My friends always make me embarrassed, and my friends feel a little embarrassed

I don't think you should think too much about it!

How to say it?!In fact, if a friend is in trouble, you should help as a friend!

But now that you say that, it proves that you can't help much with these things, and you can't bear it!

Don't say that you are selfish, in fact, it will be better for the parties to deal with the affairs of the marriage themselves, you are just making a suggestion for her!

Try to do a thought work with your friends first! It is to tell her not to rely too much on others for everything, and her marriage problems should be clearer than others! And you, as a friend, can only give her an opinion.

Or maybe it's to unleash her! If you are too involved in helping her, you can only say that you are nosy in the end! So why bother?

You always have to face everything by yourself to know what you really want!

Hehe, it is recommended that you understand the situation first after you go, and then start criticizing your friends. I don't think your friend and his husband will have any principled conflicts.

When someone is on the fire, you can pour some water on her than it is better to give her oil. Then she felt that she was not polite. And her husband won't be dissatisfied with you, and he has to thank you.

When she gets angry, you're giving her ideas. Once or twice, she won't look for you. And it won't hate you.

Don't go, you go to help, and when they reconcile, what will they think of you? It's normal for people to have a small fight, love is not a war, in case you go to something bad, others will hate you.

Ask your friends why they are having a conflict. If you feel that you can help, go to mediation (let your friend dissipate his anger first, and then go).

It's normal for a small couple to be noisy, it's best not to meddle in such things!

Summary. Friends find it a little difficult, you can say this:

1. It's okay, if it's difficult, I'll think of other ways.

2. It's nothing, so be it, I'm already embarrassed, so I can't embarrass you.

What can I say about my friend feeling a little embarrassed.

Friends feel that it is difficult to have Zaohebo, you can say this: 1. It's okay, if the stool is difficult, I will think of other ways. 2, it's nothing, just shoot the ants, I'm already embarrassed, I can't embarrass you.

How to deal with others who make it difficult for you everywhere.

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You can do this when others are making things difficult for you: First, think calmly about why others are making things difficult for you everywhere, whether it is one person or all of them, or most people. If it is a person, it may be that this person is faulty, or the other party does not like him; If it's all of them, then you need to think about whether Hail Rock really has some problems with itself.

Second, change and make subtle changes. No matter if others embarrass you or you encounter other difficulties, you need to try hard, solve problems as much as possible, change yourself, and continue to be stronger; Third, change the source of the royal environment, whether it is study or work, if you don't go well, change first, and change the way if you can't change. Fourth, keep a calm mind, stay rational, focus on what you need to do, and don't think too much.

But my friend is embarrassed, what can I say?

If a friend embarrasses you, you can do this: first, think about it calmly, if a friend embarrasses you, there may be something wrong with this person, or the other party will not like you; Secondly, Lu Xiaosheng should change and make changes. Third, don't make contact with each other and don't be friends with people who embarrass you.

When I was in college, there was a time when a friend was in trouble and needed money, and although I was not rich at that time, I still gave him most of my living expenses. As a result, I could only eat steamed buns and eat pickles for a long time.

It's not an exaggeration at all, even the cheapest pickles are even bought at that time, and it's already very good to be able to eat a pack of kelp shreds. But in retrospect, I was a little silly at the time, because the difficulties my friend encountered at that time were entirely caused by his own work.

When I was at work, I also encountered a particularly difficult thing, when a friend invited a treat. I was asked to drink at the wine table, but I never drank alcohol, and I didn't even make an exception in the face of the leader. However, that time my friend was really not polite at the wine table, always flaunting that the two of us were very good, and in the end, the whole atmosphere was very embarrassing, so I had no choice but to pick up the wine glass again.

However, this incident had a very serious negative impact on me, and gradually I became estranged from this friend. In fact, if you do something that is particularly difficult for your friend, it can only mean that the other party is not very worried about your dress, and it is not what a responsible adult should do. So in such a situation, it is better to choose a new friend as soon as possible.

For the sake of his friends, he embarrassed his own bad bridge, and the most he did was to lend money to others. I think that's the hardest thing, and I don't want to borrow money. But sometimes there is no way to wait for hungry potatoes.

Eat food you don't like with your friends and go to places you don't like.

Lend money to the other party, knowing that he won't pay it back!

I'm just a good talker, and every time someone says they want me to help, I'll help. But in my heart I actually refuse, maybe because of the relationship between friends, so I will still do it, although it will bring some bad effects to my life.

The most feared thing among friends is to borrow money. Because I don't have much money, when others ask you to borrow, you may say that you don't have money or something at the beginning, but you can't stand the persuasion of your friends, just a few hundred yuan, our friends for so many years, are really in trouble to find you, you can't see death without help, and I will pay you back as soon as I pay your salary, so I will help my brother respond to emergencies, please.

If you say this, you will definitely squeeze and borrow the money you have left, anyway, I think he will pay it back then. But after a while, my life couldn't go on, and I remembered these hundreds of dollars. At this time, it will be difficult for you to find him to pay back.

He will say what are you anxious about, hasn't it only been more than a month, and my salary has other uses. After a while, when you look for him again, you will either continue to shirk or you will not answer, send messages and not reply, and you will not find others.

At this time, you will find that borrowing money and repaying money are not the same attitude at all, and when you borrow money, I talk about feelings with you, and say that I help my brother. When you ask him when he will repay the money, his attitude changes 180 degrees, and he borrows your money, but it seems that he is more ruthless than you speak.

Therefore, I think it is the most difficult to borrow money from friends, and if you don't handle it carefully, not only will the money not come back, but even your friends will not be able to do it.

1.Because of my friends, I'm afraid of social software, and I'm afraid of updating my friends.

I earn more than 10,000 yuan a month, I use luxury goods for cosmetics, drink Starbucks, and wear big brands. A set of clothes, I have no salary for a month, even though I still cry poor every day, saying that I can't save money, saying that I am very short of money;

What other people's family has bought a house, when will she be able to buy a house, other people's husbands are really rich; What mother-in-law bought for her birthday, but her mother-in-law didn't mention it on her birthday.

Because she is small, I can't bear to hurt her, let alone delete her and block her. You can only self-regulate and endure.

2.Because of a friend, I almost hit someone.

I told her she was driving.

She said that she was in a hurry, and she was on the scene of the store and was about to pay.

Then I opened my phone and wanted to click on the link, and suddenly a battery car came, and I hit the road with a quick hit of the steering wheel.

I was scared for a long time, but fortunately no one was injured, so I called the person from the insurance company. Just got out of the car and waited for them to come. The phone rang and I answered:

Why haven't you bargained for me, hey, it's so hard to get you to do me a little favor.

I just had an accident with my car......

Crashed? Why are you so careless, it's really ......It's too late to bargain now, and I already know that I have asked someone else to bargain for me......

Before she finished speaking, she hung up **, and then cried loudly on the road.

This friend slowly faded away from her, because I felt that she didn't treat me as a friend and was more selfish. We are not people of the same world.

It is said that it is easy to walk with more friends, one more friend and one more relationship, and the same as sticking a knife in the ribs for friends, of course, friendship is very important, so I have also done some things that make it very difficult for my son.

This happened when I was in college, and one of my classmates at that time was also my high school classmate, because he didn't get along well with his roommates, he often came to sleep in our dormitory at noon or on weekends, and he was very familiar with our dormitory. In her senior year, she had a boyfriend, and she was often absent from school, and we had a roll call at 10 o'clock at night in the dormitory, so she asked me to help her take the roll call, which made me very embarrassed, so I only ordered it once or twice, and I refused.

What's even more difficult is that I helped revise her graduation **, she wrote the first draft herself and turned it in, so she went to the city to find a boyfriend. Because I am the same ** tutor as her, and I am still a classmate, the first draft was withdrawn and had to be revised, and I was asked to help her revise it. The key is that she can't find the electronic version, and I have to help her revise the printed first draft word by word, and then print it and submit it to the teacher.

Later, thinking about this matter, I was also heartbroken, and I agreed so kindly at that time, but fortunately I was not discovered by the tutor, otherwise my classmate would have been miserable.

It's hard for me to take advantage of too much. It feels like a loan.

She quarreled with another friend of mine and asked me, I can only choose one, who to choose, I don't think there is any need for this, you two quarrel, and I have to choose, hey, people, how can you be so selfish, it's too much.

Summary. Answer: 1. In daily life, you will find some friends with low emotional intelligence, and these friends will embarrass themselves.

In fact, in daily life, we will find that some friends go to people with low emotional intelligence, and because of this, when doing some things, and do not consider their own feelings, so they will also do some for themselves on some occasions.

Answer: 1, in the daily life of the reputation of the congratulatory life, you will find some friends with low emotional intelligence, these friends will embarrass themselves. In fact, in daily life, we will find that some Huisen friends go to people with low emotional intelligence, and because of this, when doing some things, and do not consider their own feelings, so they will also do some for themselves on some occasions.

Can you tell us more about that?

Answer: A real friend is to laugh with you when you are happy, cry with you when you are sad, and stand up when you are most helpless and rely on you, but now people are too realistic, it is not easy to find such a friend, or there can only be one or two in a lifetime, but you want to make good friends.