I always let our feelings hurt, why do I always hurt in my feelings?

Pisces is a zodiac sign that lives for feelings, and the fantasy is that you are still a little sensitive and possessive in your nature. I mean you, you just care about her, or you just want to possess her. Two people are together, happy, harmonious and happy, it feels right, those trivial things, sit down openly and honestly and say clearly.

Understand her thoughts and feelings, and there is no problem that cannot be solved, no matter what the outcome may be. I don't think you want to wait until you're married, sitting down and talking, it's too late. Like her to want and go on, this is your only choice, otherwise you will continue to argue, you will continue to struggle, you will continue to break her heart

You guys don't fit! There is a different view of needs in some aspects.

Think about whether you're really a good fit together? If you get married in the future, there is still such disharmony, I will not be happy first, the matter of two people when they get married, the life is a lifetime, don't be hasty. You'd better find a time, have a good chat, say each other's thoughts, opinions, pick it out, if it's suitable, be together, if it's not suitable, then separate as soon as possible, don't delay the time of the place.

I hope you can solve it soon, and I believe you will deal with it.

It's not your fault, you and her should have a good talk, tell her what is in your heart, and if she loves you enough, I believe she will change it. If both sides have problems, they must speak out and hold each other in their hearts, and it will become a big problem after a long time. Finally, I hope your relationship can get better and better!

She doesn't love you. Of course, I don't want to be with you, let alone hang out.

Let's talk face to face, solve the problem, everyone is relaxed, drag it like this, you are miserable, she is not happy, find out where the problem is, is the key.

The way emotions are felt varies from person to person, and everyone is affected by a variety of psychological, family, social, and environmental factors in their life and upbringing. Here are some of the reasons that can cause you to hurt in a relationship:

1.Unstable self-worth: The inner self-identification and sense of value are not stable enough, often have doubts and uneasiness about themselves, and the dependence and need for feelings are relatively strong.

2.Lack of emotional skills: Some people aspire to have healthy relationships, but lack the skills to deal with emotional issues, such as expressing feelings, communication, commitment, etc.

3.Lack of emotional maturity: People who are emotionally injured often lack self-awareness and self-management skills, and lack the ability and experience to deal with emotional crises and conflicts for themselves or the other party.

4.Choosing an unreasonable way of dating: You may have chosen an inappropriate way of dating due to over-idealization or irrational emotions, such as starting a relationship too quickly or taking a shallow relationship too seriously.

5.Inexperienced: People who are hurt in a relationship may be due to their younger age, lack of understanding and experience in relationships, and lack the ability to anticipate and cope with changes in feelings.

If you find yourself often hurt in your relationship, you can consider your own emotional problems and gradually learn and grow. For example, you can try to improve your emotional maturity and ability to deal with emotional problems by reading books on psychology and taking emotional management courses.

Because of being in the family of origin, when I start a relationship and really enter the state of love, it is often difficult to really devote myself to it, because I am a person who is relatively insecure and lacks self-confidence. The reason why such a problem arises is mainly because of the original family, in my growth process and under the long-term education and guidance of my parents, I am more reluctant to fall in love, because when I was young, my parents were especially afraid that I would have the problem of early love in order to let me study hard, so they always instilled in me some of their truths, that is, to get along with girls, to keep a certain distance, because many girls are often unreliable, Only when you have a real career in the future can you consider falling in love, because girls are more realistic. Therefore, under the influence of their concept, after graduating from college, I should fall in love at the age of time, I still have some resistance to falling in love, because I am not very satisfied with my state, I am afraid that after starting a relationship, the other party will dislike my job and my income, although at this time, my parents are no longer like when I was studying, but are particularly concerned about my falling in love, and always want to introduce me to a girlfriend, But I didn't have the slightest interest in it, and I thought I was still young and should devote more energy and time to my career.

Try to seriously check yourself to see if you are living in a positive emotional situation. Count it again, you are also equal, cherishing that you have no regrets, silently caring and guarding you; Or someone who has nurtured or nurtured you? Like family, like good friends.

Will you inadvertently ignore the people who have been silently and unconditionally caring for you? In the depths of their implicit hearts, will they also deeply care about you from time to time, thinking about whether you are peaceful, smooth, joyful, happy, and progressive in life? For those who truly care for themselves unconditionally.

Have you reciprocated your gratitude to them in a timely and relative manner with sincere actions?

Encourage you to slowly let go of your hands, and at the same time, also turn your attachment to this fate that cannot be forced for the time being into the driving force behind caring for yourself and the people who really care for you.

Because I have experienced the same emotional distress, I have also been confused for a while. Later, I found that this would add a psychological burden to the person who really cared for me, so I actively compensated, and it turned out that I came out in this way.

After a while, when you also discover and feel the positive value behind this trouble, congratulations, uncle is here to shake your hand.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has a thought.

The person who is looking for it, once it is missed, will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.