Impulses are the devil, how to recognize impulses correctly?

There are two sides to everything. Impulse is the devil, in most cases, impulse does more harm than good, but in specific circumstances and conditions, impulse also has a good side, on the battlefield can make people show heroism, not afraid of sacrifice, dare to do things that they can't (dare) usually.

Impulsiveness is a sign of immaturity, and we should strengthen our own cultural knowledge and quality cultivation. Analyzing and thinking about a problem correctly requires a wealth of cultural knowledge. The more knowledgeable a person is, the more perfect his moral self-consciousness and the greater his ability to restrain his emotional impulses.

The so-called impulsiveness refers to a psychological characteristic of a person's emotional expression that is strong, unstable, and easily excited, and prone to hostile emotions and aggressive behaviors. In fact, reasonable guidance can still provide motivation for yourself.

Try to restrain yourself. Impulsiveness, innate, everyone will have impulses, as long as the conditions are met, they will induce the "devil" to appear to dominate their thinking and judgment, such as emotional agitation, loss of rationality, etc. are manifestations of impulsiveness.

Impulsive emotions can be transferred. When you are impulsive, try your best to think about happy things, or listen to light **, look at interesting calligraphy and paintings, read beautiful poems, sing your favorite songs, or participate in some group activities, so that the excited state of the cerebral cortex tends to be calm, and finally achieve the purpose of restraining impulses.

When impulsive, people tend to lose their minds and make wrong judgments, wait for their minds to calm down, empathize, put themselves in other people's shoes, and then come up with a solution to the problem, the effect is very different!

Impulsiveness is the devil, and that's true. People who are emotionally impulsive are prone to conflicts when interacting with others, and the factors that cause conflicts are mostly because of some trivial things, such as quarrels in the light case and fists and kicks in the heavy.

Impulsive people, narrow-minded, and tantrums. When angry, it can cause excessive mental tension and cause dysfunction of the heart, gastrointestinal and secretory systems. Over time, it can cause a variety of diseases, which is extremely detrimental to physical and mental health.

When encountering people or things that you are dissatisfied with, you must learn to "endure it" first and use the buffer method to control the anger in your heart. As the saying goes: "Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky." ”

Some people usually behave well in the world and work well, but because they are short-tempered and not good at accepting criticism from others, after a long time, they will leave an impression that they are difficult to get along with, which will affect their future growth and progress.

In the impression of the vast majority of people, acting impulsively often leads to mistakes due to loss of reason. But for me, I avoided making mistakes because of impulsiveness, which benefited me. Here's how it worked.

I think I wanted to buy a camera. It looks like I chose a regular camera. But when I went to the merchant to buy it, I found that there was only one camera left.

I want the merchant to reduce the price. But merchants are reluctant to cut prices. So I decided not to buy it on the spur of the moment.

This incident led me to eventually embark on the path of photography using a single cherry blossom anti-camera. In this case, my impulse led me to the right choice. It's because I've set clear goals for myself.

Never compromise when goals are not reached. And I firmly believe that it will not be for these three reasons. First.

I set clear goals for myself when I do things. The reason why I acted impulsively in this matter but benefited from it was because I set clear goals for myself when I did it. It is with this goal in mind that I am taking action.

Because you have a clear goal, you have a very clear idea of what to do and what not to do? Therefore, although he is impulsive in specific actions. But it did not harm its own interests.

On the contrary, they benefit from it. Second. When you don't achieve the goals you set, you don't compromise.

The most fundamental reason why you act impulsively without losing your interests is that you will never compromise when you do not achieve your goals. At the time, I wasn't too happy with the camera. Therefore, they hope to make up for it by reducing prices, but merchants are unwilling to reduce their prices, and their goals cannot be achieved.

At this time, Cong Sui did not compromise, but firmly set the goal he set, and the goal remained unchanged. That's why I benefit from it. Third.

In the process of doing things, I have been firm in my belief and will not compromise. Fundamentally, the reason why I acted impulsively in this matter, but on the contrary, benefited from it was because of my firm belief and the result of not compromised. In that case, my goal in mind was actually every professional-level camera, but the goal I set at the beginning was an ordinary camera.

In fact, I am not satisfied with this state. And when the merchant is not willing to talk home. I didn't waver in my own beliefs.

did not settle, but made the choice of the spine Zheng of the main shop. Because of this, although I was really impulsive at the time. But on the contrary, it benefits itself.

This incident shows that when you do things, you must be firm in your beliefs. Be clear about your goals, and that's the only way you can really benefit from them.