child-oriented, when the child is inconvenient to run, when he grows up, the child needs to read and study, And then after that, you need a lot of money for your children to go to school, and you need a lot of energy, so you don't have time or time to think about your own family.

I hope I can help you, I wish you a happy life and a happy day!

Because they have seen that when they reach the developed and advanced side of the big cities, the rural areas are relatively backward.

I don't want to live a rural life anymore after experiencing rural life, so I want to marry a young man from the city.

First, there is a large gap between urban and rural areas, such as housing, education, medical care, leisure, shopping, and cultural life. Second, the way of life, the way of life in the countryside is very different from that in the cities, and the agricultural life is gradually weakened. Third, the cultural atmosphere, many people in rural areas have old-fashioned concepts and have little common language with young people.

Fourth, there are few suitable jobs, and the money that can be earned is relatively small. Therefore, the reluctance to marry back to the countryside is a comparative choice.