I love her and she s with me, but she still can t forget her former boyfriend, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you have patience, infect him with your attitude and methods.

    If you don't have patience, you will take the early part

    Otherwise, it's definitely a ticking time bomb.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're in a similar situation to me now. She also can't forget to let go of the past.

    She always told me to "let it be", so let's just let it be. I'll wait until she's letting go of her hand completely, and when she feels like she's okay with me. I'll try.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The people who love me have no regrets for me. My heart is broken for the ** tears I love. It's better to find someone you love than someone to love yourself.

    It feels hard though. But for the sake of their own future dripping Xinfu. Think about it. Rather than being sad individually, it is better to fulfill everyone...

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is not something that can be forgotten for a while. I can't help you anymore.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Give her a moment. After all, the two-year relationship is not something that can be forgotten.

    If you feel that you have reached your limit and she still hasn't forgotten him, then you leave her and wait for her to deal with that relationship before going to her.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Go with the flow, be nice to her, and he'll know how good you are.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is a very difficult situation, first of all, you need to accept this fact and not try to deny or run away from your emotions. Here are some suggestions to help you deal with this situation:

    1.Be honest about your feelings: Don't try to suppress or deny your emotions, acknowledge your feelings and accept them. This is the first and most important step.

    2.Confide in a friend or family member: Sharing your feelings and emotions with someone you trust can help you feel supported and understood. They can provide comfort and support to help you grind through this emotional dilemma.

    3.Stay busy: Distract yourself and keep your life busy. Try a new hobby, participate in a new activity, or get into work or study. Being busy can leave you with no time to think about that person and helps ease your pain.

    4.Develop new hobbies: Try some new activities or hobbies, such as fitness, reading, writing, art, etc. These activities allow you to live your life to the fullest, while also helping you to forget about that emotion.

    5.Give yourself time: Forgetting that a person takes time, so you need to give yourself enough time to process the emotion. Don't expect to be able to forget quickly, it may take some time.

    6.Observe your emotions: Observing your emotions and trying to understand your emotions can help you better deal with them.

    7.Seek professional help: If you feel emotionally unable to take care of yourself, consider seeking professional help, such as counselling or**. Professional help can help you better deal with this emotion and find a better way to cope.

    Finally, you need to understand that you can't control other people's choices and you can't force other people's feelings. As painful as you may be, you need to accept this fact and find your own happiness. Hopefully, you will be able to find a way to deal with this relationship and find your own happiness.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should give up! He shouldn't be hated or his girlfriend should be hated.

    The fact that he reunited with his former daughter shows that he is also as smart as you.

    Valuing love. Bless them.

    You will also travel with you to find true love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You fell in love with him instead of him, maybe he gave you the feeling of love.

    So you're obsessed and reluctant to let go.

    But you have to understand that this is a dream.

    A fairy tale you made up for yourself.

    The glass slipper shattered, and I woke up from a dream.

    You should go to find your own prince, not a grumbling face.

    To miss someone else's Prince Hiroshi Shiyama.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    On the one hand, you say that he can't forget the front edge, which means that he is still a little sentimental and indecisive! (I can't forget that the front edge is inevitable and should be, otherwise he would be a ruthless person, but, he.)"Can't forget"I really shouldn't let you know the truth, and that's where he is not clever, because then you will always have a shadow in your heart. Or rather, he should have a positive attitude in front of you!

    You can consider asking him to give you a promise!

    On the other hand, you say that you love him very much, and you can do a few things in front of him before you leave so that he can most deeply feel your love for him, which is enough to make him miss you for two months, or even longer! At the same time, if he can give you a promise at this time, then, even if you are really not by his side for a long time, even if he is still with her, you should boldly let him get along with her, let him compare, and at the same time, you must be lenient and retreat as advance!

    Finally: time can wear down feelings"This is only for married people or lovers who have not been together for too long, you have only been out for two months, miss, if he still changes his mind after you have made so much effort, then, you have to have a personality, this kind of wavering love, or not!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Seriously. I don't know.

    I've had that happen to me too.

    My selection. If only he could truly love me.

    I'm going to love him more than I do now.

    If you can't. I think I'll choose to leave.

    Someone who doesn't have to love me 100%.

    It's not interesting to be around him, right?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In front of oneself, there should always be a place to be left alone. Then go to love. I don't know what it is, I don't know who it is, I don't know how to love, and I don't know how long I can love.

    Just waiting for love once, maybe no one will ever be. However, this kind of waiting is love itself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Not everyone who passes by will know each other, and not everyone who knows will be worried.

    At least we didn't miss the ...... in this life, in that place, when we turned aroundEven if you said I was in the wrong time......

    Maybe we have all forgotten ourselves and experienced that sincere love.

    It's just that there is a relationship that can no longer continue, there is a person who can no longer snuggle up to each other, there is a voice that can no longer ring in the ears, and there is a pair of hands that can no longer hold the temperature and comfort of the palms.

    Not every love has beautiful memories, and not every memory is so unforgettable.

    Since we can't grow old together, let me bless you here.

    Because you are a concern that I will never be able to part with in this life. It's just that no amount of thoughts and worries can be exchanged for the days when I had you.

    It turns out that it is not easy to love you as it is to give up on you.

    Although you are vague about the questions I have asked, I still give the most sincere heart.

    If you really love me, then I am happy. Even if I can't go to the end of the world with you, my heart is still worried about you.

    I will pray and bless you forever, may you be happy forever--- peace When you are unhappy, I want to accompany you to tears. When you're unhappy, I want to be your pistachio.

    When you're lonely, I want to talk to you. When you're sad, I'm just as depressed as you are.

    When you dream of me, that's when I miss you again.

    I don't want you to give me too much, I don't want any promises from you, and I don't want any worries from you.

    I don't want you to remember me deeply, I don't want you to remember everything we used to do.

    I just want you to think of me occasionally, occasionally think of the person who once loved you so deeply, the person who once gave you tenderness with a smile--- gave you a complete heart.

    Remember! Your world, I once really came to ......

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

    Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

    How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

    Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

    When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

    Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

    Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

    The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

    There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

    He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Strive for your own happiness, grab a word, you can't silently wish her happiness no matter what, it's just a TV series, it's rational to fight for your own happiness, you have to believe that you can do it. Come on.

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