If your future mother in law is cold to you, will you choose to break up with your boyfriend?

Break up resolutely! Don't hesitate! Of course, first you have to find out if his mother is just like this to you, or if she just has this temper.

If, as you expected, your married life will be very difficult, not only for you, but also for your husband and his mother himself who are caught in the middle.

This kind of thing often happens in reality!! You're going to change your mother-in-law's opinion of you with your boyfriend!! There are some things to be paid attention to in some way!

Your boyfriend mentions your good in front of his mom!! You have to make some effort too!! Let's make an effort for happiness to increase power!

Your boyfriend's family is a single parent, why can't you live alone when you get married!!

Compare your heart to your heart, get along with your heart, and I believe it will be good after a long time.

Indeed, if you work hard, you will definitely be able to conquer it, after all, she still loves her son.

Try to see if you can change it, Chen Yufan's wife Bai Xue was also in such a situation when she met for the first time, but after understanding, it changed, happiness is to fight for yourself, you and your husband's happy life must have the support of your mother-in-law, otherwise everyone will be unhappy in the future, I wish you success and a happy life.

Has your boyfriend ever had a girlfriend before, and if so, it's probably because his mom likes the previous one so she doesn't like you, or maybe your mother-in-law has a weird temper? The performance is so obvious, have you told your boyfriend, this is very unfair to you, you don't break up in this matter, you can communicate, it is your boyfriend who has been with you for a lifetime, and you must have advantages, play your good side, maybe it will change you, and slowly accept you.

Directly told his mother-in-law that he would not break up with his boyfriend, and that he would definitely go together, and that he would have a happy family and his lovely children.

No matter how much you convince her, it's useless, and you can't change her opinion of you, even if you insist on being together in the future, it won't be good to you, and it will make you have endless grievances.

I think you can have an honest conversation with her and let her know that you like her son very much, and also tell her that you are very happy together.

I like your son. I think the two of us are a good match. If you have to stop us, I don't care. I must make you my mother-in-law.

In fact, there is no way to convince such a situation, and the most important thing is that you need your boyfriend and friend to communicate.

Marriage is a matter of 2 people and 2 families, dealing with this ordinary general man's emotional intelligence and emotional intelligence endurance is not enough, if the man's emotional intelligence is particularly excellent, loves you, and is very good to you, then contact more, it will take a long time, and then consider.

This is a relatively real problem, and it cannot be avoided as long as you get married; It's just that there may be some people who have the same situation as you, but choose to keep it in their hearts and not say it, and you are declaring this confusion in your mouth.

Let me share some of my observations. <

If you were able to ask this question and ask for help, then I guess it was probably for the following reasons:

1. You and your future mother-in-law have gotten along badly, and the marriage date between you and your boyfriend may have been put on the agenda; In such a situation, you need to be able to make a decision right away whether to marry or not.

2. You are a person who pays more attention to your own feelings, and you have keenly felt your emotions towards your future mother-in-law, and you feel that the emotions of "dislike" are not good; I was worried that it would be difficult to get along with my mother-in-law in the future, so I asked such a question. <

But girl, why haven't I seen your description of your boyfriend? What is your boyfriend's attitude towards your relationship with your future mother-in-law? For example:

If you had an argument with your future mother-in-law, how would your boyfriend deal with it? In the case of your future mother-in-law deliberately finding fault, how did your boyfriend deal with it? Or how does your boyfriend deal with your vexatious situation?

You must know that although you marry a person, you actually have to have contact with the entire family behind him; So the attitude of the in-laws, uncles, and sisters-in-law is very important.

But the most important thing is only your boyfriend; His attitude and his maintenance of you is the key to whether you can be happy after marriage.

So, I don't think what you should be thinking about at the moment is the future mother-in-law's business; Instead, you should think about it, if you break up because you hate your future mother-in-law, will you feel sad and reluctant?

Also think about it, if you break up, if you don't find a suitable boyfriend for a long time in the future, will you regret the decision to break up now?

If you think these questions through, then you will naturally find the answers.

Dear, remember to like it after reading the answer before leaving.

My husband treats me well, but if everything can go back to before I got married again, and I can have the current view of life, then I probably won't marry him, because they have wonderful in-laws and sisters-in-law.