What can I do to give up? How do you let yourself die fast?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-03
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Life is actually very flavorful, and it depends on what kind of flavor you taste.

    But you won't always be able to taste the same taste.

    Whether it's bitter or sweet, there's always a time to change the taste.

    It's the same with people, what does it taste like to you?

    It's not just a taste, it's a matter of how you taste it.

    Everyone has a good side and a bad side.

    And then there's the fact that he's like that to you, but he's different to somebody else, and it's the same thing, and it's different because of the person.

    You actually have a place to communicate, and it makes you feel good about each other, and you still have a lot of things that you can't get along with, and you don't change yourself a lot of the time.

    Or work for the other person's goals.

    I don't know what love is, but at least there is still to be a minimum of giving.

    It's not about giving something in return, you know.

    The above is to advise you to reconcile.

    Let's talk about something else.

    Have you ever wondered why you always don't get together and then worry about each other for a while?

    There's a saying that I don't know if you've ever heard of falling in love with someone because of their strengths, but you have to live with his shortcomings for the rest of your life.

    I don't know how old you are, but I don't think you're going to be big.

    Give it up, it's a pity, don't give up, hateful.

    In fact, this is an important memory in your life.

    He will hurt you.

    You'll also be lost.

    But it's just a drama in your life.

    He makes you know the good of men and the bad of men.

    In the future, you will meet the man who will marry you.

    At that time, you will know what it is that you are worthy of the man in this life.

    Then you will know what happiness is.

    How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain???

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You ......I don't want to die, and it's useless for others to do anything.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    1. Erase all items with his memories.

    People always like to associate with a person, from a flower, a pen, a book to associate with a person, a love or a sweet memory, but if you want to make yourself dead to a person, then you need to clear all the items about his memory, I believe that the object will convey a person's feelings, if you want to die, just throw it away.

    2. Divert your attention and consume your energy.

    Don't pay attention to him every day, when you want to die to him, what you need to do is to divert your attention, if you are energetic, go find something to consume your energy, when you are tired to the extreme, the first thing is to sleep, and there will rarely be sleepless nights.

    Quietly think about other people's time. Sports, travel, and certification are all good.

    3. Don't deliberately remember or forget.

    Don't deliberately want to let yourself forget or deliberately recall the good things in the past, no matter how beautiful it was, deliberate forgetting will always make you remember it deliberately, and deliberate memories will always make you deepen your memory of him over and over again. It's better to forget about each other.

    4. Believe in the magic of time, it will make the intensity fade.

    Time is a very magical thing, I can't remember some memories of kindergarten, elementary school, junior high school and high school, and occasionally the memory of college is not very clear, that is, no matter how strong the love is, with the passage of time, it will slowly fade until it ends up becoming a beautiful thing in the heart.

    5. Write down your inner feelings when you can't die.

    When you feel that you are particularly unwilling and unwilling, write down your innermost feelings on paper or on the computer, sort them out one by one, pay attention to the reasons for your unwillingness in the process of combing, and list them one by one until you are calm.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If that person doesn't choose you and feel unhappy, it's because you think you're not good enough in his eyes, why do you think you're not good enough, it's because there is comparison, people have been instilled since childhood that everything is better, and bad is rubbish. When you get rid of this "better" concept, you will naturally let go of this knot. Maybe you will think that if he doesn't choose me, the meaning of my life will be gone, and I will spend my whole life on the choice of the object, which is really worth the loss, you know, if the two are really together, it is inevitable that the two will have differences of opinion and quarrels.

    Observe the love life of the two couples and you will understand.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you find that the girl you like doesn't like you, it's best to get out of it early and die for her quickly.

    1. Ignore it for a while

    When we like someone, your whole person's aura will change significantly, and your heart will be full of motivation, so it is not recommended that you suppress your liking here, and if you stop liking someone, be careful that things will be reversed, and if you stop liking someone, you may fall deeper and deeper in the end.

    In fact, it's good to like this kind of thing and go with the flow, because no matter what, there is a period of freshness, and after the freshness is over, you will naturally feel that it is not interesting, if you ignore the person you like, after a while, your liking for her will naturally fade, so it is naturally the best.

    2. Focus on improving yourself

    If you want to not hurt yourself in a relationship, you can only make others hurt. You can let go of your liking for girls first, do something that can improve yourself, divert your attention, and later you will find that you actually don't like her that much. And after your own efforts during this time, there has been a qualitative improvement, maybe girls have begun to like you, at this time you actually have more choices, it depends on how you choose.

    3. See her bad side

    We like someone, it must be because she has a lot of good qualities in her, so you can't help but like her. In fact, everyone has a bad side, but you haven't seen it yet.

    4. Cultivate hobbies

    Liking someone is a liking, and doing what you like is also a liking, and the two are not in conflict. When you are ready to stop liking someone, the best way is to develop hobbies, take what you like when you like someone, and gradually, you will forget about liking her.

    Fifth, do not open new feelings

    We don't recommend starting a new relationship, trying to use other girls to divert your liking for her, this will only hurt an innocent person who likes you, and it is also a kind of torture for yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. Live your own life and learn to "let go" of yourself

    Each of us should not come into this world for anyone, we are independent individuals, and we all exist to pursue our own happiness and future. Even the love that makes us hurt and cry only exists to make life more exciting.

    So don't get along with yourself, sometimes a person can't get happiness in his whole life not because he is too unlucky, but because he can't let himself go. We have to go through more or less setbacks in our lives, when we face those emotional setbacks.

    We must learn to comfort ourselves, don't want what doesn't belong to us, and leave it behind if it affects our lives. Just like love, if you are already separated, then let it go, and let yourself live happily is the true meaning of life.

    2. Try to start the next sweet love and make the past a good memory

    Those who can't let go of the past, and those who can't completely die, even if the other half has left, and the last love has gradually drifted apart, they still refuse to let go, and refuse to meet the next relationship, in the end, they only moved themselves, only adding sadness.

    It's better to give yourself a chance, bravely forget the past, and find the next happy love that belongs to you. Time is always so cruel.

    Even if you don't let go, those lapsed time is a reminder that that person has been away from you for a long, long time. So you don't dwell on the past anymore, and the best way to completely die is to start the next relationship.

    3. Try to mention him in front of others, and be brave enough to forget it completely

    There are many ways to forget about a person, but there is one that is the least useful, and that is to escape. Many people, after not loving that person, choose to let themselves escape from the past by not mentioning him.

    But this will only make you evade and not be able to mention it, and the more you can't forget. It's like a chasm, if you don't try bravely and run away, you will never be able to cross it.

    The same is true of love, if you are sure that you don't love him anymore, then you mention him like an ordinary friend, and when you chat with your friend, you will naturally talk about him, and be brave enough to mention that person, so that you can completely forget the past and completely die.

    Love. In fact, love is not absolutely fair, you give your sincerity, and you can only get your sincerity back if you give it to the person who loves you.

    If you love the wrong person, even if you give everything for him, it will be a waste in the end. So if you want to completely die and forget someone, you must first learn to see through love and let go of yourself.

    The feeling of not being able to love is really painful, and it is also painful to forget the previous relationship and start a new relationship, but love is like this, if it is suitable, it will be together, and if it is not suitable, it will not be able to maintain the relationship.

    So if you don't love it, don't force yourself anymore, and reluctance to cling to your last relationship is not only cruel to yourself, but also unfair to your ex. Maybe your ex has forgotten about you a long time ago, and what he wants to see is that you start another new life and find your own happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People are emotional animals, and it is indeed not easy to instantly die to a person who has been liked for a long time. There are a few suggestions, though

    First, try to find a new relationship.

    Everyone has characteristics that no one else can replace, and thinking about the next person is what you are really looking for.

    Second, distract yourself by finding things that interest you but haven't been able to do.

    Third, if there are conditions, it is also a very good way to travel and relax.

    Fourth, try to find out why the other person has made you so sad or feels that the other person is not worth the relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, calm yourself down, think about what you should do now, and if you see him again, you have to say to yourself in your heart: He is not the same person he used to be, he doesn't love you, you die! Over time, the feelings will slowly fade away!

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