Why does my boyfriend feel that some problems can not be solved, but I can t sleep if I don t solve

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    <> I think the problem with this situation may be that the boyfriend thinks that those problems are not very important, and then he may feel that it doesn't matter whether they are solved or not, and then you may feel that this matter occupies a large proportion in your mind, or that the status is relatively high, and then I think you may feel that if this thing is not solved, you will feel uncomfortable, you will feel insecure, I think this is a possible situation.

    And then there's a possible reason, maybe it's that you're a little bit obsessive-compulsive, and then your boyfriend may think that those things aren't particularly important. And then you think that it may not matter if you solve it or not, because it may be a very small thing, but if you are a person with obsessive-compulsive disorder, you will really feel that that thing will always be there, and then you will not be able to sleep, you will feel that if you don't solve it, how can you sleep, right, I think it may be that you have a slight obsessive-compulsive disorder, and then you may feel that that thing has to be solved, or if you don't solve it, there is no way to feel at ease, you will keep thinking about that thing, And then I think there is no way to sleep peacefully.,I think the way to overcome such a thing.,It's that you really need to divert your attention.,Don't pay too much attention to this thing in your heart.,And then maybe I think there's something.,Then solve it.,I think it's okay if your boyfriend thinks you can't solve it.,You're not comfortable.,Then you should work hard to solve this matter.,Because after all, it's the most important thing to be comfortable!

    Another is that maybe the two of you have different views, that is, he may think that this thing is not very important, and then you think it is more important, so you have to solve that thing, I think in fact, this is sometimes just a need for you to communicate with him about this matter, you just tell him that if I don't solve it, you can't sleep, I think if he loves you, he will solve this matter for you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The first aspect, I think, these problems you said may be some small problems, I think it's a boy, always open-minded, in my impression, boys are always beating and scolding lively, nothing and don't like to care about this and that, so, boys are very arrogant, and they don't want to take care of these little things, those things that can't get over in your opinion are things that can be trivialized in his opinion, nothing can't be passed, in his opinion, it's all over after a while, so, He doesn't have so many ideas, and he won't care so much about what he should eat and drink, but you, as a sensitive girl, think more about yourself, and then you think too much about trivial things, so it's easy to disagree with your southern friends, so think about the big things first

    Of course, if you really encounter something tricky, he as your southern friend should really help you, you have a problem to solve with him, you can ask him for help seriously, let him realize the seriousness of these things and then let him help you make a move, for you to think of a way, it's okay, of course, if he just doesn't help you, then you don't have to be discouraged, you still have to rely on yourself to be more reliable, just solve it yourself, but with all due respect, is this kind of boyfriend going to stay for the New Year? Your girlfriend won't help you if she has something, so you should think about it carefully

    Anyway, don't be too anxious when you encounter something, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, you can't let things be solved if you are in a hurry, it just makes you unable to sleep, right? So, relax, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, don't you say <>it?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The humorous reply is as follows: 1. If you can't sleep, you can coax me to sleep for more than a year. 2. Without you, I can't sleep in the cave.

    3. If you don't sleep, how can I see you in my dreams. 4, then it's troublesome, Zhou Gong can't find anyone to play chess with him. 5. Then sleep hard.

    6, that can't be helped, I'll go to sleep first, you slowly continue to sleep and can't die.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The humorous reply is as follows:1. If you can't sleep, put me to sleep.

    2. I can't sleep without you.

    3. If you don't sleep, how can I see you in my dreams.

    4, then it's troublesome, Zhou Gong can't find anyone to play chess with him.

    5. Then sleep hard.

    6, that can't be helped, I'll go to sleep first, you slowly continue to fall asleep.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can take your boyfriend to see a doctor and see why he can't sleep. If he thinks too much, tell him not to think too much, but if he has a health problem, he should see a doctor.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Have you ever rejected him in this regard before? Or does he think you won't give it and he's too embarrassed to ask for it? Ordinary boys don't do this, haven't you ever been?

    Could it be that there is something wrong with him, doesn't he feel it when you sleep in his arms? Since we love each other, we still have a chance to ask.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Mutually, you can tell him how you feel, improve the quality in progress, so that it will be better, you might as well try it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can feel your need to guide him; Sometimes men need guidance from women.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Boyfriend and girlfriend should communicate with each other, don't be embarrassed, bless you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Communicate more, and you will sleep well.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think there are too many things for the two of you in the future, and then there is excessive hormone secretion and endocrine disorders!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Watch more educational films.

    About that.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My boyfriend has known me very well for a few months and he said he wanted to sleep with me in his arms for the night. I was a very conservative girl, and I was scared and asked, what do you want to do? He said he really just wanted to sleep with me all night and didn't want to do anything.

    I said yes, I really trusted him, but I was still scared.

    Open the room,We got into the bed.,I saw that he was very excited.,Blushing.,I asked him with a frightened face.,Husband, don't you think.。。。

    He smiled shyly and said, you can rest assured that you can sleep well, and rest assured that I will not do anything.

    We talked for a while and fell asleep. He hugged me quietly, and I felt very steady. We slept until early in the morning. There are few classes in college, so it's 9 o'clock after waking up, so I bought breakfast hand in hand and went back to school.

    I'm grateful to my boyfriend.,Good boys exist.。。 Hey, little pride.

    But this kind of thing can't be said, because the classmates won't believe it.

    Later, I occasionally found a text message from my boyfriend, which he sent to a friend.

    Him: I heard that you have a girlfriend recently, are you okay?

    Friend: It's good haha I've been going in that direction lately... What about you didn't have a girlfriend..?

    He: Hehe, I don't think college will do it, think about protecting her

    Friend: I don't understand you!

    。I'm glad to have such a boyfriend. Hehe.. Don't curse, it's just my own thoughts. Maybe someone doesn't like it. Well. That's it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    hugged it tightly, felt her body temperature for a while and fell asleep.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello! Your case is that your boyfriend is snoring. There are many causes of snoring, and there can be different reasons for the sound of snoring as well as the time of day:

    Mild cases occur only when you are tired, drink alcohol, or sleep on your back. In severe cases, snoring is thunderous at night and never stops, which we call habitual snoring. Some people snore evenly and regularly, with the same high and low voices, and generally without apnea, which is called simple snoring.

    Others are not, with loud and low sounds, intermittent for tens of seconds to minutes, and sometimes terrifying snoring, which is more common in people with sleep apnea.

    Guidance: Since there are many causes of snoring, snoring must also be prescribed according to its symptoms, that is, different snoring has different ways:

    1. First of all, avoid taking some sedative drugs or alcohol, so as not to cause muscle relaxation or increased snoring. 2. Respiratory tract infection should be carried out as soon as possible. 3. If you have diabetes, hypertension, cardiovascular disease and other chronic diseases, you must actively improve your condition.

    4. At present, one of the more commonly used methods is the use of surgery, which is basically divided into three parts: nasal cavity, nasopharynx and soft palate, oropharynx and palatine tonsils.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it's the first time, of course, I can't calm down.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Probably because you're too shy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After all, you are still boyfriends, you share a bed, you will be surprised, curious, excited, and maybe even worry about your future love life, so you will not sleep well under so many emotional interferences.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Feng Shijin Dream Cang bitter empty surging fresh.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    That's because you're too nervous or excited

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The sales of the knowledge imitate the public eyebrows.

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