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I can tell you for sure that if he loves you, he'll be able to convince his mother!
I have a college diploma, my girlfriend has a master's degree, and her parents began to disagree, that is, my girlfriend persuaded me every day, and then we were together.
Just imagine, you, a girl, if you are really in love with your boyfriend, can you not do everything to convince his mother? Is a diploma a thing? So you don't have to bother with it at all.
If he can't convince his mother, there are two reasons (1, he doesn't love you and uses his mother as a shield; 2, his mother is a special person, she doesn't even care about her son's happiness, will she still take care of you, if you want to enter his house, they have no status), on the contrary, if his mother says that she wants to marry you and don't want this son, your boyfriend can convince his mother, indicating that his mother loves her son very much, and your boyfriend also loves you very much, you have to follow him with all your heart and never give up, so that if you enter the door in the future, if you encounter something between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, your husband will at least have his own opinions.
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Hello, if you really love him, you should support his decision, after all, you are together for two people, and if your boyfriend really loves you, he will think about your future. Regardless of whether you are together in the end or not, you should not regret your choice, since you have chosen to be together, then it is good to cherish each other and not let yourself regret it.
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Summary. Good afternoon, good conversation!
My boyfriend has no parents, and the family doesn't agree to be together, and I can't bear it, what should I do?
Good afternoon, good conversation!
The reasons for parents' disagreement are: 1. Parents. Parents think more about it, they will think that if you have children in the future, without your mother-in-law to help take care of the children, without the help of your mother-in-law and father-in-law, your life will be very hard.
2. They will consider your boyfriend's situation. Your boyfriend's economic conditions should be average, and your parents are afraid that your married life will be too stressful, and they also want you to have an easier life.
Solution: No, my boyfriend's dad is gone, his mom is still there, and he has an older sister who is married.
1. Communication. If you really can't bear your boyfriend, then your boyfriend is also a more responsible man and is also very good to you. Then you have to communicate with your parents, communicate well with your parents.
Dear, your boyfriend's family situation is average? What's his mom's personality like? How is your boyfriend treating you? Is it a mom boy?
Dear, because these questions are considered by your parents, can you tell me about the situation in detail? I can help you better, okay?
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My home is northeast and my object is Hebei.
My boyfriend is not a mom.
Dear, you are marrying far away, so your parents don't agree, right?
Kiss, if you want to marry your boyfriend. Here's some advice: 1. Sit down with your boyfriend and talk to your parents.
Let your boyfriend talk, give your parents an attitude, be good to you, never let you be wronged, promise to come back to see your parents several times a year, can give you living conditions, etc. Let your parents see your boyfriend's determination and sincerity to marry you.
2. Negotiate with your boyfriend. Buy a house on your side of the house, be closer to your parents, and if you can, accept your boyfriend and mother to live with you. This solves the problem of marrying far away, and also solves the problem of worrying about his mother.
3. If you can, find a wife for your mother-in-law. Because after all, it is not convenient to live with you for a long time, and no matter how well your parents take care of you, it is not the same as your wife. This should also be a concern for your parents, who are afraid that you will live together for a long time and have conflicts between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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In fact, it is very important for a marriage to be unsuccessful and unhappy, and if your boyfriend is very obedient to his mother, I think even if he is brave enough to marry you now, there will be other problems later.
Therefore, your boyfriend's will is very important now, if he favors his mother more, it will be very difficult for you to be at his house in the future.
In fact, have you talked to his mother about lowering your posture must be respected by the elders, I think his mother doesn't dislike you because your boyfriend actually quarreled with her for you, so she is afraid that you will not take her in the eyes when you get married, to put it bluntly, she is afraid that you will snatch his son away.
I advise you to go to your boyfriend's house and talk about it if you really want to redeem it.
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First of all, you need to figure out why your boyfriend's mother won't let you be together, find the reason, and then do persuasion work in a targeted manner, change yourself, overcome your shortcomings, and strive to make your boyfriend's mother approve of the conditions, and then slowly do persuasion work.
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You can ask your boyfriend to persuade you, and if you really like you, he will help you.
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It depends on your boyfriend's attitude, if his attitude is very reluctant, it's best not to be together, because unblessed love is generally not happy. But as long as you like it, it's up to you to use it anyway, and you don't have to care what other people think.
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It's best to fight for it and see why his mother doesn't like you, after all, a marriage blessed by the old man is perfect and happy.
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What's your boyfriend's argument against you being together? If the boy's family strongly opposes you being together, then you basically will not get results, so you should prepare yourself as soon as possible, because boys generally can't twist their parents.
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Then change it, marry and get angry! Whose child is not a treasure.
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