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As long as you communicate with your true temperament, you will gradually become familiar with it. Some people are friends, always holding a breath of air, feeling that they must be very good in order to be liked by the other party. That's how I used to make friends.
I remember when I was in college, I had a roommate who was more easy-going, and no matter who I talked to, he was full of kindness and vitality. I liked this kind of person at the time, and I wanted to be friends with him for everything. So I tried to make myself very good and make him think that I was a worthy person.
But after a long time, I still don't feel that our relationship is close. I knew that one time we had a roommate party and had some drink, I took off my disguise, I asked him what kind of people he liked to be friends with, and he said that he liked to be friends with real, people who couldn't pretend. Because when two people have nothing to hide at all and get along with each other wholeheartedly, it is the most sincere.
Since then, I have never pretended to be any longer, exposing all my shortcomings and points to him and letting him know what I really am like. As a result, after graduating from college, we looked for jobs together, and when I got married, he was my best man. When I'm in a bad mood or want to talk to someone, he's the first person I'll contact.
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I feel the need to speak directly to him about your thoughts and tell him that you are good to relate to. I have a friend who was very angry when I first met. Every time he went on a date with me, he would arrive very early.
If he went to my house, he would come to my house in advance and wait, and when the time was almost up, he would go upstairs and knock on the door. Once, I was waiting for him at home, and when I looked out the window, I found him standing in front of my house, all the while watching the time. I opened the door and asked him why he was standing at the door, and he said he would not knock until the appointed time.
Although this is a courtesy, it is very raw for friends. Then I told him that I was a very casual person and didn't like to understand too much, and he slowly changed after understanding, whether I went to him or he looked for me, I didn't see it so much.
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Communicate more and communicate more, some friends are not because they have a weak relationship with you or don't know you, but after a long time, they are embarrassed to disturb you, so keep in touch and interact more. Share anything with your friends. Slowly, it will promote the relationship.
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Know what they think, be there for them when they're unhappy, encourage them, understand them. Don't ask your friends to do something for you. In fact, the best way to get closer to them is if you put your heart into them.
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Often hit ** or ask friends out to go shopping, eat, and talk about ** when you have a bad temperament, you will naturally be familiar with it, and you will not be so angry.
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We often go out to eat, go shopping, and chat together. If you have something to do, you can interact with it and add some feelings. Some good friends will become rusty if they are not maintained for a long time, so the good friends who feel important to them still need to be harassed frequently.
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You can often talk about things on your mind or trivial matters in your life. Let the other person develop a habit of wanting to share everything with you. When you are happy, it is not just to show off your gains, but to share happiness together.
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Communicate with each other, care for each other, don't deliberately ask friends for secrets, be generous, tolerant, understand the small mistakes made by friends occasionally, and often do some things together that they like.
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You can stand up and help your friend when he has a problem, or do your best to comfort him when he is in a bad mood. The relationship between good friends is actually not difficult to maintain, maybe a simple sentence "How are you doing?" It will lead to a lot of heartfelt words.
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