Can t figure out what our feelings are 10

Do you still love her?

If you really love her, then change yourself.

Going to her unit to make trouble is not a solution to the problem, it will only hurt her more.

It's not so easy to divorce from the heart, think about your own children.

It's not so easy to forget a person who has lived with you for 9 years, I don't think she should be for your work and your money, think about whether you are not good enough?

Change yourself!

Going to make trouble is not the solution to the problem, it will only hurt her deeper.

First of all, you have to have a correct attitude, what is 9 years? Isn't 9 years great? If it is 9 years of happiness and love, then of course the feelings are getting deeper and deeper, if it is 9 years of pain and suffering, then it is not long ago disheartened?

She must be at fault for being unfaithful to her marriage first, but you made trouble, and you also said that you haven't done well in the past 9 years, so at this point, if you still want to redeem it, don't worry about any 9-year relationship, don't worry about who is sorry for whom.

Talk to her, admit your shortcomings, and promise to correct them. Don't still stand on a high place, keep your posture down. Use children more to talk about things, after all, there is no mother who doesn't hurt her children.

But depending on what you say, you can't even talk together, even if you get it back, it may not last long, maybe it's really better to leave ......

It's getting to this point where it's hard to do. In the past, she only thought that you alone knew, and others didn't know, so there were secrets to keep, but now that you make a fuss and the matter is public, she doesn't care, and it's not easy to persuade back.

Familiar idea: Now the only way is to let the man take the initiative to leave her, how to let the man take the initiative to leave? It's your choice whether to use soft or hard! I feel like if the law is passed, she will never be able to return to you.

Since you know that you are not good, of course, you should start by changing yourself, be a new self, be a motivated, considerate, respectable, and loving man. Your wife may change her mind when she sees your change!

1.Keeping one's marriage and not getting divorced has nothing to do with dignity. You're too manly.

Method: One-armed Ranger The method is ok.

Be considerate and care about your wife. Work on the ground running. Although the character is difficult to change, it must be changed.

Benefits: This is good for children, wife, and yourself.

2.Divorce hurts the most to the children. Don't forget to beat that man hard, it's not a good thing to seduce someone else's wife.

Have you thought about your children after a divorce? Now it's not just about the two of you, you already have children, you should think about them, divorce can't solve the fundamental problem. You should calm down and talk about it, why did you get to this point, since you can get married, and you have children, it means that the two of you have feelings before getting married, marriage needs to be managed, you yourself are too unconfident, you always feel that you are not as good as your wife, so if you go on, your wife will also think that she has found an incapable husband, think about it yourself.

Feelings are such a thing, to put it bluntly, there are mistakes in both aspects, just understand each other's problems, determine what you want, and then go for it.

Letting go is also giving yourself a path. Give yourself a fresh start.

Leave, because he doesn't love you anymore, why bother anymore, let her be free, and let yourself be free.

Hehe, feelings are really not easy.

Love itself is a very good thing, this is because in the process of falling in love, people are often emotional, not rational, and they can't figure it out when they encounter a lot of things, and there is no need to figure it out. Therefore, if a person says that he has figured it out in a relationship, it proves that he has given up on the relationship, and the possibility of two people being together is relatively small.

First of all, I figured out these words in the relationship, although the mountain is relatively simple, but the meaning behind it is very profound. Because this represents rationalization, what is often needed in emotional life is sensibility, not rationality. When a person tends to be rational in his feelings, he will suffer from gains and losses, and will calculate his own efforts and returns.

In the end, I figured out this sentence to show that I finally chose to give up, which is a kind of detachment and self-deprecation after giving up.

Of course, from another point of view, figuring it out in a relationship does not exactly mean giving up, because loving someone does not necessarily mean having someone, and sometimes retreating does not mean giving up on love. Many people have always loved others in their hearts, but they choose not to say it, which is probably because they have no opportunity to confess at present, and the time is not ripe enough not to confess. When the opportunity comes, they will also be brave enough to express their feelings, and the two may also come together.

Boys are not this kind of psychology, they just talk about it, because they know that as long as they say this kind of thing, girls will be very happy, in fact, in their hearts, they don't want girls to eat like pigs, they want their girlfriend to be a healthy, beautiful, positive and sunny girl, not a base spike to see the food can't control themselves, so if your boyfriend often tells you this kind of thing, you just need to listen to it, the left ear branches in the right ear out, You don't need to take it to heart at all, you have to know the mouth of a man, a ghost who deceives.

Once my boyfriend also told me this kind of thing, but I immediately guessed his careful thoughts, under my questioning, she finally told the truth, he said that he wanted me to keep it like this, don't be fat, no matter how fat it is, it will not be the beauty in his heart, he also has to consider the marriage between the two of us, in fact, I am very happy that my boyfriend can confess these words to me, which also makes me understand that as a girl, you can't just listen to men's nonsense, You can't just add weight to yourself.

Girls know that Fengmin herself has to be self-aware, once you are fat, what do you think you can attract your boyfriend? Is it your looks or your talent? Don't think that you accept the worst of me to be qualified to accept the best me, when you get worse you can never come back, when you graduate fat you can no longer lose weight, few people can have perseverance and perseverance to persevere**.

There are many people who break up with their boyfriends because they don't control their weight, girls should be warned, you should not only be in good shape, but also should be knowledgeable and eloquent, so that you can find an excellent boyfriend, don't make do with finding a boyfriend from the garbage heap.

This stupidity doesn't necessarily mean that sometimes you figure it out.,Maybe you learn to understand each other's reputation and bridge.,It's better to get along with each other.,Qingmeng But if you feel that the other party is not suitable, you will naturally choose to leave!

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because he has been injured, he will be friends if he does not cheat; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what your stool tribe really engraves in their hearts.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

For those who don't love themselves, what they need most is to understand the disadvantages of dates, give up and bless. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

First of all, her family expects a lot from her. It must be both work and marriage.

If she hasn't told her family about you, as you said, you already have a job, so is she worried that the family may not be happy with you? Even think that you delayed her graduate school entrance examination, and have a bad impression of you?

Secondly, as a student who is about to graduate, a girl, she faces a lot of problems. The graduate school entrance examination is very hard, even if you watch her accompany her all the way, her hardships are not something that others can understand. Not to mention failure (sorry, my own experience).

So she might be a little lost. Add to that the uncertainty about the future, especially if your city is very large, and the pressure will be even greater.

Tell me about my own thoughts on feelings.

Marriage includes love and family.

Love is a business for both of you. We should understand and support each other, communicate more, and be more considerate. Only by sharing weal and woe can we be stable. Long-term vision is the future.

Family is a matter of nearly 10 people in two families. All these people will take into account work, food and clothing, their own conditions (tall, short, fat and thin, education, background), habits, concepts, etc. These are all things that must be faced, and they are an important juncture for whether love can go on.

So everyone who faces feelings will have confusion and pressure.

I hope my opinion can be helpful in your situation. good luck!

Alas.. It's exactly the same as me. Yesterday I said goodbye to my man. I'll tell you why. What she meant by that: She's in you and her house. These two of them. Chose her home. Got it?

Love doesn't seem to have a standard Love can't be measured Love is not a memory A process A result Love requires both parties to invest Tolerate each other Care for each other Love can't be said But it can be described in words Love can't open your mouth But it can make you regret it for a lifetime Love has laughter and tears There are bitter and sweet Love Ups and downs All kinds of tastes Love It's easy to start Breaking up painful Love The process is beautiful The end is not Otherwise, love needs to slow down Love Running too fast will fall Love is like a game of two people and three feet Love needs a little tacit cooperation Love Built on the hearts of both parties Love is not the only thing in life, but it is the focus of life Love transcends time and space and age There is no distance Love Let the two hearts be close Close to each other Love makes you ignore everything Love is a nonsensical joke Love can't catch love Can't feel love Can't feel love Can't feel love Let you ignore everything Love is a nonsensical joke Love can't catch love Can't feel love Can't feel it Can't feel love Can't feel love Can't feel love Can't feel love Can't feel love Can't feel love I feel that it exists Love But I can know that it is separated Love is only suitable for two people together Love cannot be perfect But it always makes people look forward to love is a kind of happiness Love is a cup of coffee with milk Sweet and sweet Love is powerless Love needs to be blessed Love needs to trust each other Love is not a game No winning Love You have to face it seriously every minute and every second Love You have to face it honestly Don't run away Love You have to learn too much but you understand too little Love can't start over Love is not a game Love needs a lot of learning Love is not difficult to say It's not easy to say Only the person in love can understand Bless you to be a loser.