If my boyfriend doesn t coax me when I cry, should I break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-13
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Your questions are all superficial. The essence is that your love is not equal. The reason for the inequality is that you are all bound by feudal traditional thinking.

    Men enjoy it, women are willing. Although you are psychologically unwilling, subconsciously it is like this. There is hope for change now.

    Learn to get along as equals. Shared burden. Start small and change slowly.

    If you want to change quickly, you can only risk breaking up with him. Threaten him with a breakup. You can first propose that everyone be separated for a period of time, the reason is that he doesn't understand you, and your efforts have not been affirmed and praised, and you are very inferior and tired.

    So you need to calm down and take a break.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's similar to my experience, hurry up and divide it as soon as possible, and you must be ruthless, you must be ruthless, no matter how he begs you, you can't be soft-hearted, if you are soft-hearted, you will regret it, and it will not benefit you at all if you continue like this, there are thousands of men in the world, don't hang yourself on a tree, remember, only reluctant to let go, no can't let go! Life is good after the separation, and if you look at other men and look at him, you will ask yourself how you were so innocent in the first place. I'm done, I hope you think about yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This question. First of all, do you think your boyfriend loves you enough? For example, isn't it very happy to be together in the past.

    Again, your boyfriend is lukewarm to you. Does he do this often or has he started doing it recently? Do you know his inner world well enough?

    These are all questions that you should pay attention to. Switch angles. Are you still being nice to him as always, or are you asking too much of him?

    Wait a minute. Love requires a lot of giving, you have to be clear about your boyfriend's situation, and then do it appropriately.

    I hope my words make you feel better.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The fact that you can ask a question here and not break up immediately shows that he has enough weight in your heart. Now I'm not rooting for you to break up.

    Target. Two people from acquaintance. Intersect. Love. Together now, I've been through so much. It's not like a breakup will make you give up everything.

    Since you feel that you are wronged. You might as well tell your boyfriend about this grievance. Look at his attitude. Is it really to the point where you don't care about your feelings at all?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your boyfriend doesn't understand you at all and cares about your feelings, I don't know if he doesn't care or something else, I suggest you communicate well, if not, you can separate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe he feels tired of being with you, and I think since two people are unhappy together, then why force it?

    There are a thousand possibilities in life.

    Give him up. You deserve better.

    Such a man is not worth your reluctance.

    And I think you can talk to him about breaking up with him.

    Don't show reluctance and hurt.

    Even if you break up, keep your pride and self-esteem.

    Some people say that you should leave your self-esteem behind when it comes to emotional matters, but he is not that person.

    So I have the backbone to say goodbye to him

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't play games for him, my mind is on the game, how can I love you. And don't spoil him too much, men are easy to be spoiled, sometimes people are cheap, the more you care about him, the less you cherish it, you snub him and try it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Oh, yes! After a long time, the feelings are light, in fact, the so-called fade is not cherished, in fact, the feelings are still there, your experience is the same as mine, it is not easy for two people to walk together, don't easily say break up, only know how to cherish after losing, this sentence is true, I used to be the same as your boyfriend, but I am different because I am afraid of girls crying, I feel very guilty, I have been busy with work, neglected to care about her, and now that I have broken up, my heart is vacant! When we were together before, I took care of her in every way, refused all the girls' invitations, and even broke off relations with friends, worked, and wanted to work hard to buy her a house early, but unfortunately people left the tea and cool.

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  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Life is trivial, but it is definitely not one party desperately accommodating the other, so that a lot of unpleasantness will happen, take the focus of your life away from him and turn it towards yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Either have a good talk, or have a big fight, vent and break up. If he decisively agrees, then there is nothing to dwell on, you also said, it's not interesting. If he wants to keep it, then try again together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I must say, yes, but will you divide it? I don't think so, right?

    You can try it again, drive it yourself when it's hot, if you have a car, you shouldn't be able to return it, I think maybe don't buy it first, uh Is it safer to buy an electric car?

    Actually, I don't really understand.,So let's say it.,If more than 1,000 can ensure your safety.,Cheap.,But,More than 1,000 can only make you psychologically safe.,You can consider it.,It's not the point.,I just want to say.,You don't have to let him do everything.,Of course, the big money still has to think deeply.,It has nothing to do with him.,Can't spend a lot of money because you're angry with him.,But,Air conditioning is such a thing.,If you're hot, turn it on yourself.,Look at his reaction.,You can know.,You're in his heart.,Or he's above you.,But if the game is more important than you. , the computer is more important than your safety, the air conditioner is more important than you, and even just playing games is not enough level, he would rather spend a lot of money than spend that money to check your safety, you, you, you are with him because of love, or because

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think that people who are addicted to games every day. Don't really have any hope for a relationship. Things like this and feelings suggest that you can change your lifestyle. It's yourself who doesn't hurt. Feelings are not unrequited love. Remember.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In the relationship, my boyfriend never coaxes me to break up or not, mainly considering these factors.

    The first factor, if you are unreasonable, then there is nothing to properly admit your mistakes, people are mutual! There is no rule that a man must coax a girl, just that as a man, he should be generous to women. After all, women are delicate by nature.

    If it's really the wrong man, and he doesn't make you angry or coax you, you can change him.

    The second factor, when two people get along together, there will definitely be conflicts! As a girl, you feel that your boyfriend should let you, get angry and coax you, and defend you everywhere! But don't do too much as a girlfriend.

    Inexplicably angry, vexatious quarrels, don't want others to coax you! Don't forget, the relationship is maintained by two people. If only one person keeps his head down, he will be tired!

    He's also a young man in his twenties, and I hope you can coax him as a girlfriend! If he's at fault first, you'll chill him for a few days! Calm him down, and he'll coax you!

    The third factor, to be honest, in romantic relationships, most boys are straight men, unless they are experienced veterans who know how to be considerate of their girlfriends. Your boyfriend may not know how to coax you, maybe his inner thoughts are to wait for you to be angry, and then he will get better. As a boyfriend and girlfriend, if one of them is too dependent on the other party, or too ambiguous, it will also cause the other party to be disgusted.

    It's not a big deal, and some things still have to be adapted to slowly.

    The fourth factor is that he may not know that you are angry. If you have any ideas, you have to tell him directly, otherwise he won't know. The guy is very straight and doesn't think much about it.

    Girls are more emotional and will be angry for a long time because of a detail, but boys don't realize it. So tell him directly. If he knows that you are angry and deliberately does not coax you, then he may be really tired.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, you have to break up, because your boyfriend may not have you in his heart at all, so he won't coax you, and living with such a man will not end well.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think you should choose to break up, if he never coaxes you, it may mean that he doesn't care about you at all.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    To break up. Because your boyfriend never coaxes you, it means that he doesn't really love you, so you have to break up.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If a man never takes the initiative for you, but always wants you to make changes for him, then it means that he doesn't love you at all, or just "loves you for a while".

    In fact, girls are a strange and cute animal, girls will say: in our eyes, coaxing and love are really the same, in fact, many times, when I am angry and want you to coax me, I am angry and I want you to coax me, and I want you to coax it is true; And what we want is your seriousness. I just want to know whether my position is important in your heart, when you don't coax me, we will think that you don't love me so much, or you don't love me at all.

    You can't hide loving someone.

    But a person who doesn't like you will definitely not take the initiative to look for you. Because a person who doesn't like you, everything you do is wrong, crying is wrong, laughing is wrong, even breathing may be wrong. You have to know that not all girls will take the initiative, some girls would rather miss than take the initiative, cherish the girl who sticks to you every day, say goodnight to you girl, she will be happy for a long time because of your words.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If in a relationship, if a man has never coaxed you, then I feel that I can break up with the other party, because there is no point in being together, he doesn't know how to coax you, then he must not love you enough, how can a person who loves you not know how to coax you, how can he be willing to make you angry, so I feel that in this case, it is better to get together and disperse, and there is no point in continuing to stay together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In a relationship, your boyfriend never coaxes you, which means that your boyfriend doesn't care about your feelings and your emotional changes at all, even if you are sad, he will not make you happy, so he does not do mutual giving in the relationship, there is no way out of falling in love with such a man, you can only break up with him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you are in a relationship with your boyfriend, your boyfriend never coaxes a girl to be angry, and he doesn't coax me to think it may be that your boyfriend is more straight, and he may not understand the situation of a girl, you should communicate more and communicate more, instead of solving the problem by breaking up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think if the other party disagrees, it is likely that the other party's attitude towards the relationship is not too good, or that you don't pay too much for this relationship, so you can communicate with the other party well, but don't break up easily.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your boyfriend should be such a person, or your boyfriend doesn't know how to coax you, so you must not break up with your boyfriend, you must change your boyfriend, so that your boyfriend can have a better attitude towards you, so that your relationship can get a better warmup.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There should be no breakup. Because some boys don't understand girls' minds at all and don't know how to coax people, but such boys are kind-hearted, so they don't know how to coax me, and it won't be the reason for breaking up.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    For emotional pain, your boyfriend never coaxes you, don't break up with this, you must be sure that the other party is more wooden to the feelings, more shy or not good at expressing it, at this time you should actively communicate with the other party, understand his thoughts, cooperate with his ideas, so that you can manage well, love manages love, and breaking up is not the solution to the problem.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You have to understand that your boyfriend may be such a character, or he doesn't like to take the initiative to coax each other, just because your boyfriend is a particularly straightforward man, so no matter what, you should still be with your boyfriend and let your boyfriend coax you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It only shows that your boyfriend doesn't care about you at all.

    So when your boyfriend quarrels or has a conflict with you, he never coaxes you, which means that he doesn't love you that much.

    To treat a person who does not love himself, then it is better to give up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In the relationship, your boyfriend never coaxes you, I think you should break up, such a boy has a very low sexual IQ, he doesn't know how to bow his head, to tolerate, you won't be happy in the future, so let's break up!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is no need for you to think like this, because your boyfriend has never coaxed you, which means that your boyfriend is originally such a person, that is, he has such a temper and character, you should tolerate your boyfriend, or the two of you try to have as few misunderstandings as possible.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your boyfriend never coaxes you, and I don't think it's necessary to break up in this situation. If your boyfriend is machismo, it's normal for me to coax you, and you should cherish it if you're good to you. But if you think none of that is the case, you can consider breaking up.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In the relationship, my boyfriend never coaxes me, which means that he is a straight man and will not coax others. He never knew how to feel sorry for others. If you don't have a relationship with him, then you can choose to break up with him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    In a relationship, your boyfriend never coaxes you, and it seems that your boyfriend is a straight man. But this kind of straight man doesn't mean that he doesn't like you, he doesn't love you, and it doesn't mean that he doesn't have feelings for you. So don't, because he doesn't coax you.

    You're going to break up with him, so it's a relationship for you. Irresponsible.

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