What should I do if I feel that no one understands me?

After reading your story, I don't know what I'm feeling in my heart, and I don't know how I can help you! I can only let me think from your point of view, if I were you, I would give up completely, although it hurts, but the pain will pass. You don't have an ending, it's really wrong from the beginning!

I don't think he's worth it at all for you to be with him, from the beginning. He is very attentive and possessive. He wants to have two women at the same time.

At the beginning, he should have chosen only one, and then broke up and reconciled, or wanted to continue to possess you, but you could only have him with others. Why bother, there are other men you deserve to love! Really, even if he's beating **, I hope you will be decisive, ruthless, and broken!

Sister, don't be stupid, never be a third party, it's only yourself who gets hurt like that.

When people are feeling down, they need comfort.

It's the same for men and women.

When two people with the same experience talk to each other, it is easiest to have a common topic, that is, a common denominator.

At this time, the psychological defense line is easy to break.

Life is just a process.

Hopefully, this event will be a painful and helpful memory for you.

It's over, it's over.

Learn to decompress yourself.

Try to live a little more chic.

I think this problem should be looked at in several aspects, first of all, everyone should have a side that others don't understand, and of course, there are times when you don't understand others. It's like when you read a book, there are liberal arts and sciences, and everyone has a different way of thinking about things and things. Therefore, when you always feel that others do not understand you, first look at whether you are at work, or at home, at work, maybe it is normal to not be understood because of the way you do things, what you need to learn is how to communicate with them, of course, it also depends on your position in the company, different positions, different roles, first position yourself clearly.

If it is at home, there may be differences in values between parents and couples and they are not understood, which is also normal, and it is still necessary to communicate, even if it is not possible to achieve absolute understanding and recognition, at least find a way to communicate normally with each other. Of course, you don't have to worry too much about others not understanding, different people have different pursuits, just like carnivorism can't understand vegetarianism, but in fact, you can coexist peacefully. People living in this society are a group, so they are destined to communicate and exchange in interpersonal relationships and integrate into society through various ways.

You feel that others don't understand and don't understand you, but in fact, the root cause is that everyone grows up in a different environment and subjective values. Perhaps it is your subjective consciousness that it is difficult to gain the approval of others, which triggers anxiety in your heart. In this case, it is more important to self-reflect, in this way, to deeply understand oneself, and to correct it in time, so as to integrate into society.

In this world, don't say that others don't understand us, in fact, we don't fully understand ourselves. Sometimes our self-knowledge can be very different from what others know about us, and sometimes it can be very different. What's more, when we look at ourselves, how can we understand others?

The essence of human beings is loneliness. This cannot be changed, no matter how many friends there are, no matter how lively the day is, in the dead of night, this loneliness will swarm in. Therefore, whether others understand us or not may need to be dependent.

In fact, life always has to go through some ups and downs and twists and turns! Is there a saying you haven't heard? Happy to you, the sun rises as it is!

The sun goes down even if you're not happy! So there are some things we can't do anything about! There's no way to change it!

Only change yourself! Because we're alive! It's not a one-man business to be alive!

That's life is life! Learn to talk! Speak of your sorrows and joys!

Extremely anxious to face the problem! It's good to be optimistic about life.

Learn to understand yourself, slowly understand others, no one wants to suffer every day, do radical things is also to get rid of troubles, let yourself live happily, everyone has their own thoughts, don't blame anyone, happiness is your own struggle, setbacks make you mature faster than others.

I think you really need to adjust your mentality, it's normal for no one to understand yourself and you don't feel the same thing in the world, so it's better for us to face it with optimism.

There is a saying that is very good, there is no empathy in the world, so we should also adjust our mentality and not care too much, so that life can be easy.

This is very normal, you must adjust your mentality, learn to enjoy solitude, and when others don't understand you, you can do your own thing.

You must adjust your mentality and make yourself understand that life is lonely, and even if no one understands, you should work hard.

Let yourself digest slowly, find a reliable person to talk to, and at the same time, you can also talk to your mother and let her give her advice.

There's no need to care too much about other people's opinions, you just need to be yourself and make yourself better.

It is normal to understand that no one understands, there are so many people in the world, it is impossible for all of them to be understood.

Then you have to think about it yourself, and if not, then you have to go out and take a walk and see how other people live.

Recently, netizens said:

At first, I would get angry and want to go back, but now I understand that not being understood is the normal way to get along with the world. I go out early and return late every day, get off work at night, and there is no bus in the manuscript oak, and I have to stay up late to do **.

I humbly look up to the lives of many people, but I know that in the life of not being understood, I know too well. I have to be more determined about the path I want to take.

There were times when I wondered what I was going to do with it.

Later I understood. People who understand you don't need to explain, and people who don't understand, explanations are useless.

In life, you must be bold and careful, and thick-skinned. If you lose your temper because of someone's words, then your heart is actually following the words of others. It's stupid to entrust your happiness to someone else's casual word.

The existence of any relationship and the existence of a marriage is because two people are happy and willing! Whether it is a relationship or a marriage, it is a matter of two people. It's like a doubles match where two people work together, and if one of them gives up, the other team won't be able to win the match, no matter how hard they try!

You can never wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep, and you can never get back someone who decides to leave!

In this world, every moment and every second, there are two people who decide to be together, and at the same time, there are two people who decide to separate. So, how do you do when you face a breakup?

When I was with her, I never thought that one day we would break up. Although we occasionally quarrel, when she sent me a WeChat message saying that she wanted to break up, I still couldn't accept it. So she changed, went to her place of work every day to wait for her, called her every day, sent her WeChat, until, she blocked my ** WeChat also.

Even though she told me the reason for the breakup very clearly, I still went to the unit every day to wait for her. Until, she changed her job, changed her mobile phone number and ***, and completely disappeared from my world. Now that I think about it, that would be too young!

Therefore, I can't accept the hurt caused by the breakup. "This is a sign of immaturity, immature feelings, and it will not end well in the end.

He and I used to fantasize about what the wedding would look like, and we discussed how many children we were going to have, and we even thought of the names of the children. has been in a long-distance relationship for three years, and the saved train tickets are several meters away. However, our relationship was ultimately defeated by a long-distance relationship.

He said that there was a girl next to him who had been chasing him for three years, and he really couldn't bear to hurt her! So, choose to hurt me! I couldn't believe it was all true, so, pestering it all the time!

I kept calling him, and I sent him a large WeChat message, looking forward to recalling his love for me with the beauty of the past. Every weekend, I would take the train to find him and even yelled at him downstairs in his dorm. However, all that I did did not bring back his heart.

Instead, he witnessed that he and her walked together more firmly. I'm too good to him, so the entanglement after the breakup is actually just my own unwillingness! Looking back on all this now, I just feel that I was so stupid at the beginning!

The person who can say the breakup, his heart can't be kept for a long time! I couldn't help but sigh, such a girl is really stupid.

If you break up, don't dwell on it anymore! Any form of entanglement is actually unacceptable! Because, if you are willing to break up with you, his heart will not be with you for a long time!

The entanglement after the breakup seems to me to be a recovery of lost self-esteem, but in the eyes of others, it is nothing more than disgusting behaviors and actions! In this world, everyone has the right to love, and at the same time, everyone also has the right to give up love! Perhaps, he once regarded you as a jewel, maybe, he once swore an alliance with you, perhaps, he once sheltered you from the wind and rain!

However, after the breakup, don't dwell on it anymore! Because, everything is not worth it.

There is no one around you who understands you, understands your desire to speak, few women will tell you the truth, to understand you, what you need is to make the people around you feel that you need to be understood.

Sometimes I feel that there is no one to rely on, no one cares about my feelings, no one cares about no one to love, at this time I have to do what I need to do is to love myself, give myself the best, and put my feelings first.

Yes, especially the older I get, the more I feel that no one understands and I don't bother to explain.

I've long been used to this kind of thing.