I loved her, she loved me, and I got married right away for my parents

Updated on psychology 2024-07-29
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Although marriage is a matter of two people, it is still necessary to have a good relationship with each other's parents as much as possible, after all, a marriage and relationship that can be blessed by parents are more stable.

    You said that her parents have an opinion about you, so is there something wrong? Can you change a little bit from yourself?

    If she loves you, why should she give up on you to choose such a lonely love? Girls need companionship and care, doesn't she crave her beloved to be by her side? Have you had a good conversation?

    Is it just for the sake of the happiness of his parents that he has wronged himself for the rest of his life? That's not smart!

    Maybe you were a little excited at the time, but if she got the certificate with that man because of anger, then it's really stupid, even if she is angry with you, she shouldn't decide things when her mind is impulsive, let alone a big event like marriage!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Love, duty? What you choose.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I really don't know what you mean.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There are no regrets, they have met a man who really loves them, they live together very happily, and they will not regret it at all.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No regrets. It is generally believed that a man is the eternal lover of his love world and will never regret it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    According to you, in the past four years, he has been very good to your mother and daughter, except for not giving you marriage, which proves that he loves you, and he still loves the house and Wu. This is rare for men. However, judging from his attitude towards marriage, he is not mature enough to face the pressures of life.

    From the moment he knew you, he knew that you were a single mother, he understood that you need a home, and he already knew his parents and their attitudes. In the past four years, why didn't he actively communicate with his parents, and why didn't he resolutely show his determination to his parents? Instead, they avoid the difficult problem of marriage?

    If he had been positive, decisive and resolute, perhaps his parents would have understood and compromised. Facts have proved that as long as their children are firm enough, few parents can hold on to the end.

    Love is a feeling, this is the origin of love, but in love, in addition to the feeling of love, how to love is more important. Loving someone is not enough with just one burst of love, love in life also requires courage, responsibility and understanding. Obviously, your boyfriend's perception of love is still at a very superficial stage, thinking that being good to you is love, but he has never thought about it deeply.

    He should not turn a blind eye to the needs of your mother and daughter, you need a home, he can't afford it and doesn't want you to leave; He shouldn't be amorous in the name of his parents, you are obviously in love, but he drags you and goes on a blind date with someone else. If he truly loves you, he should face the difficulties you have experienced in this relationship, overcome and calm them through his own efforts, and give your mother and daughter a stable, harmonious and happy home.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Just coax the problem to be solved, and the two want to solve the outside thing, let's talk about it, say who is wrong, don't get in the way, apologize and talk about the fight, and slowly resolve it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is the fault you are used to, because you are too spoiled, I feel the same way, and I charged my ex-girlfriend too much, but she hasn't found a partner yet, but her temper is the same as your wife. Just let it go, change it, and change it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She knows that you spoil her, so that's it, if you continue to do this, your future will be pitiful, and how sad you are for your parents.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Neither end can be offended, both ends say good things, and men mourn.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Our men's duty to live is to honor our parents and love our wives and children, why is it called honoring the elderly, because the old people let us be grateful, and the family is not accustomed to the wife for what they encounter.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If something goes wrong, be ready to return it at any time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    (⊙o⊙)…Uncle, marriage is difficult.

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