How can I get the respect and love of my husband, and how can I get the respect of my lover?

You can express your own thoughts, accomplish things by yourself that don't need the help of others, give your love, and he will return it to you.

Most men like the new and hate the old, dress themselves up to look good, the husband likes it very much, but a lot of it depends on the quality of the man.

To get the respect and love of others, the premise is that you also have to give your sincerity!

First of all, respect him and love him. Others are your mirrors, as you do to him, he does to you.

The person I gave the most affection to was my first love, and I decided to leave her because she didn't respect my love and didn't save me face. Every love has a starting point, and the starting point is divided into two stages: the first stage is that both parties are single, and the second stage is that both parties have intersected.

The Changnajan stage, where both parties are single, involves respect that refers more to respect for oneself. Respect for oneself, the first thing to mention is to be responsible for oneself, to know how to love oneself, to cherish one's body, to cherish one's soul, but also to know how to manage oneself.

1. Respect is the foundation.

Although this metaphor is not appropriate, the truth is the same, you can't keep yourself in the original form, you need to change and make changes on the basis of respecting yourself. If two people can have respect for themselves when they are single, it will naturally be a wonderful thing to meet each other. Two people know how to respect themselves and each other, and for both of them, they have gained respect and be respected, which can naturally accelerate the beginning of love.

The respect involved in love cannot just be used to open the door to love, after the love begins, both parties should let the respect continue, and two people should still respect themselves and respect each other at the same time. Always treat respect as the premise of love, two people can avoid many problems in the process of falling in love, and even if there is a problem, let respect go first, it can be solved quickly. Let's take a quarrel as an example!

But if one of the two people doesn't know how to respect, he will not choose what to say when he quarrels, and he should be right about things and not people, but he has invisibly become wrong for people. And if two people know how to respect each other, and they are not right about each other, quarreling in order to solve the problem will not affect the progress of love.

Women are different, women will love because they see men's excellent morality, and will decide whether to stay together for a lifetime in the process of further understanding, women pay attention to whether a man is responsible, whether it is a potential stock or has potential value, and whether a man's potential will gradually become the most appreciated family wealth in the future. That is to say: a woman will marry because of a man's excellent potential, and will discover the potential value of a man's excellent qualities and entrust her for life.

Men will be short-sighted to the beauty in front of them, while women will look forward to the future beauty, and this is where men and women complement each other and there is a difference between men and women. Therefore, men are born to exist for women, and women are born to want to successfully control their men. Especially after marriage, a man's behavior will be subtly influenced by his wife to a large extent, and a man who can make his husband obedient and obedient and can care about his wife is usually impressed by his wife's potential ability to control her husband.

1. The husband cares very much about his wife's attitude towards his in-laws, especially in front of his in-laws, he must not show his nobility, let alone look down on the male family, and he cannot have the slightest neglect and disrespect for his elders.

2. A man can tolerate his wife's unreasonableness, but he will never tolerate his wife's unkindness, therefore, a woman at home can be arrogant or even unreasonable, but after going out, you must remember to behave like a lady.

3. Men hope that they are willing to marry the best women in the world, so no matter how busy you are at work, don't forget to take care of your family responsibilities, especially if you can't snub your husband and ignore your children.

4. Men have a good face, and always hope that their wives can remember to save enough face for themselves in public, and it is best to be able to obey her husband outside, only promise, do not resist, and never bring the habits of the family to outsiders.

6. You can ask your husband to hand in your salary card, or you can ask your husband to truthfully report where the money went, or even use the accounting system, but you should first give your husband a reserve money, if your husband has no money in his pocket, the embarrassment will be yourself.

7. Remember to give your credit card to your husband before going out shopping and dining, and he can queue up to pay after you shop or consume, which can not only give you more time to rest, but also save the face of the head of your husband's family.

8. Remember not to complain about your father-in-law and mother-in-law in front of outsiders, it seems that you are very uneducated, and don't expect your husband to sing and harmonize with you, because he will never say anything bad about his mother, and men don't want to have family conflicts.

9. Don't habitually reprimand your husband in front of your children, and don't tamper with or deny your husband's methods and conversations in front of your children, which will not only fail to make you establish your due authority, but will make you even more authoritative.

10. Although you are a very assertive wife, you should remember to ask your husband's opinion first in dealing with major family issues.

When you meet an "accusatory" husband, do you need to swallow your anger? See through these 3 points and make him respect you.

The premise of making the other party value themselves is to learn to value themselves. The other party can attach importance to you, it must be because they are willing to communicate with you, they are willing to get along with you, and you can create a harmonious and tacit space for getting along. When the other person can get satisfaction in you, he will be motivated to give you.

If you only have a sense of dependence, you only get emotional, you only complain, you only get angry, you always show the worst side, you lack independence and assertiveness, you become unattractive, how can he value you?

Some time ago, I shared an e-book, "25 Ways to Respect Your Husband", with a sister, but she never had time to read it.

Last Saturday, she made a pot of porridge for her husband for breakfast, but her husband disliked that his porridge was too thick, because her husband liked to drink thinner porridge, so she got angry with her husband and ran away from home in the cold war. When she was quiet, she suddenly remembered this e-book and opened it.

In the recommended preface, there are two points that particularly touched her. What is respect?

One, deeply admiring someone for their abilities, character, or accomplishments.

Second, give the other person due importance because of their rights, expectations, feelings, or traditions.

She realized that she was in point 2 and that she should respect her husband's traditions. It's that the husband is used to drinking a little thinner porridge.

Chapter 1 of the text says that the wife should be happy, and that the mood of the wife at home affects the tone of the whole family, so she decides not to be angry with her husband anymore, but to return home with a joyful attitude, so that she and her husband are reconciled again.

There happened to be a meeting at their house on Monday night, and in the group this sister shared his testimony, and his sharing happened to help the other Liquid Ran sisters as well.

Truly, "all things work together for good to those who love God." ”

1. Treat him as a friend, do too much to his friends, and do less to his husband 2. Respect his consciousness, don't impose your own consciousness on him too much, make decisions for him, oppose his decisions, etc.

3Treat him as a man, and let him carry all burdens, but enjoy himself, and share with him through thick and thin.4Respect his parents as well as your own.

5. He should also point out his major mistakes in time, and he can't be strict just because he is a husband. Otherwise you'll just ruin him.

Give him more confidence especially in front of his friends.

There's no rule to it. Husbands and wives are equal and should respect each other.

deliberately thinks about respecting her husband, but it seems very blunt.

It's perfect to respect and love each other.

.First of all, you must respect yourself in order to gain the respect and recognition of others, as a relatively weak party in the relationship between husband and wife, ,..

2.To maintain their independence, especially when it comes to money, women need to have the ability to make money if they want to be respected and recognized by their husbands, ,..

3.Treat each other with respect. It doesn't matter if your personality is strong or weak, and it doesn't matter if you earn more or less than your husband,..

4.To maintain the charm of their appearance, women still need to care about their appearance, such as dressing up, putting on makeup, doing hair, and so ,..on

5.Be able to keep the same frequency as your husband, such as things at work, you can help each other come up with ideas, and you can also have a good one.

If you see him as better than yourself and better than others in everything, you will naturally respect him!