How do you give up hatred and start a new life?

Reality is sometimes very cruel, but you can't be discouraged, because all the arrangements of God are fair, you have to think more about the other side when you encounter things, don't always see the surface, for example, he doesn't want to be with you, you can stand in his perspective to think, everything can not always consider how much I have done on my side, how much I want to get in return, this is impossible, as the saying goes, those who suffer are always there, those who are content are always happy, think about your own advantages, not the end of life! People are always lonely when they walk in a world, and sometimes they need to persuade themselves more. On the other hand, you have also had the happiness and joy you once had, and happiness and happiness will not always stay in one person, that is called life, we all need to try the ups and downs of life, and we must season it well, so that we can make a delicious life meal, so that we can make ourselves grow up and mature.

Finally, I would like to send you a word, I have also experienced your pain, and I have also had your injuries, but I survived and am very happy now!

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Everyone's life is different. There are joys and sorrows, this is life. You have said so much, and we do feel sorry for what has happened to you.

You say that you hate the injustice of fate, hate cruelty, and hate the world. Actually, it's not just you who think so, many people think so. Because everyone bears something different.

You say you hate him, and I think it's more appropriate to say that you love him. You just can't get out of this relationship right now. He has chosen this life now in order to fulfill his responsibilities, and many times we do a lot of things not because there is no need to do other things, and this thing is much more important than other things.

He endured a lot of things in it, a lot of things that you can't know. Now that he has chosen a new life, you should respect him. In fact, you don't have to be together to love someone, you hide this feeling deep in your heart, silently bless her, care about him from life, hope that he will get better slowly, and you start your new life, isn't it?

Why do you have to go against life all the time? What's in it for you, and what's in it for him? Hurry up and start your new life.

I hope you can also have a positive influence on her, so that he will get better soon, and you will both have your own happy lives. That's the way to go.

How do I feel like a TV series, is there such a coincidence in life? Have you seen what he looked like when he got sick? Also, if he is sick, there are still people who want him, you should feel lucky, at least someone takes care of him, love someone at least hope that he is doing well, besides, people are married, if you are doing something, one is to hurt their family, the other is to hurt themselves, no matter what you were before, at least now is the situation, you can travel, you can go to study, you can go to read, divert attention, the best way is to find a psychiatrist to consult

That series of car accidents is indeed a problem, but it is already like this, you better take it slowly.

Is this **? How did such a miserable thing make that person catch up? Fortunately, you are not married, otherwise the consequences are unimaginable, you better give up, don't be too obsessed with a person, no matter what you love at the beginning, time will make you forget everything.

The fire of your hatred burns your own energy, your own life, your own happiness. Of course, it's hard to get out, but for your own sake, you have to force yourself to come out and live a wonderful and unique life, to show the person you hate! Cultivate some healthy hobbies that are beneficial to the body and mind, whether it is swimming, walking, mountaineering, traveling, calligraphy, photography, dancing, planting flowers, in short, there are one or two things you like to do and are willing to do, so that you can devote yourself to it, enjoy the happiness, and adjust your mentality.

When you let go, you naturally let go; When you put hatred in a conspicuous corner and constantly remind yourself to let go, then you will always wear yourself out with the cross.

Living in a different place for a while, or traveling to other places, try not to think about those people or things, find something to distract yourself, although it is difficult, but everything has to be done step by step, and you must learn to let go slowly.

Think about the fact that hatred will not bring you and the people who love you well, but will affect your life, and the new life is what you have to do to make yourself and your lover live freely and happily.

Empty yourself. Think more about the good things. If you can't let go, you will only be unable to get along with yourself. Go out with your friends. Time is the best medicine.

Don't think about it, look for new hope.

It's the hatred of love! Why bother?

Let go of everything and hit me in harmony.

The issue of living expenses can go through the legal process! You don't have to hate him! He's not worth your hatred! You should let go of the past! Find your true love! Life goes on! You still have a long way to go! Children also need a complete home!

This kind of problem is troublesome, but be optimistic.

Consult with him first; sooner or later he will have a showdown with his wife; So make sure that the conflict between you and his wife is not too big, and you have to settle the matter.

If he doesn't compromise, he can apply for monthly alimony through the law.

Asking for comfort? Or do you want to find a way? The road has to be walked by itself, and the road you have to face by yourself. The one on the neck is not a night pot, don't do anything to be happy for a while, think about it and do it again.

Make yourself strong and raise your children by your own efforts. It's useless to hate him and wait for money to live, so it's better to rely on yourself. The best thing for yourself and the greatest punishment for that man is to leave him...

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun. Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

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True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is the ...... you have everythingPlease love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless ...... wellNo one can say anything about love, but one thing I can be sure of, because this incident is my personal experience, love can make you do anything for each other, say anything, love is to give unconditionally for each other, do anything to do meaningful things! Even one person will not be alone!

Answer hello, I have seen your question, let me answer it below, if you want to let go of your hatred for a person, you can only slowly dilute it over time, and suddenly two people who are separated, especially the one who pays more emotionally, feel extremely painful It is very normal, and now it is impossible for you to empathize with each other at this time, the best way is to do something you like to do and enrich your hobbies, Slowly you will find that that person is not that important in your life.

Asking questions is not ruthless between couples.

I am a married mother, I was a child abandoned by my biological parents before answering pro, whether it is hatred between lovers or not, the so-called letting go is happiness, others can not replace you, since you can't change this fact, you can only adjust your mentality.

To be angry is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others, and the same is true for hate.

Amitabha, donor change the environment!

Find a boyfriend who can talk to you and make you happy every day.

Only Old Man Time can help you! It's not that the writing on the blackboard says erase it and it won't be gone, will you not want to? Let time fade away your pain, that's the only way!

Love Him Again Hate a person before you hate yourself Love someone first love yourself First.

Change a group of friends to make friends, change the environment and be stupid.

Someone else's hatred for themselves? You can't change others, you can only change yourself, maybe he sees that you are not doing well, and he is not happy, so that he can give up his hatred for you, but do you feel the need? You must live a wonderful life and be very happy, then he will hate you more, then let him hate, mature people will figure it out for themselves.

Write down the things that hurt you and helped or moved you, be sure to think calmly and objectively, and then compare, and if he has done you more than hurt you, please give up hating him.

Learn to forget, learn to turn a blind eye, spend more time with friends and family, and just want to be happy.

To give up hatred, you can only rely on time, and time can dilute everything!

So try to love everybody and discover the beauty around you, the goodness of the people around you.

The best way to do this is to make him aware of the inconsistencies that come with hatred!

Let him have something else that attracts him, and time can forget everything.

Be loyal to each other and don't ...... as if you owe you millions

Think more about a person's goodness and think differently to move him.

With time, no matter how deep the hatred is, it can be resolved.

Just let him not remember.

It's easy to give up, but it takes courage to really give up.

Let go of everything to be happy.

Some hatred cannot be forgotten.

It is right for you to think about how to take revenge, and in the words of Confucius, to repay grievances directly. Punish with an open attitude.

Isn't it uncomfortable for you to look up at the sun and open your eyes wide on a hot day?

Hatred can be forgotten slowly.

You don't have to hate him for the rest of your life.

You can try to make friends with some optimistic people.